The classic, Red
Whats your safeword :)?
12/24/2011
My owner and I have chatted about this and it was "stop"
12/25/2011
Wyoming
It was the first obscure word that came to my head long ago, and well...it makes me giggle everytime I hear it now.
It was the first obscure word that came to my head long ago, and well...it makes me giggle everytime I hear it now.
01/01/2012
I used to do judo and the habit of tapping out never really left. Two firm taps by me means "You win" or "let me up" and I never have to ask twice. I am submissive by nature though I am a rather good fighter when I need to be for the sake of others. My Lord is quite gentle and he is just starting to get into the bdsm stuff. For him I judge his expressions and aura but he would probably tap out too if he wanted. Speaking wise we do not really speak, we just sort of watch expressions and read each other's auras and that works for us.
01/05/2012
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i'd like to switch to the color system since that's what's most often used at play parties. For now I say apple. we try to knock on the bed if we're gagged. we don't really end up using it much since we don't do much consensual non-consent, and he checks in with me during impact play. Mostly it gets yelled during (non-fetish) tickle fights
Originally posted by
pleasurehunter
Sorry i dunno if this has been asked before, i'm just curious to hear all the different responses. Ours is pineapples
01/09/2012
I had a system worked out with my ex, who ignored it the few times I tried to to use it.
With my sub, his word is "shampoo". With my beau, my word is "poodle".
With my sub, his word is "shampoo". With my beau, my word is "poodle".
01/09/2012
Never had a scene that required one, since my partner and I talk about limits constantly and agree beforehand.
01/10/2012
Blueberrymuffin. It's a mouthful, but it gets the point across. Apparently his is Strawberrymuffin, but he's never used it It's more or less been for tickling.
It started as a joke and now it kind of stuck. I'd prefer something shorter because if I can't get the whole word out he covers my mouth so he "can't hear it."
"Red" sounds like one I should go with
It started as a joke and now it kind of stuck. I'd prefer something shorter because if I can't get the whole word out he covers my mouth so he "can't hear it."
"Red" sounds like one I should go with
01/10/2012
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Ours is pineapple too! And in case I forget, I'm supposed to yell out any fruit I can think of.
Originally posted by
pleasurehunter
Sorry i dunno if this has been asked before, i'm just curious to hear all the different responses. Ours is pineapples
01/10/2012
we actually don't have one.. we tend to read each other pretty well
01/10/2012
We don't have one.
I've suggested having one, as we're beginning to get into rougher play together beyond what we were doing previously.
He seemed to think it was silly and that we didn't need one. He thought me doing a double tap thing on his shoulder like they apparently do in wrestling (high school type wrestling not hulk hogan type wrestling) was very intuitive and reasonable. As a girl, who does not wrestle, I thought this was stupid. I also am not sure wtf is supposed to happen in situations where my hands are tied together.
*shakes head*
Not comfortable. But I'll fix him.
I've suggested having one, as we're beginning to get into rougher play together beyond what we were doing previously.
He seemed to think it was silly and that we didn't need one. He thought me doing a double tap thing on his shoulder like they apparently do in wrestling (high school type wrestling not hulk hogan type wrestling) was very intuitive and reasonable. As a girl, who does not wrestle, I thought this was stupid. I also am not sure wtf is supposed to happen in situations where my hands are tied together.
*shakes head*
Not comfortable. But I'll fix him.
01/10/2012
Don't have one.
01/17/2012
Oklahoma is our safe word. No idea why. We don't really play hard enough to use it. He's pretty careful with me.
01/17/2012
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SOS. It's simple, quick to blurt out, and has a clear meaning.
Originally posted by
pleasurehunter
Sorry i dunno if this has been asked before, i'm just curious to hear all the different responses. Ours is pineapples
01/18/2012
Well, we use the color system also because it's easier for me to remember in certain head spaces. But our safe word is "white rabbit". It's a reference to an old erotica story I wrote once where the safe word was "mad hatter". Catching onto the Alice in Wonderland theme? haha.
01/19/2012
Pineapple. Naw, it's just 'red.' I'm boring.
01/30/2012
Cacao
01/30/2012
We use the color system officially, but 'stop' works just as well for most of the scenes we do
02/01/2012
we don't have one although I think they are really useful stop or ouch usually works pretty well, I would like to have a safe word but I feel like it could be kinda funny sounding or weird or ruin the mood because its so rediculous
02/01/2012
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UGH ive tried to get a safeword specified before.... but we just go with 'ow' as a pretty good reaction to a bad thing and the other listens well... itd be nice to have a little bit of a warning before the ow is hit tho!
Originally posted by
pleasurehunter
Sorry i dunno if this has been asked before, i'm just curious to hear all the different responses. Ours is pineapples
thats ow as in ouch not O! as in orgasm lol
02/01/2012
My husband has a '75 Mercury Cougar so, our safe word is "cougar".
02/06/2012
Tapioca is ours. I've only had to use it when we've really tried to test limits though.
02/13/2012
Pinkie Pie
daisy is good, maybe another flower
02/15/2012
Usually its some nonsense word. We don't often use one though.
Most of the time we go with the Green Yellow and Red light terms.
Green: this is good, I want more
Yellow: mmm not sure about this, don't go further than here for now
Red: Complete Stop Now!
It's rare I use a safeword or Red though. SirPhryxus and Mistress Fenreya, my only Doms right now, are good about reading my body language and knowing when to slow down without me saying anything.
Most of the time we go with the Green Yellow and Red light terms.
Green: this is good, I want more
Yellow: mmm not sure about this, don't go further than here for now
Red: Complete Stop Now!
It's rare I use a safeword or Red though. SirPhryxus and Mistress Fenreya, my only Doms right now, are good about reading my body language and knowing when to slow down without me saying anything.
02/15/2012
Ours is "butterfly kisses" lol...
02/15/2012
Banana - you can hear it even when your mouth is covered.
02/15/2012
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