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Contributor: ReesaAndBrandon ReesaAndBrandon
My husband is totally against anything near his booty. Automatic butt clench...does every woman have this problem with their man?
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Yes and he loves it
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122  (72%)
Tried and he'd do it again
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23  (14%)
Tried and he hates it
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25  (15%)
Total votes: 170
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Contributor: ReesaAndBrandon ReesaAndBrandon
?????
01/11/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
If you mean toys, then yes mine likes it. If you mean like a M-M-F threesome where the guys are getting friendly, then no, he wouldn't go for it.
01/11/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
My hubby refuses!
01/12/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I think my man is highly opposed.
01/12/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
He's not interested.
01/12/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
He's never tried it.
01/12/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
If you mean toys or fingers, then yes. My husband likes it; this has not always been the case, mind you! Recently, I did some exploring while I was giving him oral and we found that he did enjoy the perineum massaged, as I played with his balls and sucked his dick. At first, he was like, "Hey!" I told him, "I come in peace! Do you trust me?" He let me fondle and we discovered that he did like it a lot! Again, lots of lube and hours upon hours of play time to warm up.
01/12/2011
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
If you mean toys, then yes mine likes it. If you mean like a M-M-F threesome where the guys are getting friendly, then no, he wouldn't go for it.
ditto.
01/12/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Angel deSanguine
ditto.
Double ditto for me.
01/12/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
If you mean toys, then yes mine likes it. If you mean like a M-M-F threesome where the guys are getting friendly, then no, he wouldn't go for it.
Triple ditto
01/12/2011
Contributor: Boxers Over Briefs Boxers Over Briefs
quadruple ditto combo!
01/14/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
Feel like there should be more answering options here.

I haven't tried, because we talked about it once and he expressed NOT wanting that at all. So I didn't attempt to make any surprise attacks
01/23/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
No, hubby won't have anything to do with anal on him.
01/23/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Alan & Michele
If you mean toys, then yes mine likes it. If you mean like a M-M-F threesome where the guys are getting friendly, then no, he wouldn't go for it.
Exactly. I could have written this response myself.
01/23/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by ReesaAndBrandon
My husband is totally against anything near his booty. Automatic butt clench...does every woman have this problem with their man?
I haven't really discussed this with mine, but he is pretty open and may be open to the possibility in the future. Not sure though, and I don't care wither way because I still have fun with my toys! (Not anally, yet :p)
01/23/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
We've done fingers, but that's as far as we've gotten. Maybe some toys in the future... who knows?!

01/23/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
refused
01/23/2011
Contributor: lamira lamira
I've asked my partner about it, but he is completely against it too. I don't think he likes the idea of the pain.
01/23/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by lamira
I've asked my partner about it, but he is completely against it too. I don't think he likes the idea of the pain.
It should NEVER hurt! If it does you're doing something wrong.
01/24/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Sure we do it frequently - not strap-on, just small to mid-sized vibes or glass shafts.
01/24/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
My partner loves strap-on play, so yes.
01/29/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
I could ask my man to do anything I wanted and he would agree. He's that open about making all of my fantasies and wildest dreams come true.
01/29/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
It's not that he "hates" it, per se. He's done it before and he's not interested in doing it again. I guess I'll have to get rid of my strap ons LOL.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by ReesaAndBrandon
?????
where is the NO, NEVER option? because my honey isn't down for anal play.
01/29/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by ReesaAndBrandon
My husband is totally against anything near his booty. Automatic butt clench...does every woman have this problem with their man?
Only one thing to say----Ouch!!!!
01/29/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Only one thing to say----Ouch!!!!
Not if it's done right.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Twinkies Twinkies
Absolutely love it. In the market for a new harness and toys
01/30/2011
Contributor: Kitty Stryker Kitty Stryker
Quote:
Originally posted by ReesaAndBrandon
My husband is totally against anything near his booty. Automatic butt clench...does every woman have this problem with their man?
Hahahah, no. More like the opposite! I love wearing a cock once in a while, sometimes as a butch, mostly as a femme, and he gets very excited for it. We also do a lot of anal play- fingers, toys, occasionally when I'm very lucky other cute boys. Hurrah for the heteroflexible menfolk!
01/31/2011