Well, I figured it out right around the time I got somewhat involved with a friend of mine. I'd just figured out I was bi, and she was as well and I just loved all of the sneaking around and boundary breaking. The fact that we are sorority sisters (incest, of a sort... greekcest?) helped throw up even more "forbidden" things into the relationship. She, of course, was pretty kinky (more so than me) and a total domme, but was patient enough to start it off slow and suggest things only when she thought I was comfortable to say yes. I never did say no to any "suggestion" of hers, she was that good at reading me. Started out with her sitting behind me while I was blindfolded, and ended at biting, scratching, and whipping. As it turns out, I managed to discover an oral fixation of mine, and tendency to bite things/people when frustrated or just bored (though I'm careful only to do it to the people I know can handle the pain and take the joke, or bite lightly, or only bite clothing). Now, my friends all know me by the nickname Baby Tiger (although there are quite a few who have no idea why this is my nickname... innocents )