I like to be swatted, but not hard. Paddles and whips hand are ok as long as you don't rare back and knock the crap out of me.
To spank or not to Spank
11/30/2011
I just like it rough, but nothing so crazy that I'm left looking like I've been in a fight.
11/30/2011
spanked me
11/30/2011
I enjoy being spanked well enough (I'd rather be hit other places or with a flogger), but my boyfriend LOVES it.
11/30/2011
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I like do both be spanked and to spank
Originally posted by
Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, ... more
What I want to know is, ... more
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
12/01/2011
spank but not where its extremely painful
12/01/2011
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Sorry to hear he got so angry with you, I hope everything worked out well in the end
Originally posted by
SexyTabby
Hubby has similar hang ups. It took a really long time before he got comfortable spanking me and even longer for him to do it with any real pain and satisfaction. I love the strength he has and there is never a question of being injured. He's
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Hubby has similar hang ups. It took a really long time before he got comfortable spanking me and even longer for him to do it with any real pain and satisfaction. I love the strength he has and there is never a question of being injured. He's found some peace with it along the way and enjoys punishing his Naughty Girl now.
I really believe that being soft and gentle has it's place just as well as having a firm hand does. It's all love when done together for one another's pleasure.
We're still working together on getting him to do more non-vanilla things but it's a process with lots of communication and he has a line he won't cross which is perfectly fine too. Just keep talking and make sure you know where your line is and that she does too. Worst thing Hubby did was cross his own line and it ruined a well planned and agreed upon evening. So much that he got stupid and angry at me. He wouldn't speak to me about it for days. Then decided the best way to deal with it was to flat out say he was done with me being a freak and I needed to get a boyfriend...thing is it was never so important to me that I'd need anyone else. It was just something I wanted to try.
So, one step at a time and lots of honest communication. less
I really believe that being soft and gentle has it's place just as well as having a firm hand does. It's all love when done together for one another's pleasure.
We're still working together on getting him to do more non-vanilla things but it's a process with lots of communication and he has a line he won't cross which is perfectly fine too. Just keep talking and make sure you know where your line is and that she does too. Worst thing Hubby did was cross his own line and it ruined a well planned and agreed upon evening. So much that he got stupid and angry at me. He wouldn't speak to me about it for days. Then decided the best way to deal with it was to flat out say he was done with me being a freak and I needed to get a boyfriend...thing is it was never so important to me that I'd need anyone else. It was just something I wanted to try.
So, one step at a time and lots of honest communication. less
12/02/2011
hehe we're just trying this out... and i kinda like it
12/02/2011
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Let me clarify... Spanked lightly yes... Spanked hard No... If you make it a punishment spanking and not a fun kinky naughty one I will probably rip out your trachea with my fingers and call you names
Originally posted by
Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, ... more
What I want to know is, ... more
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
12/04/2011
I totally love a good spanking
12/04/2011
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I love it. Sometimes my husband doesn't wanna do it as hard as I want it sometimes though. If she asks, and keeps asking, do it for her! Love it, and she'll love, so you'll love it. Its great to see somebody really enjoying themselves
Originally posted by
Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, ... more
What I want to know is, ... more
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
12/05/2011
love being spanked=)
12/05/2011
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remind me not to get you angry lol
Originally posted by
CreamySweet
Let me clarify... Spanked lightly yes... Spanked hard No... If you make it a punishment spanking and not a fun kinky naughty one I will probably rip out your trachea with my fingers and call you names
12/05/2011
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Agreed. I don't mind a hard slap on each cheek, even maybe a few smacks, but I hate spanking.
Originally posted by
Cherrylane
I don't like being spanked. I do, however, like having my ass slapped.
I don't know if most people consider there to be a difference, but I do.
I don't know if most people consider there to be a difference, but I do.
It makes me feel like a child, like I am beneath him and not worth his time. This is not enjoyable to me.
He uses it strictly for punishment, because I do not enjoy it at all.
12/07/2011
i'm neutral. i like it to an extent, as in it's neat, but i never go asking for it.
or perhaps my big ass is just ALWAYS asking for it.
or perhaps my big ass is just ALWAYS asking for it.
12/07/2011
I spank my girl for her
12/07/2011
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My wife doesn't like it black and blue or anything, just a short term red
Originally posted by
GoneBabyGone
Agreed. I don't mind a hard slap on each cheek, even maybe a few smacks, but I hate spanking.
It makes me feel like a child, like I am beneath him and not worth his time. This is not enjoyable to me.
He uses it strictly for ... more
It makes me feel like a child, like I am beneath him and not worth his time. This is not enjoyable to me.
He uses it strictly for ... more
Agreed. I don't mind a hard slap on each cheek, even maybe a few smacks, but I hate spanking.
It makes me feel like a child, like I am beneath him and not worth his time. This is not enjoyable to me.
He uses it strictly for punishment, because I do not enjoy it at all. less
It makes me feel like a child, like I am beneath him and not worth his time. This is not enjoyable to me.
He uses it strictly for punishment, because I do not enjoy it at all. less
12/08/2011
I enjoy a good spanking, but I definitely like the flogger better!
12/08/2011
I like a little spanking.
08/24/2012
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I love to be spanked!
Originally posted by
Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, ... more
What I want to know is, ... more
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
08/24/2012
Just finished making 4 paddles. Cant wait to let my partner try them out on me
08/26/2012
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Sigel struggled with this for a long time but when he saw how much I enjoy it he was able to rearrange his thinking. Now Arch was open to the idea from the beginning....but only if I return the favor! LOL
Originally posted by
Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, ... more
What I want to know is, ... more
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
08/26/2012
My hubby thinks I'm a freak. I want spanked but he just doesn't take me seriously.
08/26/2012
Girl here and I looooove it.
08/26/2012
I love getting spanked
08/26/2012
spank away!
08/26/2012
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Spank away! lol.
Originally posted by
Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, ... more
What I want to know is, ... more
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
08/26/2012
I like to spank and be spanked
08/26/2012
oh i am learning that i really love being spanked xD
08/26/2012
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Yeah, it's something that I've loved for a while now. Though I've been telling my mom to stop threatening to spank me, because I react to it differently now.
Originally posted by
Darklyvan
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, ... more
What I want to know is, ... more
My wife likes to be spanked while I do not, nor do I enjoy doing the spanking. I was raise a southern gentleman and taught never to hit a girl. Of course I understand the difference mentally and am working on that.
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
What I want to know is, how many of you like to be spanked? less
08/26/2012