I have a strange preference. I identify mostly with submissive and I'm female. However I can only be submissive with men. So I do a little bit of switching to a dominant position with other females.
Gender/Dominance
12/09/2012
I am a female dominant, though I sometimes bottom during sex.
12/10/2012
I am female and I primarily dominate in sex, but my current partner is a dom in our sex, so I sub for him. However, even when I sub, I'm a bratty sub.
12/13/2012
Female- I'm a lesbian, and my partner & I are both switches. However, I'm the sub and she's the domme about 80% of the time.
12/16/2012
femme switch!
12/25/2012
Female and...not entirely sure yet. I need to explore more.
12/25/2012
female switch with some preference towards submission
12/25/2012
Male sub
12/25/2012
We have talked about playing with D/s, but haven't yet. I really wish my wife were more dominant in the bedroom.
12/26/2012
I'm sub most of the time but i like being dom sometimes depends on mood
12/26/2012
I'm male and a switch.
02/13/2013
I'm female with dominant tendencies, though depending on the partner I might switch. Really depends on who I'm with!
02/13/2013
I'm submissive
02/13/2013
I am a female who tends to be more submissive, but I am a switch. Probably a 70/30 split.
02/13/2013
I'm female and submissive.
02/19/2013
Genderqueer and switch, although I have a submissive play partner so I tend to be more dominant.
02/24/2013
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I'm in the same boat
Originally posted by
Bebela
I'm a good, loving dom most of the time. But I feel like if my bf was more dominant I could be such a good little sub... *sigh*
02/25/2013
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Agreed! Good on ya NightKat.
Originally posted by
NightKat
I never realized how few males are on Edens until I saw this post! Male submissive, but I'm the main toy provider in my relationship. More boys need to get into getting their partners toys!
02/25/2013
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>.> and here I thought I was weird for doing this with my boyfriend lol. He doesn't usually get it and it's hard to explain that your trying to goad someone into toping you.
Originally posted by
MaryExy
Female, I'm a bratty sub. Any fighting or top-like comments you get from me are me trying to get you to show who's boss
02/25/2013
Female switch
02/26/2013
I'm polygender and while I am *technically* a switch, I have always been drawn toward and have been dominant with all of my partners.
03/04/2013
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I'm more passive to my partner rather than submissive. but I will only sub to her, and she will only sub to me. Otherwise we either dom everybody else that wants it, or we're neutral.
Originally posted by
FleurDevereux
I'm curious as to the trend in dominance/ submissiveness between men and women. This is referring to mostly in the bedroom, but please post unique situations and let us know.
03/04/2013
Male and I tend to be dominant but once every blue moon the submissive in me comes out to play
03/11/2013
I feel like I've seen stereotypes of dommes over guys and guys dom'ing girls. I've also seen poly relationships where it's one guy and multiple girls, or one girl and multiple guys but never girls domme'ing girls, guys dom'ing guys, 1 girl + multiple girls, etc.
03/12/2013
I'm female and mostly submissive.
03/18/2013
Female-definitely a switch
03/18/2013