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Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
I'm so the opposite. I've been actively trying to cultivate my wife's bisexual interests. Admittedly, some of it is because I think it's so awesome, but mostly it is because I don't want her to suppress what she feels.
But are you the husband that has to be there to "experience it with her" or is she free to explore on her own terms?
03/18/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
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Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
Y'all still got the party going in here I see! How is everyone?
Great! You missed some serious fun.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
Well, I guess there would be some consolation in it being random, then.
Yeah, I had a virus, which I think allowed trojans to be remotely activated on my computer, including a keylogger, because i was changing my passwords on all 4 accounts (email and fb) simultaneously and could JUST keep up with them until I had disabled the program.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
Well, I guess there would be some consolation in it being random, then.
Yeah, I had a virus, which I think allowed trojans to be remotely activated on my computer, including a keylogger, because i was changing my passwords on all 4 accounts (email and fb) simultaneously and could JUST keep up with them until I had disabled the program.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
So, GWF, I think I have your sense of humor figured out. Wanna hear a joke (that hopefully won't offend everyone else)?
Always.
03/18/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Illusional
Yeah, I thought maybe it was stress. But we do yoga and meditation and I sleep long hours, and I'm taking vitamins and yeah. But the pain feels like really intense, and comes and goes. Like to the point I have to bite my lip or dig my nails into ... more
Go to the ER. Sooner rather than later *gives the Mom look* I will be checking back to make sure you went. Not like this winter. Promise.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
I'm so the opposite. I've been actively trying to cultivate my wife's bisexual interests. Admittedly, some of it is because I think it's so awesome, but mostly it is because I don't want her to suppress what she feels.
I personally dislike how my boyfriend tries to poke and prod at my like of girls. It's irritating. Not saying your wife feels that way though, LOL.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Illusional
I think I'm going to the ER tomorrow. Still stomach issues, which isn't an ulcer or UTI or anything.
OH shit, HUGE hug. Good luck hun.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
But are you the husband that has to be there to "experience it with her" or is she free to explore on her own terms?
I'm not going to lie, I'd love to be a spectator, but if it goes on without me (or even without my knowledge), I'm perfectly fine with it. I don't own her, I'm just married to her.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
But are you the husband that has to be there to "experience it with her" or is she free to explore on her own terms?
Yeah that makes a HUGE difference.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
Great! You missed some serious fun.
I can tell! I had to get everyone down for the night. We got the kids this week, lol.
03/18/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
I'm not going to lie, I'd love to be a spectator, but if it goes on without me (or even without my knowledge), I'm perfectly fine with it. I don't own her, I'm just married to her.
Well, it does seem to be *every* guy's fantasy to be with two women or watch two women. And in fantasy, my Mr is all for it, but when it comes to making things happen, he doesn't want that.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Always.
OK, then (I apologize in advance if this offends anyone).

Why do women have legs?
03/18/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
I'm not going to lie, I'd love to be a spectator, but if it goes on without me (or even without my knowledge), I'm perfectly fine with it. I don't own her, I'm just married to her.
How progressive of you.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Go to the ER. Sooner rather than later *gives the Mom look* I will be checking back to make sure you went. Not like this winter. Promise.
*hides under a blanket* Yes, yes. I'm going. ><!
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
I'm not going to lie, I'd love to be a spectator, but if it goes on without me (or even without my knowledge), I'm perfectly fine with it. I don't own her, I'm just married to her.
....... I wish more men felt that way. You are one of the only ones that I have heard that statement from.
03/18/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Illusional
*hides under a blanket* Yes, yes. I'm going. ><!
I know people in Maryland. I WILL make sure you go. Think I'm kidding?????
03/18/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
*por sentir tu amor*
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
OK, then (I apologize in advance if this offends anyone).

Why do women have legs?
why?
03/18/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I know people in Maryland. I WILL make sure you go. Think I'm kidding?????
0.0 Maryland's big. And I don't really think you're kidding.... will they bring me some food? I'm tired of living on junk, LOL
03/18/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Illusional
0.0 Maryland's big. And I don't really think you're kidding.... will they bring me some food? I'm tired of living on junk, LOL
I know someone in Annapolis. Her husband's in the Navy. He's big. MM'kay?
03/18/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Finally couldn't hold it and had to pee. What'd I miss?
03/18/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
why?
Because otherwise they'd leave tracks like snails.

*hides until the dust settles*
03/18/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
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Originally posted by Illusional
0.0 Maryland's big. And I don't really think you're kidding.... will they bring me some food? I'm tired of living on junk, LOL
I know people in MAryland! I used to live there! Well in MAryland and Delaware!
03/18/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I know someone in Annapolis. Her husband's in the Navy. He's big. MM'kay?
Oh shit, Annapolis is kinda close. ><!
03/18/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
Because otherwise they'd leave tracks like snails.

*hides until the dust settles*
haaaaa

That one's not that bad
03/18/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
Finally couldn't hold it and had to pee. What'd I miss?
A brief discussion about open marriage. Illusional needs to go to the hospital. That might be all.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by ZenaidaMacroura
Finally couldn't hold it and had to pee. What'd I miss?
Vaccinium is very progressive.
03/18/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Vaccinium is very progressive.
Very progressive ::nods::
03/18/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
....... I wish more men felt that way. You are one of the only ones that I have heard that statement from.
It is uncommon. I read that once on a bondage website (I'm not actually into bondage that much, really, but the wife is), and it really resonated with me. I believed it for a long time, but never had a way to put it into words.
03/18/2011