i honestly just got pegged for the first time last night and loved it. I was such a great experience for both of us. She was skeptical, i have been bringing it up a lot lately, and, after a month of the harness sitting in the drawer we finally had some drinks and got into it!

afterward it was both agreed upon that it was a great time. My wife mentioned she got a good idea of waht it was like to be in charge and actually had a fun time with it. She even offered to do it again after, but i was too tired

we will be doing it again

we initially started with prostate massages you know, but then, drunk, i mentioned i wanted her to fuck me, cna i say that here? anyways, that was a while ago, fast forward to 2009, and me starting to review products here. I mention it again, this may be the third time, and she says someday sure. After mentioning it again, she only said it was a cost thing. I wanted quality products you know? if this experience was going to be bad at all, i didn't want it to be frustrating due to poor quality products. I wanted everything to be perfect, so only the experience could suck. no pun intended ;-), ojk yeah it was on purpose.

so the cost was an issue. but once i did a couple video reviews and got the mid summer 35% off coupon, our whole set up was only like $30

$30 for a Spareparts Harness and a Tantus curve dildo. We saved like $100

anyways, she was open to the idea, but did admit she wanted to have a few drinks before we ever did it. so the toys sat in the drawer for a few weeks, she went away for work, and when she returned, was in her period (that means if she want to fool around, basically its all about me ) so we went at it.

it was a fantastic experience. We have a book, the adventurous cou-les guide to strapon sex

link

i asked her to read it, i even highlighted areas i wanted to share with her, how i felt, why i wanted it, what i wanted to do. I'm still not sure if she read it, but that night everything was perfect. I went down on her, we did a few positions, and I had a mind blowing orgasm. Plus, she mentioned she liked it, the new experience of being in charge was exhilarating for her. We may still need to drink before hand, so she opens up a bit, but now that I know she likes it, I'm super relieved and hope it happens more often! less

Which makes me wonder how long he had been thinking about it. So many people are scared about what their partner/spouse will think to bring something up. All couples should have an "open discussion" policy where they commit to not ridicule the other or hold things against them that anyone wants to talk about. less

I am so insanely turned on and fascinated by pegging. But is has definitely been a long slow process to get my partner to open up to the idea. We've done some anal play with him, and it hasn't been bad or anything. He just seems really shy about it. I am like his anal princess though, so fairs fair. J/k less