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Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by LoveDove
Well, my birthday is on Friday, so I'll be partying with friends for that. But otherwise, I don't really have halloween plans for monday. Classes on Tuesday prohibit anything besides excessive eating of candy on Monday night, ahaha.
Happy birthday!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i'm muching a whole box of HALLOWEEN OREOS for the occasion... i'll eat some for yall.


on halloween it's my boy's birthday! and our 1 year anniversary weekend will just be ending. so i'm dressing up as SUPER HOT crazy ... more
Pictures please. hehe
10/24/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Ansley
I love my Goodfella, even if I did slice off the base...
You did what!?!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
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Originally posted by Kkay
Those are hot. I wanted them, but they're for smaller wrists only Ended up going for the Aslan cuffs and haven't regretted it!
I got pretty tiny wrists. xP -laugh- The Aslan ones are pretty, too! Will be looking into those once there's more padding in my pockets. ;D
10/24/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
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Originally posted by Lady Neshamah
i use it for everything. it's slicker and stronger. i even use it to get into my latex outfits.
Hmm, now I wonder if it'd work with Skyn brand condoms....
10/24/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Ok, so the basic gist of how this is going to work (for those of you who are joining us for the very first time) is that we're going to spend a very long time talking and just generally being silly. Along the way I'll spout out some trivia, ... more
I'm dressing up and partying! I'm a Saloon Girl and my boyfriend is a ninja.
10/24/2011
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Vanille
These. -^^-
Oh those really are nice. They'll be worth it once they're back in stock!
10/24/2011
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Happy birthday!
Thanks!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
OK, since there is toy talk going on, what vibrator can you ladies recommend that I get for my wife? It needs to be able to stimulate her clit during sex, but it need not necessarily be a specifically designed clitoral vibe. Cost isn't an ... more
... MiMi?

It's the one I end up using all the time, and it can also be used for massages as well.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We're handing out candy for a couple of hours, then Alan & the boys will be watching scary movies while I meet up with some like-minded friends for a ritual circle.

BTW... has anyone here ever tried the KoolAid dye technique for their ... more
If it's just for the evening, get some of the spray-in-a-bottle or the mascara-type stuff made for streaks.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
OK, since there is toy talk going on, what vibrator can you ladies recommend that I get for my wife? It needs to be able to stimulate her clit during sex, but it need not necessarily be a specifically designed clitoral vibe. Cost isn't an ... more
I LUV the FunFactory Spring for clit play. Lots of deep rumbly vibrations, and silicone that's fit to grind on.

~M
10/24/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Vaccinium
OK, since there is toy talk going on, what vibrator can you ladies recommend that I get for my wife? It needs to be able to stimulate her clit during sex, but it need not necessarily be a specifically designed clitoral vibe. Cost isn't an ... more
vac, i personally always go with the simple handheld batt. pack bullets. they're usually about $10 on here and easy to replace. some will last 6 months, some years. they suck batteries a bit but turning one batt. backwards when not in use helps alot. i find these are the most powerful.

i recommend the dual bullet vibe by shaki toys. it has great patterns, great intensity, and is super small. and you can use 2 vibes if you all get extra frisky.
10/24/2011
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Ok, so the basic gist of how this is going to work (for those of you who are joining us for the very first time) is that we're going to spend a very long time talking and just generally being silly. Along the way I'll spout out some trivia, ... more
I will be staying home. Since I am still regaining the feeling back in my legs and gaining my muscle back that I lost from weight loss surgery. I will also be watching Slaughter High (the cheesy 80s flick) with my husband. It has a great sex scene in it.

I will also be watching Garfield's Halloween & It's The Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown. I will also be either knitting or crocheting or both.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
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Originally posted by GonetoLovehoney
Hmm, now I wonder if it'd work with Skyn brand condoms....
it should
10/24/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We're handing out candy for a couple of hours, then Alan & the boys will be watching scary movies while I meet up with some like-minded friends for a ritual circle.

BTW... has anyone here ever tried the KoolAid dye technique for their ... more
I haven't ever tried Koolaid, although I've heard it's pretty permanent. I might try a spray in if you're just looking for one night of color.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
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Originally posted by Kkay
How strong does she like it?
Stronger than a cheap vibe and less than the Hitachi. I know that's incredibly vague, but it's all I've got to go on.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
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Originally posted by Vanille
I got pretty tiny wrists. xP -laugh- The Aslan ones are pretty, too! Will be looking into those once there's more padding in my pockets. ;D
Lucky! My partner is the same way; it makes it so much easier to find cuffs/watches/bracelet s etc.
10/24/2011
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
I still don't have a costume set up (eeeek), but I did just buy some Halloween candy. Eating candy is my plan so far.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
OK, since there is toy talk going on, what vibrator can you ladies recommend that I get for my wife? It needs to be able to stimulate her clit during sex, but it need not necessarily be a specifically designed clitoral vibe. Cost isn't an ... more
Mimi or We-Vibe Touch.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Kindred
Much better thanks. I'm going to start working out again tomorrow (/crosses fingers). I also have shoulder tendinitis so I'm limited in terms of working my upper body.

Sorry to hear that both of you aren't feeling well.
We'll get over it, eventually. Hubs climbed a tree because I accidentally tossed his keys onto a branch and that was the only way to get it down. Hahaha stupid me. So I feel really bad for him.

Shoulder tendinitis...that's gotta be a pain in the tuckus! Wonder if that's what's going on with my shoulder. Ah the joys of getting old(er)!
10/24/2011
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
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Originally posted by Jul!a
... MiMi?

It's the one I end up using all the time, and it can also be used for massages as well.
That's actually one I'm considering getting. Do you really like it a lot? (I just keep telling myself that $80 for a vibe seems a bit excessive.)
10/24/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
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Originally posted by ellejay
Oh those really are nice. They'll be worth it once they're back in stock!
I know! I can't wait.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by Vaccinium
OK, since there is toy talk going on, what vibrator can you ladies recommend that I get for my wife? It needs to be able to stimulate her clit during sex, but it need not necessarily be a specifically designed clitoral vibe. Cost isn't an ... more
This is a few pages ago now, and I haven't tried it, but everybody's raving about the WeVibe Salsas and Tangos these days...
10/24/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Pictures please. hehe
will DEF post them. too bad i voted myself for the halloween contest to be done before halloween... i cuold've entered my outfit! it woulda rocked.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Ansley
Hey babe! Been meaning to call you to catch up, hope you had fun with your sister!
I did! For the time we actually got to spend together. Turns out we both have fairly active social lives that don't line up lol.
10/24/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
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Originally posted by Lady Neshamah
it should
Whoo,sorry. I've never used anything other than basic water-based lube. I must have had a brain reboot. >_<
10/24/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
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Originally posted by toxie m
I hear it's messy and not all that effective. Hmm. Let me think, I feel like I knew a better alternative once, back when I was the queen of silly coloured hair
If you think of something else let me know then. I've never colored my hair in my life, so I'm pretty "duh" about the whole thing

~M
10/24/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by Antipova
I'm dressing up and partying! I'm a Saloon Girl and my boyfriend is a ninja.
That Saloon Girl costume is great I have Coquette's 2010 model, saloon girls ftw. Isn't there something about cowboys and ninjas not being friends though? Hum
10/24/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Jul!a
... MiMi?

It's the one I end up using all the time, and it can also be used for massages as well.
I really have to look up the Mimi again, I keep hearing very good things about it, but I'm afraid that I might not like my Siri as much afterward.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Kindred
You did what!?!
Yep. I took a razor blade and sliced that sucker right the eff off. Makes oral and penetration much, much easier.
10/24/2011