I'm not sure if this counts as what you are talking about:

I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to orgasm. So when he got to that point I would hold off, slow down just enough to bring him back from the edge. And I did this several times before he grabbed my hand and made me help him finish. Not angrily, but playfully, and with just enough "I need this please" in it to let me know it'd been enough torture

What I was trying to do was first and foremost, a little orgasm play as we had previously discussed. He told me later he really enjoyed it. But I have to confess like I did with him: the other thing I was trying to do? Was see how far I could make him shoot by staving off his orgasm longer and longer. Which, for the record, was past his shoulder (lying down) and there was a lot more of it than usual

It was fun for both of us, whatever you would call this experience, and we'd both do it again less

The refractory period is the big killer here. For males it is much easier to get into orgasm denial as slowing down or stopping the orgasm can be done for most guys, but a lot of guys have great difficulty getting off after the first one.







That being said, if intercourse isn't on the menu or you are willing to wait, I have experienced forced orgasm for the first one. My lover has grabbed me as soon as I enter the room, pulled off my pants and underwear, grabbed my hips and given me oral and wouldn't let go until I came. So hot and so powerful. The killer is when I tried to pull away, she looked me in the eye, pulled off, shook her head, said uh-uh and smiled wickedly before plunging all the way down again. I swear I almost blacked out from the force of those orgasms! less