I would totally sport a discreet looking collar from my daddy for everyday wear. The only problem is my dance training, which takes place at least four days out of the week. Super lame!
Would you wear a collar in public?
06/10/2013
No, I would prefer my wife wear a Victorian choker necklace - much classier and public appropriate.
06/15/2013
nope
06/15/2013
I do it rather frequently. The only annoying thing is the street harassment. Because obviously the fact that I wear a collar means I'll have sex with anyone, including strangers on the street.
06/15/2013
I would not.
06/15/2013
I probably would
06/15/2013
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hell yes I would and so would hubby if I asked him then rewarded him later on for his good behavior.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
At a shopping center the other day I noticed a girl wearing a pretty obvious BDSM collar. Would you do this? Private voting.
06/17/2013
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Been there done that. It was fun. Funniest part was I was out with my parents and my at the time master.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
At a shopping center the other day I noticed a girl wearing a pretty obvious BDSM collar. Would you do this? Private voting.
06/17/2013
I have! Mine is pretty obvious, and I've worn it a few times with the lock on, but I don't think I would do that again. I've actually considered buying another smaller one to wear in public.
06/17/2013
I would wear it in a place where I know it is acceptable.
Not because I'm ashamed (I'd rather enjoy it, honestly), but as someone who has experienced abuse first-hand from the kink community and had to step away, I know how triggering it can be for someone to see that. If I know I am in a place where collars and the like are accepted (and to be expected), then I would have no hesitation. But the last thing I want to do is trigger traumatic experiences for someone in a public setting.
That is just my personal take on it, I'm not here to judge anyone who does wear collars in public.
Not because I'm ashamed (I'd rather enjoy it, honestly), but as someone who has experienced abuse first-hand from the kink community and had to step away, I know how triggering it can be for someone to see that. If I know I am in a place where collars and the like are accepted (and to be expected), then I would have no hesitation. But the last thing I want to do is trigger traumatic experiences for someone in a public setting.
That is just my personal take on it, I'm not here to judge anyone who does wear collars in public.
06/19/2013