Not fully, no. Prefer to do it as a gradual process.
Have you shared all of your fetishes/kinks/fantasi es with your partner
08/02/2012
yes im very open
08/02/2012
I have a 13 page yes/no/maybe list that I keep to make sharing all of my kinks easier but I'm waiting for a bit to share that with my most recent partner. She's a lot more conservative than I am so we're taking it slow. I'm a lot more open with my other partner about my heavier kinks.
08/03/2012
Yes, but we were together for nearly 2 year before I shared my "secret" kinks with him
08/04/2012
yes i have
08/04/2012
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Yes I have!
Originally posted by
Zandrock
If you have not, why? what are they?
08/20/2012
I think I've shared pretty much everything. Even the weird and embarrassing ones, haha. Not much of anything would be "weird" to either of my partners anyway. I mean, even if we may have different hard limits, we don't judge each other's fantasies or kinks.
Most of the time, their responses are, "Ooh! I can help with that!" or "YES. This should happen!"
Most of the time, their responses are, "Ooh! I can help with that!" or "YES. This should happen!"
08/29/2012
not all of them - gotta keep some things a surprise for later!
08/30/2012
Nope. I'm trying not to encourage that part of myself to grow.
08/30/2012
Yes
08/30/2012
No I haven't.
08/30/2012
We're as open as a book
09/02/2012
We've been together a dozen years. I've shared them all and have found new ones that I didn't know existed.
09/04/2012
We have not yet but we are getting there.
09/04/2012
Yes. We both made lists and discussed them together. I think it's very healthy to openly discuss all fetishes and fantasies with one's partner.
09/05/2012
Yes I have
09/05/2012
Most of them, I believe.
09/11/2012
Most of the one I have not shared I chose not to because I didn't want to make him feel like he had to do them. Still trying to figure out how to talk about things in a "this is hot but we need not do it" way.
01/02/2013
vaguely
01/02/2013
My partner and I are really open about all of our fantasies so that we can act them out.
01/02/2013
Most but not all
01/03/2013
I am generally super secretive of what I like, mostly out of shame and dysphoria reasons.
I can't imagine ever opening up to someone 100% out of guilt reasons.
Idk.. also considering never having a long term partner/ being in relationships where knowing every little detail of each other would matter
I can't imagine ever opening up to someone 100% out of guilt reasons.
Idk.. also considering never having a long term partner/ being in relationships where knowing every little detail of each other would matter
01/03/2013
How do you think I met my partner?
01/03/2013
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