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Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
I know some people swear by their harnesses but seriously there has got to be other options.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
catt , Gunsmoke , Dominican love , RonLee , C&K0143 , Andykh , Plug man , Jarhead1341 , Herzer , QueerFemmeinist , queertastic , jen1447 , Nanuk , Devz , croxis , bluepeg , KinkNoShame , smolpringle , Soundside46 , Domino's Brand Sugar Cubes
20  (71%)
louise83 , Stephcd
2  (7%)
TheToyGuy , Kitt Katt , sXeVegan90 , OH&W, Lovebears
4  (14%)
Evoluchun , Lena Eden
2  (7%)
Total votes: 28
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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09/19/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
TTG, you left out other. We don't really consider our Liberator Bow Panty to be a harness. (well actually it is technically, but we prefer to call it a pantie)

I read of others saying the Injoyus dlbe is better than Feeldoe and the Share.

I have not checked them out though yet. She likes the pantie styles.
09/19/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
TTG, you left out other. We don't really consider our Liberator Bow Panty to be a harness. (well actually it is technically, but we prefer to call it a pantie)

I read of others saying the Injoyus dlbe is better than Feeldoe and the ... more
Yeah for got that option. Guess your choice would be "neither".
09/19/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Yeah for got that option. Guess your choice would be "neither".
Well technically, there are options. Nothing wrong with Feel... or Share. Here's infor on the latter. link

So what has your SO used and prefer ?
09/20/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
My SO likes many types and we own a dozen or so of various applications.
10/12/2015
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
We have several of the strapless strap-ons, but we actually prefer using a harness with them.
10/12/2015
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I voted for 'Either' because I do love my harness. I have honestly not yet tried the strapless version (feeldoe, share, etc) but I would love to because I've heard great things about them. I'm actually saving up for a Share.
10/12/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by sXeVegan90
I voted for 'Either' because I do love my harness. I have honestly not yet tried the strapless version (feeldoe, share, etc) but I would love to because I've heard great things about them. I'm actually saving up for a Share.
Cool, I know several who swear by them.
10/12/2015
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Other options?
We've used a couple different thigh harnesses. We also have a chest harness that has proven to be quite versatile.
10/13/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. E
Other options?
We've used a couple different thigh harnesses. We also have a chest harness that has proven to be quite versatile.
Don't forget those foot/feet harnesses and that lovely knee strapon.
10/13/2015
Contributor: Dominican love Dominican love
I wanted buy one my first but I don't know what type is better
10/17/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Dominican love
I wanted buy one my first but I don't know what type is better
What sort are you looking for?

I mean do you want a real cock and balls or a dildo?

Do you want a strapless or a full harness or something in between?

Etc.
10/17/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
What sort are you looking for?

I mean do you want a real cock and balls or a dildo?

Do you want a strapless or a full harness or something in between?

Etc.
Hey TG,

Check her profile... aaaaa might not want balls. Oh, I guess I have the heads up from one of her previous posts... about which to get for my gf.

Of course maybe she does. .... but I don't think so.
10/21/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Hey TG,

Check her profile... aaaaa might not want balls. Oh, I guess I have the heads up from one of her previous posts... about which to get for my gf.

Of course maybe she does. .... but I don't think so.
LOL. I saw that post. But it is an honest question either way.

We also had a thread regarding such...

Do you prefer realistic over unrealistic dildos?
10/21/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Hmm, I got a new vac-u-lock.
11/24/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Yeah for got that option. Guess your choice would be "neither".
It could be either. We do have the FF share.
11/25/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Hmm, I got a new vac-u-lock.
Does it hang down ?
11/25/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Does it hang down ?
Pardon?
11/25/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Pardon?
O t is "Harness versus ... You stated just got a new vac-u-lock.
So I asked ....
11/25/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
O t is "Harness versus ... You stated just got a new vac-u-lock.
So I asked ....
Ah, I got a new vac-u-lock with harness.
11/26/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Ah, I got a new vac-u-lock with harness.
Again I ask, "Does it hang down ?" For her or for you. Ahh, I know, for both... and maybe even others.. After all you are a s _ _ _ _ _ r and do frequet s _ _ parties.
11/27/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
I voted harness since thats what me and the wife have. How is the strapless?
11/27/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Again I ask, "Does it hang down ?" For her or for you. Ahh, I know, for both... and maybe even others.. After all you are a s _ _ _ _ _ r and do frequet s _ _ parties.
Actually I brought it on a whim for her. I use hollow ones for me.
11/27/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Andykh
I voted harness since thats what me and the wife have. How is the strapless?
Andy, I did a review on the Share. It is strapless although one can still use it in a harness. There is also a vid showing the attributes of it. Features, not in use. You can find it on the product page or my page.
11/28/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Andy, I did a review on the Share. It is strapless although one can still use it in a harness. There is also a vid showing the attributes of it. Features, not in use. You can find it on the product page or my page.
I read ur review and the share seems like it would be fun to try out
11/29/2015
Contributor: QueerFemmeinist QueerFemmeinist
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I know some people swear by their harnesses but seriously there has got to be other options.
I like using tight boxer briefs
06/13/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by QueerFemmeinist
I like using tight boxer briefs
How?
07/27/2016
Contributor: jen1447 jen1447
Nobody here uses the SpareParts Joque? I definitely swear by it - pretty much the only harness you'll ever need. Say goodbye to kinetic energy loss and say hello to a very hard, rough ride because your dick stays flush with your body - no gap and no slippage and no flailing and no hanging. Love it.
01/24/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by jen1447
Nobody here uses the SpareParts Joque? I definitely swear by it - pretty much the only harness you'll ever need. Say goodbye to kinetic energy loss and say hello to a very hard, rough ride because your dick stays flush with your body - no gap and ... more
That's the best. And has a pocket for a bullet/ tango. Can go in washing machine too. Nice stretchy O ring for them larger ones.

Anyway I think that falls in choice # 1- Harness strap on.

So how many harness do you have. We have 3 so, no need remove dildo
( dicks as you say) He likes 3-4 different ones each session. Spoiled, different sizes and shapes, (BD's )
01/24/2017