I'll field this question for her. I bought a strapon many years ago with the hopes that she would use it on me. Did she ever, the last time she stuck it to me, the dildo broke off the harness. And if we ever find a willing guy to join us, thee will hopefully be some one on one pegging being done.

personally, i would rather do some but play alone, then have her do it, i love her and trust her, but for me its something i would rather do on my own...

He loves it!!

My boy is very into strap-on play and we've vaguely discussed MMF threesomes...

I love to massage his perineum area while giving him oral and his penis responds by flexing itself gently. But after a few minutes, he usually pushes my hand away. I did manage to insert my middle finger into him once while sucking him and he ejaculated immediately. He said he does not like it, but why did he came? He won't let me finger him again ever after.

No to m m f



so far



No to strapon



but......



I am able to bend him over the bathroom counter and ream him out pretty darn well with my finger. I surprised him with it after a good long shower. He was out with a towel wrapped around when I walked in own him ripping it off grabbing his penis. I turned him around bending him over the counter and begin penetrating immediately. I did not give him a warning or time to resist. Before he knew it he was getting into it with his hips and backing onto my finger meeting it as I penetrated him.



After a good washing these days I can get him to let me do him with up to two fingers and three occasionally. I am able to get him to let me use a small anal rocket on him regularly. If I tongue him anally I can penetrate him with pretty much any toy I want. I have even gotten to jam him with a toy called a ram rod and and anal probette, fairly large for his tight little self. It drive me crazy to get to do him. I love it now when we are in the shower and I know he is VERY clean, I tongue him and get him prepared to one of our wall toys. I love stretching him over the head of the toy and feeling it as it goes in and penetrates him.



We have come a long way over the years AND I can now even get him to f*** himself for me.



So YES on the - "he will take it up the backside for me." But only a fingers and toys. And the best part is he will perform for me whenever I request it.


It is sooooo freakin HOT!

I voted for myself, as I usually tend to ask for it. Being on the receiving side is quite awesome

My partner loves pegging. He wants it all the time. If your man doesn't want to do it, he may just think there is something off about it or it scares him. Maybe if you are interested in doing this with him, you should introduce fingering. He might be surprised at how good it can feel.

There's no option for our situation. In our dynamic (a D/s relationship with him as a Dom) being penetrated doesn't play into what he likes. I know some men love it, and I think that's great. My Man isn't interested (although I massage his prostate through the perineum wall) in being penetrated anally, and honestly, I am not all that interested in doing this to him. If he wanted it, it might be different. I have no desire to try to talk him into it, as it simply wouldn't mesh with how we relate to each other sexually.

That's what works for us. Every couple has their own dynamic and does what works for them.

Sadly, my boyfriend won't even give it a chance. He gets "ticklish" even if I press against his anus with no intent to penetrate---my first partner ever to outright refuse a prostate massage. He won't even entertain the idea of letting me tongue him.

It seems to me it's equal parts feeling like *he's* supposed to be the one giving *me* pleasure, and at the same time not understanding that anal penetration is pleasurable. (It took a fair amount of convincing to get him to give me anal, because he thought he'd hurt me.)

I've had past partners who loved being pegged, and after experimenting, I found out I loved pegging. I really miss it, but my boyfriend and I are working on communication in sex through and through, and given his level of resistance this isn't at the top of the itinerary.

He wont even hear of it.

He won't even let me go near there Which is a shame, I've known men that love it!

Another automatic butt clench.
Speaking of which - why isn't that an option on the pole?

My partner won't ever try it.

Bf is not interested in it that's fine and works for us

My ex LOVED it. I would take my toys and use them on him almost more than they were used on me. My current, not quite sure yet.. he hasn't said no to anything, and is willing to try, so we will see.

At first he was indifferent to it. He didn't hate it and he didn't love it. It was our first time so I needed to up my game.

He wanted to do more because he figured the more times he did it the more of an accurate assessment could be made. After the second time around he loved it. Eventually I ordered him a shower dildo that he used on himself when I was away. He eventually starting begging me for anal and I was happy to oblige.

My man likes a little anal stimulation. Nothing too huge.

no thanks

love pegging him

Mmm, we BOTH love it! XD

He's never tried it, and isn't willing to, either..... yet

At first my husband was like "HELL EFFING NO" when it came to anything near or up his ass. no perineum massage, no anal massage (outer or inner), finger, toys, etc.

I started one day just playing with his balls and I worked on his perineum with my other hand and everytime we would do this I would inch closer to his ass. He didn't mind an outer anal massage (right around the hole) but still wouldn't let me do it.

So one day we made a bet and I said I would take him on a fancy golf vacation if he let me finger his asshole for 5 minutes. He totally went for it even though the golf vacation was a load of BS... but to his surprise he really loved the fingering. It became something we did frequently.

We started to use small plugs, but he could never stand anything large until about a year after our anal play. I guess large isn't the right word... just something medium sized. He recently started to like medium sized dildos, especially glass, for anal play and anal toys designed for men.


A lot of his issue was that he felt "gay" if he enjoyed anal. Men have a large sense of pride that they can't get over instantly. I really had to make him understand that he could still enjoy anal play and be straight or not feel violated.

I was very loving when we started, and I think it helped him a lot to see me enjoy it. I would ask him to put a plug in or finger me and eventually that turned into me fingering him. I would finger him while I massaged his perineum, back, scrotum, or while I stroked his dick gently... and it is always a surprisingly intimate thing. You think of anal being something dirty, but it never has been for us.

The only thing we have issues with is that my fiance cannot take the smell of anal. I don't find it to be anything gross and it isn't enough to knock you over or make you gag. He just really can't stand anything that smells and is bodily. He has a strong sense of smell.

I had to pick tried and hated it when we havent tried but he would never go for that

My boy and I have tried stuff but not a harness yet. He said he will try it though. He enjoys having thing put in him but not all the time. It's like a random in the mood type of thing. Maybe once a month or so.

wow, I'm surprised at these results. I think it's awesome that so many are open to that like I am.

"No he probably wouldn't be interested" wasn't an option in your poll.