I love it when my wife pegs me. I have to actually encourage her to get more aggressive about it. Usually after a few drinks then she really gets into it. We use a Share dildo (bulb in her, dildo in me) with a simple nylon bikini harness. We both enjoy it very much.
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Do you like to peg?
07/06/2009
Yesterday we received the harness and dildo that I ordered. We haven't had a chance to use it yet, but I hope we enjoy it
07/09/2009
Short of placing a personal ad, I've never found it easy to find women who are into it... it's not exactly something one would bring up when first asking somoene out.
07/09/2009
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oh, and the answer is yes, in case that wasn't clear.
Originally posted by
In Purrgatory
Short of placing a personal ad, I've never found it easy to find women who are into it... it's not exactly something one would bring up when first asking somoene out.
07/09/2009
I love to penetrating my man as well. We've only done that once, he's for it and all but he has to be in the "right mood." We do a lot of anal stuff for him but pegging is something I wish he would be up for a little more often.
07/09/2009
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Has he dropped any hints about what puts him in the "right mood"? If not, maybe you could start asking questions/investigatin g what elements set up such a mood. Sounds like a fun investigation to me.
Originally posted by
jedent
I love to penetrating my man as well. We've only done that once, he's for it and all but he has to be in the "right mood." We do a lot of anal stuff for him but pegging is something I wish he would be up for a little more often.
07/09/2009
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Hope it goes well for the both of you.
Originally posted by
spicywife
Yesterday we received the harness and dildo that I ordered. We haven't had a chance to use it yet, but I hope we enjoy it
07/10/2009
LOL! I voted "I'm female and I don't want to do it" and hubby and I were talking about stuff last night and he's interested in it. So this is the perfect example of how I at first say no and then end up trying stuff anyway. Which is a good thing. I've discovered I like a lot of things that I originally said no to. But he wants to use one of those double ended dildos so we both can enjoy it.
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why?
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why?
07/12/2009
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@newme21, we started with the Feeldoe Slim and have since moved on to the Nexus Sr. (with the SpareParts harness), which I much prefer-- BF liked both, but the Nexus is more comfortable for me. Not sure if you and your husband have ever experimented with anal play before, but if not, I'd start out with some smaller toys (plugs, vibrators) and work your way up to a dildo. And, pegging rule of thumb #1: there's no such thing as too much lube!
Originally posted by
removedacnt
LOL! I voted "I'm female and I don't want to do it" and hubby and I were talking about stuff last night and he's interested in it. So this is the perfect example of how I at first say no and then end up trying stuff anyway.
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LOL! I voted "I'm female and I don't want to do it" and hubby and I were talking about stuff last night and he's interested in it. So this is the perfect example of how I at first say no and then end up trying stuff anyway. Which is a good thing. I've discovered I like a lot of things that I originally said no to. But he wants to use one of those double ended dildos so we both can enjoy it.
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why? less
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why? less
07/12/2009
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Thanks Liz! We both have Jolly Jack butt plugs. Surprisingly the first time I tried that on him he felt it really wasn't big enough. So I'm sure he can handle something decent sized. And as far as vaginally, I know I can handle a pretty good size. So I will definitely check out that Nexus Sr. I was also curious about the regular sized Feeldoe and the Share.
Originally posted by
Liz
@newme21, we started with the Feeldoe Slim and have since moved on to the Nexus Sr. (with the SpareParts harness), which I much prefer-- BF liked both, but the Nexus is more comfortable for me. Not sure if you and your husband have ever experimented
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@newme21, we started with the Feeldoe Slim and have since moved on to the Nexus Sr. (with the SpareParts harness), which I much prefer-- BF liked both, but the Nexus is more comfortable for me. Not sure if you and your husband have ever experimented with anal play before, but if not, I'd start out with some smaller toys (plugs, vibrators) and work your way up to a dildo. And, pegging rule of thumb #1: there's no such thing as too much lube!
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07/12/2009
I have the Nexus Maximus - it's also a very nice dildo, and it has the advantage of having a vibrator. The vibrator doesn't stimulate the "getter" much, but it does buzz right against the giver's clit.
07/12/2009
I also like my Tango. The Nexus silicone is rather soft. It makes it easy to use different positions, since the dildo bends to fit, but it needs hands to insert, whereas the Tango doesn't. The Tango can stay in on it's own if you have very strong muscles, or it has wings to catch on a harness. if you like to use it that way. For the giver the Nexus doesn't seem to stimulate the G-spot as much as the Tango.
07/12/2009
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I have used the Feeldoe Slim, the Share and the Tango. The Tango is my favorite esp. for use with my b/f. We both love it! (I did review the Tango and the Feeldoe) Enjoy the new pursuits.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
LOL! I voted "I'm female and I don't want to do it" and hubby and I were talking about stuff last night and he's interested in it. So this is the perfect example of how I at first say no and then end up trying stuff anyway.
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LOL! I voted "I'm female and I don't want to do it" and hubby and I were talking about stuff last night and he's interested in it. So this is the perfect example of how I at first say no and then end up trying stuff anyway. Which is a good thing. I've discovered I like a lot of things that I originally said no to. But he wants to use one of those double ended dildos so we both can enjoy it.
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why? less
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why? less
07/13/2009
After telling me multiple times that pegging was a "maybe someday in a few decades" type-possibility, just when I'd about given up on it... he asked for it. And we are now devoted pegging fans. Very much so. The ease with which we transitioned into pegging was aided by the fact that, contrary to what he would have had me believe a few months ago, he is quite experienced with anal toys. (He was afraid I'd think it meant he was gay. Silly man, of course it doesn't.)
We haven't yet had the opportunity to try a harness-less like the Feeldoes, but it sounds like fun. I'll need to work on my kegels, though.
We haven't yet had the opportunity to try a harness-less like the Feeldoes, but it sounds like fun. I'll need to work on my kegels, though.
07/13/2009
I love it! It is by far one of my favorite acts to perform with a man.
07/14/2009
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Avoid the potential frustration and get a harness. Also the Feeldoe is great for g/g but the angle is somewhat off for g/b. Try the Tango or the Share instead.
Originally posted by
Luscious Lily
After telling me multiple times that pegging was a "maybe someday in a few decades" type-possibility, just when I'd about given up on it... he asked for it. And we are now devoted pegging fans. Very much so. The ease with which we
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After telling me multiple times that pegging was a "maybe someday in a few decades" type-possibility, just when I'd about given up on it... he asked for it. And we are now devoted pegging fans. Very much so. The ease with which we transitioned into pegging was aided by the fact that, contrary to what he would have had me believe a few months ago, he is quite experienced with anal toys. (He was afraid I'd think it meant he was gay. Silly man, of course it doesn't.)
We haven't yet had the opportunity to try a harness-less like the Feeldoes, but it sounds like fun. I'll need to work on my kegels, though. less
We haven't yet had the opportunity to try a harness-less like the Feeldoes, but it sounds like fun. I'll need to work on my kegels, though. less
Enjoy........
07/15/2009
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Seconded. I haven't used the Share, but I see some things to consider. Firstly, if you like to use a bunch of different positions a "straighter" dildo (such as the Nexus series) is sometimes better. I find in some positions the curve of my Tango causes the tip to catch on something inside my ass that can limit penetration and occasionally feel a bit odd. Secondly a question for people who have used the Share anally: How does the "flare" near the base feel during heavy thrusting? It looks like it might feel good if you're relaxed, but could be a bad thing if you have trouble keeping your anus open.
Originally posted by
Liz2
Avoid the potential frustration and get a harness. Also the Feeldoe is great for g/g but the angle is somewhat off for g/b. Try the Tango or the Share instead.
Enjoy........
Enjoy........
Do get a harness, though. Sex isn't nearly as fun when you have to keep worrying about your cock falling off.
07/15/2009
@Liz2 and @ScottA: Thanks for the tips! I didn't realize that the Feeldoe wouldn't work as well for g/b, it's good to know. We already have an inexpensive harness that we've been using, which is compatible with those dildos when we take out the pad.
07/15/2009
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I think the Feeldoe is a personal-fit issue. While I haven't used it I've heard from people who love it and people who hate it. I think that the Feeldoe is probably a bit more "unforgiving," and if it doesn't fit you exactly right it's a bit uncomfortable.
Originally posted by
Luscious Lily
@Liz2 and @ScottA: Thanks for the tips! I didn't realize that the Feeldoe wouldn't work as well for g/b, it's good to know. We already have an inexpensive harness that we've been using, which is compatible with those dildos when we take out the pad.
07/16/2009
Tropicalman
Aloha All!
I just have to tell ScottA that when he said this at the end of one of his recent posts,
"Do get a harness, though. Sex isn't nearly as fun when you have to keep worrying about your cock falling off."
I so suddenly let out a laugh and didn't stop for a good 3 minutes. LOL LOL LOL!
Yeah, I would say that having to worry about my cock falling off would tend to make sex more of a risk than a pleasure! That was an unexpected funny thing to say and I can't thank you enough for the good laugh. I really needed one tonight.
Aloha Just For Now
I just have to tell ScottA that when he said this at the end of one of his recent posts,
"Do get a harness, though. Sex isn't nearly as fun when you have to keep worrying about your cock falling off."
I so suddenly let out a laugh and didn't stop for a good 3 minutes. LOL LOL LOL!
Yeah, I would say that having to worry about my cock falling off would tend to make sex more of a risk than a pleasure! That was an unexpected funny thing to say and I can't thank you enough for the good laugh. I really needed one tonight.
Aloha Just For Now
07/17/2009
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We started with the feeldoe slim then the nexus and now the Share. My wife and I both enjoy the Share the most but a good starter is the feeldoe slim. Definitely like these over a standard strapon cause she gets a lot of enjoyment out of them as well!
Originally posted by
removedacnt
LOL! I voted "I'm female and I don't want to do it" and hubby and I were talking about stuff last night and he's interested in it. So this is the perfect example of how I at first say no and then end up trying stuff anyway.
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more
LOL! I voted "I'm female and I don't want to do it" and hubby and I were talking about stuff last night and he's interested in it. So this is the perfect example of how I at first say no and then end up trying stuff anyway. Which is a good thing. I've discovered I like a lot of things that I originally said no to. But he wants to use one of those double ended dildos so we both can enjoy it.
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why? less
So I look them up and as usual the choices are mind boggling. Which ones of these are your faves? And why? less
07/22/2009
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I find they also make it easier for her to control the dildo - it is much more an extension of her body rather than a hunk of rubber/silicone/etc. held on with straps.
Originally posted by
Ready & Willing
We started with the feeldoe slim then the nexus and now the Share. My wife and I both enjoy the Share the most but a good starter is the feeldoe slim. Definitely like these over a standard strapon cause she gets a lot of enjoyment out of them as
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We started with the feeldoe slim then the nexus and now the Share. My wife and I both enjoy the Share the most but a good starter is the feeldoe slim. Definitely like these over a standard strapon cause she gets a lot of enjoyment out of them as well!
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07/22/2009
TemporalPleasures
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Here's another vote for the "I love pegging" side! Role reversal is inherently sexy!
Originally posted by
Dr.Horne
I'm just curious to see how many others enjoy doing so.
07/23/2009
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I answered for me, but fiance is also interested in trying it.
Originally posted by
Dr.Horne
I'm just curious to see how many others enjoy doing so.
07/26/2009
We tried it and it was great. I'm looking forward to posting a review for the harness + dildo that we purchased. Unfortunately, the dildo is really too short for penetration. But besides that, it was a great experience and we're looking forward to having many more! We just need to find a better dildo. I have a couple in mind but haven't made the decisions yet.
07/28/2009
Well hubby's birthday is in two weeks and I ordered the Tango, the Latigo harness and extra rubber O rings to be sure I have the right size. Wish me luck! Or should I say wish him luck. I hope we both love this because it was a pricey venture.
07/30/2009
I love it and I LOVE to see so many others love it!
07/30/2009
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Before you start make several commitments to each other. First, and most importantly, swear that you'll stop if it starts to hurt, and that you'll slow down if necessary. Note that this isn't only for the "other person" - he needs to commit to himself to slow things down or stop if he feels like it, and you likewise.
Originally posted by
removedacnt
Well hubby's birthday is in two weeks and I ordered the Tango, the Latigo harness and extra rubber O rings to be sure I have the right size. Wish me luck! Or should I say wish him luck. I hope we both love this because it was a pricey venture.
Secondly, commit to trying it several times. Anal pleasures are often an acquired taste, and you need to be open to them.
That said, be creative, be open and have a blast!
07/31/2009
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Thanks ScottA, You're always very helpful! You have a few other posts under other threads that I have also found very helpful.
Originally posted by
ScottA
Before you start make several commitments to each other. First, and most importantly, swear that you'll stop if it starts to hurt, and that you'll slow down if necessary. Note that this isn't only for the "other person" - he
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Before you start make several commitments to each other. First, and most importantly, swear that you'll stop if it starts to hurt, and that you'll slow down if necessary. Note that this isn't only for the "other person" - he needs to commit to himself to slow things down or stop if he feels like it, and you likewise.
Secondly, commit to trying it several times. Anal pleasures are often an acquired taste, and you need to be open to them.
That said, be creative, be open and have a blast! less
Secondly, commit to trying it several times. Anal pleasures are often an acquired taste, and you need to be open to them.
That said, be creative, be open and have a blast! less
07/31/2009
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thats awesome, my wife loves using toys on me but she feels weird about strapping one on. its frustrating
Originally posted by
Viv
If i dated men, it would certainly be a requirement.
09/23/2009