Harness versus...

Contributor: jen1447 jen1447
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
That's the best. And has a pocket for a bullet/ tango. Can go in washing machine too. Nice stretchy O ring for them larger ones.

Anyway I think that falls in choice # 1- Harness strap on.

So how many harness do you have. We have ... more
Ha, I have 3 too, tho I mainly did that because once I 'discovered' the Joque I got paranoid it'd get damaged or something and then I'd find they were discontinued and my sex life'd be ruined. I've also bought a few for different GFs tho too, so yeah a lot of them have entered the market because of me.

They are kinda involved in terms of switching out dicks, so that's a pretty innovative approach you have. It's worth it for the performance tho - nothing else really comes close IME, and I've been at it a long time.
01/25/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by jen1447
Ha, I have 3 too, tho I mainly did that because once I 'discovered' the Joque I got paranoid it'd get damaged or something and then I'd find they were discontinued and my sex life'd be ruined. I've also bought a few for ... more
We use 3 at a time because don't want to get them messy.

Removing the "dicks" will certainly get lube all over them. They all are still in excellant condition.

Got the Liberator pantie harness in white with black markings to match the BS IS Nice white dildo with black spots. A gal got to be in style you know.

The Joque and leather one should last a lifetime.
01/25/2017
Contributor: jen1447 jen1447
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
We use 3 at a time because don't want to get them messy.

Removing the "dicks" will certainly get lube all over them. They all are still in excellant condition.

Got the Liberator pantie harness in white with black ... more
In all seriousness I think the aesthetics are very important. I want to be able to bring the dick in a major way but I also want to look good doing it, know what I mean? And feel like a boss lol, which looking good will help with.

I have some dildos that I wear just for show or to get blow jobs with, just because the visual is really cool. No coincidence they're usually very large.

Do you usually pick multi-colored/brightly colored toys? I'm usually more into the 'real' look, altho that ends up being black more often than not. Ha, I love talking shop about this stuff, and you sound like a bad girl. (Takes one to spot one.)
01/25/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by jen1447
In all seriousness I think the aesthetics are very important. I want to be able to bring the dick in a major way but I also want to look good doing it, know what I mean? And feel like a boss lol, which looking good will help with.

I have some ... more
Boss, yes, yes yes powerful boss at that. With the proper dil (yeah, I know you like "dick" better) got the power.

No bj's here. How large is large

We have a few multi-colored BD's. Here's the BD Nocture and Nox for you to drool over. Also have the Austin and Nova in multi-color.

Any BD's in your arsenal ? Any canine themes?

Black ? Nah. He wouldn't let me if I wanted black anyway.
Few flesh tones. And first one was brown like him.

And no, not a bad girl. Just a loving one
01/26/2017
Contributor: jen1447 jen1447
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Boss, yes, yes yes powerful boss at that. With the proper dil (yeah, I know you like "dick" better) got the power.

No bj's here. How large is large

We have a few multi-colored BD's. Here's the BD Nocture and ... more
Bad Dragon? Nah, nothing that outlandish for me. I only want a human dick.

Large can be ....extremely large, for show. Even if BF can't get it all in his mouth, it's still a good visual just to rest it on his forehead and stuff like that. He's actually gotten pretty good at sucking dick tho, can even deepthroat to an extent, and to give him his due, HE's a total boss at taking it in the ass.

Whoever said loving and bad couldn't exist in the same girl btw? Naughty.
01/27/2017
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Does anyone have any experience with the SpareParts Sasha?
02/02/2017
Contributor: jen1447 jen1447
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Does anyone have any experience with the SpareParts Sasha?
Not me, but I can certainly vouch for SpareParts itself. But really the Joque is all the harness you'll ever need.
02/03/2017
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by jen1447
Not me, but I can certainly vouch for SpareParts itself. But really the Joque is all the harness you'll ever need.
She likes the feminine look of the Sasha and I have to admit that I do too. Now that I think about it, she also might like the Bella too. It's funny, 2 months ago, this was a hard no for her and I have no idea why (actually I know why...) Anyway, I'm slowly dragging her around to see things from my point of view . I'm just kidding with that last sentence. It's totally consensual.
02/18/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
She likes the feminine look of the Sasha and I have to admit that I do too. Now that I think about it, she also might like the Bella too. It's funny, 2 months ago, this was a hard no for her and I have no idea why (actually I know why...) ... more
Congratulations, sounds like she's now the giver and you're the receiver. Or depending on who's turn it is. Looking forward to reading your experiences in the other pegging threads.
If you need help finding them, just ask

No need to be shy. You already let the cat (strapons) out of the bag. Speaking of strapons, what are her (your) favs.
02/18/2017
Contributor: jen1447 jen1447
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
She likes the feminine look of the Sasha and I have to admit that I do too. Now that I think about it, she also might like the Bella too. It's funny, 2 months ago, this was a hard no for her and I have no idea why (actually I know why...) ... more
It's a pretty natural transition. Usually once a woman puts the whole thing on and feels the swing of her dick, any reservations go away and that urge to experiment takes over. (And the challenge with getting it on her is societal - just hangups about gender roles.)

But that's why it's important to get a good harness. If she straps up but doesn't feel empowered because her dick feels disconnected from her body and just sort of hangs there, she'll mainly feel silly. But if she gets that sense of power and drive and force from a well-fitted harness with a big dick that's held firm and strong ....well there's no looking back lol. Something instinctive about that urge and need to use it.
02/18/2017
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Congratulations, sounds like she's now the giver and you're the receiver. Or depending on who's turn it is. Looking forward to reading your experiences in the other pegging threads.
If you need help finding them, just ask

No ... more
OH&W this is still a work in progress and I'm not entirely sure she is still on board, however, I do know that this has changed from a hard red to a greener yellow, if that makes any sense. It's ok though, if I'm know for being one thing its being a patient man.

Also, if I'm known for being 2 things one is being Half man - Half Amazing and the other is being a patient man.
02/18/2017
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by jen1447
It's a pretty natural transition. Usually once a woman puts the whole thing on and feels the swing of her dick, any reservations go away and that urge to experiment takes over. (And the challenge with getting it on her is societal - just hangups ... more
LOL, Agreed Jen1447!
02/18/2017
Contributor: Devz Devz
full harness makes it easier
02/21/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by jen1447
It's a pretty natural transition. Usually once a woman puts the whole thing on and feels the swing of her dick, any reservations go away and that urge to experiment takes over. (And the challenge with getting it on her is societal - just hangups ... more
Yes, I know exactly about that sense of power since getting the Outlaw to go with my joque. .
Definitely no looking back It's now my go to Dick.
07/25/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Yes, I know exactly about that sense of power since getting the Outlaw to go with my joque. .
Definitely no looking back It's now my go to Dick.
So, does it mean you've got used to it?
How often do you play with the "Boss" now?
07/28/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lena Eden
So, does it mean you've got used to it?
How often do you play with the "Boss" now?
What she means is no looking back to giving up the power. The "Boss " ensures that.
Lol, the Joque and the "Boss" make sure she stays the Boss.

How often ? When it first arrived, every few weeks. So I decided to " hide " it. You know " out of sight, out of mind ". However I know when P time comes along, she'll want it loaded in her Joque
07/28/2017