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Do you like the idea of locking steel collars as a symbol of ownership?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by DustBunny
Sadly a collar can't always be worn, but I love owning a locking steel collar that can be used in any situation. There's a couple sites that make them and all have the pro's and con's, but regardless of the site you like. Do you like ... more
If it floats your boat, do it. We both wear permanent solid rings of ownership. They are on our third fingers, left hand. Very clearly marked for all to see. In fact, not even plain vanilla, as hers sports a diamond.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Sir
I agree.

I love the idea of collaring and putting a ring around my pet/partner/girl's neck. Sadly, no one has deserved to have me show this sign of ownership. To me, collaring is as deep as marriage or engagement. That's how serious ... more
Please don't mistake your idea that "collaring is as deep a commitment as marriage, for the legal protection and societal protection and rights afforded a good old fashioned "I Do". When we had a couple who had lived together (with matching tat's and nose rings even), arrive in the hospital a short while back, they were treated as strangers and NO information or legal rights for one was acceptable for the other. NO legal rights at all...since they were, in the eyes of the law, "in no way related". May not be fun, but those are the real facts.
10/01/2011
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by DustBunny
Sadly a collar can't always be worn, but I love owning a locking steel collar that can be used in any situation. There's a couple sites that make them and all have the pro's and con's, but regardless of the site you like. Do you like ... more
I don't own one
02/15/2012
Contributor: Bebela Bebela
Quote:
Originally posted by DustBunny
Sadly a collar can't always be worn, but I love owning a locking steel collar that can be used in any situation. There's a couple sites that make them and all have the pro's and con's, but regardless of the site you like. Do you like ... more
Sometimes I wish I could be brave enough to wear my pink collar out... It'd be so hot
02/15/2012
Contributor: Swish Swish
I wear my collar every day, its a plain teal collar, but i love it ( i am also a furry) it isnt a steel locking collar, although i would love one. im not sure my partner would though its not his thing
02/15/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
I really think its good
02/15/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
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Originally posted by Red Riding Hood
I don't think I'd like it to be such a common and widely accepted thing. I think that BDSM ownership goes deep into sex and romance and trust and that there's something more to it than showing others that you are owned. It's one thing ... more
My thoughts exactly.
02/16/2012
Contributor: duff duff
dont own one...
02/18/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by DustBunny
Sadly a collar can't always be worn, but I love owning a locking steel collar that can be used in any situation. There's a couple sites that make them and all have the pro's and con's, but regardless of the site you like. Do you like ... more
Not my thing
02/19/2012
Contributor: Katzer Katzer
I would love to have a boyfriend to wear this but not serious relationship for this until now.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I think it is a fun idea
10/08/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by DustBunny
Sadly a collar can't always be worn, but I love owning a locking steel collar that can be used in any situation. There's a couple sites that make them and all have the pro's and con's, but regardless of the site you like. Do you like ... more
Its not for us.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
Serious commitments freak me out a little so I don't think a permanent collar is for me. At least not for the time being.
10/09/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I love them, bu i am not sure I will ever have a dynamic that is appropriate for such a commitment.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
Yes! I'd love one.
10/13/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Yes, but I don't own one. Sometimes you have to be discrete though.
10/16/2012
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
I don't have a collar.
10/20/2012
Contributor: Nyx (Under the Covers) Nyx (Under the Covers)
I am concerned about the idea of putting an unbreakable and locking collar on a submissive in day-to-day life. My mind just automatically jumps to worst-case dangerous scenarios (I don't wear necklaces that won't break before they could strangle me). However, the magnetic versions (so they can be released) of the same collars are gorgeous and I would totally buy one for the right sub.
11/05/2012
Contributor: Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
I have been wearing mine for 2 years and have never taken it off. My husband holds the key so the only way it can be removed without his permission is by cutting it off for a medical emergency.
11/17/2012
Contributor: RavenInChains RavenInChains
Ring of steel collars are wonderful, they are very well made and if you choose to have a pendant put on it, then they can be worn in most situations and thought of as little more than a fashion statement.

I think locking steel collars are best for frequent wear, they don't rub skin the way leather does.
12/20/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
I love the idea of a steel locking collar, but I don't currently own one.
12/21/2012
Contributor: Miss L Miss L
I like them tho they are impractical for my boy's everyday life. We opted for a bracelet that can be removed.
12/26/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
link

go here they have some
12/26/2012
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Well, since my last post, I've become my lovers pet. We are currently working on finding an everyday collar, as well as an actual pet collar.
04/19/2013