There are several types of toys for BDSM use, so please feel free to comment on those I missed as well as those I've included. Please feel free to share stories below.
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What type of BDSM toys do you like, or would you use?
04/29/2015
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I like to use wrist and ankle restraints during "playtime".
04/29/2015
Restraints, anytime, of any kind. I love it! Even when he uses his own hands to restrain. Throw in a blindfold and I will bend at his mercy. I think I'm a Restraint Whore lol.
I haven't tried gags. I don't think I would like the feeling, the drooling, or my ability to speak taken away. But...I will also try pretty much anything at least once.
I would love to try something like a violet wand.
I haven't tried gags. I don't think I would like the feeling, the drooling, or my ability to speak taken away. But...I will also try pretty much anything at least once.
I would love to try something like a violet wand.
04/29/2015
I, O.H. marked paddle. We have some other items listed there, but O.W. will not allow them. No gags ever for sure. If anything we like to hear moaning/groaning, yups, ouch from each other.
No, YKW. Not going to mention "The Bruise"
No, YKW. Not going to mention "The Bruise"
04/29/2015
I go in for restraints also. I have had a lot of other stuff, except pain causing ones. Self-bondage (eh), weird pole and velcro get ups(eesh painful). Just do not film me.
Best one is wrist restraint.
Best one is wrist restraint.
04/29/2015
All of the above. My other includes:
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all.
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all.
04/29/2015
Wrist and ankle restraints and blindfolds — he can do anything on me (no pain, please) while I'm feeling helpless yet pleasurable!
04/29/2015
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My list fails in comparison lol. I had to Google Boomsticks That was one I hadn't heard of. I'm sure there are many more to come as I tip toe through all this goodness.
Originally posted by
Sir
All of the above. My other includes:
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, ... more
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, ... more
All of the above. My other includes:
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all. less
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all. less
04/29/2015
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YKW?
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
I, O.H. marked paddle. We have some other items listed there, but O.W. will not allow them. No gags ever for sure. If anything we like to hear moaning/groaning, yups, ouch from each other.
No, YKW. Not going to mention "The Bruise"
No, YKW. Not going to mention "The Bruise"
04/30/2015
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I don't like the idea of drawing blood. Should I presume you don't mind it?
Originally posted by
Sir
All of the above. My other includes:
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, ... more
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, ... more
All of the above. My other includes:
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all. less
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all. less
04/30/2015
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I don't actually know what that is either, but I don't have time to google it right now.
Originally posted by
Vnessa
My list fails in comparison lol. I had to Google Boomsticks That was one I hadn't heard of. I'm sure there are many more to come as I tip toe through all this goodness.
04/30/2015
Personally my favorite would be whips and maybe wrist restraints. See my other recent post for more info.
04/30/2015
Never ventured much into BSDM, but i've always been intrigued by spreader bars. They seem like they could be so much fun!
04/30/2015
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It's not a real name for anything. she just calls it that because she says it "goes boom" when it hits. It's really an inch or so thick aluminum cable.
Originally posted by
Vnessa
My list fails in comparison lol. I had to Google Boomsticks That was one I hadn't heard of. I'm sure there are many more to come as I tip toe through all this goodness.
05/02/2015
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I love it.
Originally posted by
Lvstoplay
I don't like the idea of drawing blood. Should I presume you don't mind it?
05/02/2015
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well, that surely isn't what I was thinking. I can see the big boom factor now. Quite resourceful
Originally posted by
Sir
It's not a real name for anything. she just calls it that because she says it "goes boom" when it hits. It's really an inch or so thick aluminum cable.
05/02/2015
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Its definitely not what I thought it was lol. Its a special little name given by his lovely girl for a cable used
Originally posted by
Lvstoplay
I don't actually know what that is either, but I don't have time to google it right now.
05/02/2015
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Yeah, it feels like being hit with a truck and can break bone, so it doubles as a house defense system.
Originally posted by
Vnessa
well, that surely isn't what I was thinking. I can see the big boom factor now. Quite resourceful
05/03/2015
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Interesting...
Originally posted by
Sir
Yeah, it feels like being hit with a truck and can break bone, so it doubles as a house defense system.
05/03/2015
Any one use nipple vibrators? I'd like to give them a shot but all the ones I've seen look poorly designed and cheap.
05/03/2015
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Ditto!
Originally posted by
Inquisitor
Any one use nipple vibrators? I'd like to give them a shot but all the ones I've seen look poorly designed and cheap.
05/03/2015
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I have tried them. I have a few pairs and actually just got a new set. I'm hoping to test them out this week. I will be doing a review on them, however I don't mind telling you what I think of them either if you'd like.
Originally posted by
Inquisitor
Any one use nipple vibrators? I'd like to give them a shot but all the ones I've seen look poorly designed and cheap.
05/04/2015
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I'm listing...
Originally posted by
Lvstoplay
I have tried them. I have a few pairs and actually just got a new set. I'm hoping to test them out this week. I will be doing a review on them, however I don't mind telling you what I think of them either if you'd like.
05/04/2015
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LOL, sounds good I'll let you know.
Originally posted by
Inquisitor
I'm listing...
Do you like electro-stim by the way? I have a pair that uses that and then two that simply vibrate.
05/04/2015
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Oooo, please share both. Especially electro-stim! That intrigues me.
Originally posted by
Lvstoplay
LOL, sounds good I'll let you know.
Do you like electro-stim by the way? I have a pair that uses that and then two that simply vibrate.
Do you like electro-stim by the way? I have a pair that uses that and then two that simply vibrate.
05/04/2015
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Haven't tried Electro-stim. That is a little outside my comfort zone. I'm sure it's harmless, but, it just doesn't appeal to me. I haven't asked the partner, but, I'm almost sure it would be a negative.
Originally posted by
Lvstoplay
LOL, sounds good I'll let you know.
Do you like electro-stim by the way? I have a pair that uses that and then two that simply vibrate.
Do you like electro-stim by the way? I have a pair that uses that and then two that simply vibrate.
05/04/2015
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Dang!!!
Originally posted by
Sir
All of the above. My other includes:
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, ... more
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, ... more
All of the above. My other includes:
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all. less
Canes
"Boomsticks" (what my girl calls one of our implements of destruction)
Tazers
Floggers
Knives
Scalpels
I am a pretty heavy S&M player, so saying "whips, crops, and paddles" is relatively broad. A paddle could weigh a ton and topple someone over or be as thin as a sheet of paper and not hurt at all. less
05/04/2015
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They are!!
Originally posted by
Inquisitor
Any one use nipple vibrators? I'd like to give them a shot but all the ones I've seen look poorly designed and cheap.
05/04/2015
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Electro-stim isn't bad at all actually. Have you ever used a tens unit on your back? It's the same basic concept. It has various setting and can be easily adjusted, my only issue with it is that the clamps don't like to stay on if you're moving much unless it's worn under clothing.
Originally posted by
Inquisitor
Haven't tried Electro-stim. That is a little outside my comfort zone. I'm sure it's harmless, but, it just doesn't appeal to me. I haven't asked the partner, but, I'm almost sure it would be a negative.
05/06/2015
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I like the electro-stim ones, but pm me for where to find them as I don't think I'm allowed to post that here. The vibrating ones I'm reviewing in the next day or so are from Eden's (their own brand actually). I tried them out, and while I can't say they're of the highest quality possible, they do work. I'm hoping to get a few more to test out and see which ones are best, but so far I'd say my electro-stim are a better quality and work well, or for vibration the ones from Eden's are better than the other set I have.
Originally posted by
Vnessa
Oooo, please share both. Especially electro-stim! That intrigues me.
05/06/2015