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What are you into BDSM wise?

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Contributor: RavenInChains RavenInChains
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Originally posted by butts
What turns you on BDSM wise?

I tried to include everything common/semi-common that I could think of at the moment, I'm sure I missed a lot! Feel free to tell if you have kinks other than whats listed.
I like the pretty rough stuff, choking, hard spanking, suspension and rope bondage, hard floggers and single tail whips, etc.
12/16/2012
Contributor: FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
I like about half of these. I think we're moderately kinky, not too extreme most of the time but not "vanilla-kink" either.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
Wow, I didn't know some of this stuff was considered BDSM. My wife loves it when I spank her until her ass is red, has me bite her on the ass on occasion and lightly bite her nipples and clit. Who knew?
12/17/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
I like alot of this stuff!
12/17/2012
Contributor: Grellopop Grellopop
I wanna try everything at least once! all of it is attractive to me minus body mod and blood play, sounding too... but other than that EVERYTHING! =D let's get kinky!
12/21/2012
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Leather restraints all the way baby!
12/29/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I'm moving on up, but I don't think I'll ever really progress past a nice hard slap and bruises.
12/30/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I check marked a lot of stuff. Basically we stick to hard core spankings with paddles, canes, floggers, etc. We do light chocking not hardcore because I am chicken. We do humiliation stuff sometimes. Age play is part of our D/s relationship. There is a lot more too.
01/01/2013
Contributor: KissTheSkyBaby KissTheSkyBaby
I like everything I checked but my favorite has to be any kind choking or breath play. I react physically to my partner just placing his hand on my neck. For me it's where bondage started.
01/01/2013
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
latex + ropes =
01/01/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
What turns you on BDSM wise?

I tried to include everything common/semi-common that I could think of at the moment, I'm sure I missed a lot! Feel free to tell if you have kinks other than whats listed.
Spanking, suspension (with cuffs), rope, sensory deprivation!
01/14/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Pretty much everything as far as giving goes!
01/14/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
I checked off a lot of these...
03/08/2013
Contributor: BlueVelvet BlueVelvet
rope
03/08/2013
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
lighter side for us. me giving, mostly
03/08/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
pretty vanilla
03/08/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
What turns you on BDSM wise?

I tried to include everything common/semi-common that I could think of at the moment, I'm sure I missed a lot! Feel free to tell if you have kinks other than whats listed.
Damn! you were very thorough on this post! You've got everything! except maybe feces lol
03/09/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
There's quite a few you missed, but I was able to vote on some.
03/14/2013
Contributor: table38792 table38792
Oh man so many things. Light bondage, spanking, slapping, bruises, hair pulling, verbal humiliation, role-play, etc. The list goes on!
03/14/2013
Contributor: sinnerandsaint sinnerandsaint
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
What turns you on BDSM wise?

I tried to include everything common/semi-common that I could think of at the moment, I'm sure I missed a lot! Feel free to tell if you have kinks other than whats listed.
I'm a "pet" by nature, so most of the Master's that I've sought out have followed suit. I am very much into sitting at my Sir's feet and behaving, as well as provoking him to spank me... spanking is my weakness. I enjoy choking and breath play but not to the point of passing out, being slapped, degraded, thrown around and restrained. As my Sir says "You're my favorite piece of property." It works for me.

I've never tried any blood or mod play. I'm intrigued but the thought of breaking skin is a little nerve wracking. I'd very much like to try shibari and firecupping.
03/14/2013
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
What turns you on BDSM wise?

I tried to include everything common/semi-common that I could think of at the moment, I'm sure I missed a lot! Feel free to tell if you have kinks other than whats listed.
basically all of this, but i only voted for what the hubs and i have actually had a chance to do so far ;3
03/15/2013
Contributor: MrsandMrbunnysoffun MrsandMrbunnysoffun
ROFL I have never checked so many boxes in a poll at once (blushes.. closet freak )
04/07/2013
Contributor: SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
I prefer to GIVE more than RECEIVE most of this. hehe
04/07/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
I'm into it alot...I have recently switched fears and am bringing my wife along this journey!
05/03/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
We're pretty vanilla- handcuffs, being rough with me and once in a while he'll lightly choke me. I'm actually the only one into it (he just likes to arouse me and make me happy), which is totally fine with me. My ex was very into it (too much for me) and wanted it as a lifestyle and I didn't.
05/06/2013
Contributor: I preferred a mix between the two I preferred a mix between the two
Ropes cuff being spanked ect
11/17/2020