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Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I like the electro-stim ones, but pm me for where to find them as I don't think I'm allowed to post that here. The vibrating ones I'm reviewing in the next day or so are from Eden's (their own brand actually). I tried them out, and ... more
Lvstoplay, this might be right up your alley regarding electro-stim. If you wouldn't mind taking a look at this. I know it is a little bit pricy, however, I have the original version without the electro-stim capability. I have to say the original is tons of fun.

Having that kind of power in your hand could be a game changer...
05/06/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Lvstoplay, this might be right up your alley regarding electro-stim. If you wouldn't mind taking a look at this. I know it is a little bit pricy, however, I have the original version without the electro-stim capability. I have to say the original ... more
I'll be looking into it. Thanks!
05/15/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Lvstoplay, this might be right up your alley regarding electro-stim. If you wouldn't mind taking a look at this. I know it is a little bit pricy, however, I have the original version without the electro-stim capability. I have to say the original ... more
Hmm... so are yours just vibrating ones then? They do look cool, but they are a little expensive. I'm considering a future purchase of a few other electro-stim items, but the clamps I have are actually nice. They hurt like hell if you don't use them right, but done right... Let's just say they're very nice.
05/15/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Hmm... so are yours just vibrating ones then? They do look cool, but they are a little expensive. I'm considering a future purchase of a few other electro-stim items, but the clamps I have are actually nice. They hurt like hell if you ... more
Mine just vibrate, but, that is enough for me most days. When I use it, it adds an interesting twist...

It is expensive though .
05/15/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
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Originally posted by CuriousJ
Never ventured much into BSDM, but i've always been intrigued by spreader bars. They seem like they could be so much fun!
Painful, you mean!
05/15/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Mine just vibrate, but, that is enough for me most days. When I use it, it adds an interesting twist...

It is expensive though .
They are.
05/15/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
party on aisle 15





I found this on FB..lol
05/15/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by symbiasin






I found this on FB..lol
I saw this floating around when 50 Shades came out
05/15/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I saw this floating around when 50 Shades came out
It is out on DVD and Blue Ray this week so Chuckle away.
05/15/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
It is out on DVD and Blue Ray this week so Chuckle away.
They are really promoting it. It's all I've seen, commercials, social media...everywhere. it's on my fire stick thingy for free

Soooo...has your curiosity gotten the best of you? Have you downloaded it? I know Amazon is offering downloads.
05/15/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Eh, I'd rather just watch Porn. I'm gonna pass on the movie.
05/16/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
I have the book, and it was so boring that I only read one book....seems to me a person would just stick around the movie to see naked people......which we can get on porn, even in bdsm style. (IMHO)
05/16/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by symbiasin
I have the book, and it was so boring that I only read one book....seems to me a person would just stick around the movie to see naked people......which we can get on porn, even in bdsm style. (IMHO)
Interesting. I take it, you decided against the download you talked about then.
05/16/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Eh, I'd rather just watch Porn. I'm gonna pass on the movie.
Porn is always a #1 option lol
05/16/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Eh, I'd rather just watch Porn. I'm gonna pass on the movie.
You're not missing anything. I saw it when it came out and well, let's just say I've seen better.
05/22/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by symbiasin
I have the book, and it was so boring that I only read one book....seems to me a person would just stick around the movie to see naked people......which we can get on porn, even in bdsm style. (IMHO)
I've read better BDSM books than the 50 Shades of Grey movie. I haven't read the book, though since I already had it when I saw the movie I may in hopes that it's better than the movie was. There was actually less sex in the movie than I was expecting, but I didn't like it either way.
05/22/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I've read better BDSM books than the 50 Shades of Grey movie. I haven't read the book, though since I already had it when I saw the movie I may in hopes that it's better than the movie was. There was actually less sex in the movie than ... more
From what I read in the book, if they made the movie and used the book as the script, they might not have been able to make a non adult themed mainstream movie from it. It would have definitely received an much harsher rating.
05/22/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
From what I read in the book, if they made the movie and used the book as the script, they might not have been able to make a non adult themed mainstream movie from it. It would have definitely received an much harsher rating.
Pretty much lol. I've read the books and watched the movie. They definitely had to down play the movie from the script of the book.
05/22/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Pretty much lol. I've read the books and watched the movie. They definitely had to down play the movie from the script of the book.
Are the books any better?
05/31/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Are the books any better?
The books are better. There was a lot left out of the movie and even changed. You still have to take the storyline for what it is. He does have his whacked out issues
05/31/2015
Contributor: sexyfish sexyfish
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I don't like the idea of drawing blood. Should I presume you don't mind it?
yeah that seen a bit much....
07/23/2015
Contributor: sexyfish sexyfish
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Originally posted by CuriousJ
Never ventured much into BSDM, but i've always been intrigued by spreader bars. They seem like they could be so much fun!
I've seen them too, but wonder if if it would just be terribly awkward
07/23/2015
Contributor: Tony Conrad Tony Conrad
We only have a paddle but I have been toying with tying up and blindfolds lately just to make it different. I'd let her have the paddle just in case she wanted to use it. I don't know if she would as it would be her turn to do what she wanted, but if she used it I would be blessed as it would show that that's what she wanted to do with her time in control. I'm never sure how much she gets from doing it to me. She doesn't want it for herself.
08/19/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by sexyfish
yeah that seen a bit much....
It is too much if you ask me.
08/22/2015
Contributor: edenite edenite
I've never tried gags or electro-stim...don't think I'd like either, but would probably try them, cuz ya never know. I'd be more open to electro than a ball-gag because i do like sensation play, but I think a gag would make me panic. Spreader bars are definitely on my want to try list.

for those talking about nipple vibrators...how about touching a vibe to a pair of quality nipple clamps and see if it creates the sensation you're looking for. Unless someone has a suggestion on a good pair of vibrating clamps? I've personally never had any good experiences with vibrating breast toys in general.
08/24/2015
Contributor: Honeymuffin33 Honeymuffin33
I really like ankle/wrist restraints and blindfolds. Whips are good too but I don't like using a gag simply because I enjoy being loud sometimes haha.
10/24/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife and I experimented with blindfolds, restraints and impact toys like paddles, floggers and crops (no canes). Although she found it somewhat pleasurable to be the sub - I really enjoyed it more.

So we've settled into her playing the Dom. She was pretty timid at first - but with time and encouragement she's starting to take on the role more naturally - and I'm loving it. She hasn't left any marks yet - but as she ramps up the impacts, I expect that we're not far from that milestone. I'll be interesting to see how this progresses
11/18/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Honeymuffin33
I really like ankle/wrist restraints and blindfolds. Whips are good too but I don't like using a gag simply because I enjoy being loud sometimes haha.
I won't consider using gags, the idea itself turns me off honestly.
12/26/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife and I experimented with blindfolds, restraints and impact toys like paddles, floggers and crops (no canes). Although she found it somewhat pleasurable to be the sub - I really enjoyed it more.

So we've settled into her playing the ... more
Which do you prefer? You should keep us posted.
12/26/2015
Contributor: GAGUY GAGUY
The Wartenberg Pinwheel is a fun sensation and adds just the right amount of fear for the submissive especially if their blindfold and have never experienced it before. You can apply little or more severe pain depending how much pressure you apply. Trust is an important factor here as with anything. I like using an assortment of floggers as well when they are restrained. Softer one to get her warmed up and then ones that have a lot of a thud sound. Floggers are about two things whether it's thud or sting that your looking for. The type of hide used and number of tails determine that. My submissive describes it as the best massage in the world. If I throw it long enough her endorphins kick in and it sends her to a state of erotic bliss. It's a good idea to give them some after care after the sessions over. That can range from whatever they enjoy
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