I have never done this but I would love to try it one day soon!
Forced Orgasm play
01/01/2011
Done it and love it. I will squirt while were are doing and I'm not usually a squirter!
01/02/2011
I have never participated, but I just found this forced orgasm belt that I thought you all might find interesting.
01/08/2011
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Wow, cool! Thanks so much for sharing!!
Originally posted by
Lucidity
I have never participated, but I just found this forced orgasm belt that I thought you all might find interesting.
01/08/2011
I don't think I could actually achieve an orgasm if I was restrained or felt like I was being forced to orgasm. I need to want to in order for it to happen, otherwise it just hurts.
01/09/2011
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OMG! My husband is going to see this post and want to buy this for me. I am not sure whether to say "thank you" or not.
Originally posted by
Lucidity
I have never participated, but I just found this forced orgasm belt that I thought you all might find interesting.
01/09/2011
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Heheh my partner will be excited as well
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
OMG! My husband is going to see this post and want to buy this for me. I am not sure whether to say "thank you" or not.
01/10/2011
This is something I'm very interested in, but I'm going to need an established connection with a person before it'll work. Once that's in place, I look forward to trying it!
01/23/2011
I've never done it and.. I don't know if it'd work? It takes a lot of focus for me to get off so I'm not really sure if it could be something that could happen against my will. I'd be willing to try, though
01/24/2011
I've not done it but I want to one day. My boyfriend & I play lightly in the BDSM scene but haven't gotten as far into it as I would like.
01/24/2011
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txymxy, it's not really "against your will." It's more of a control and power game.
Originally posted by
toxie m
I've never done it and.. I don't know if it'd work? It takes a lot of focus for me to get off so I'm not really sure if it could be something that could happen against my will. I'd be willing to try, though
Similarly to Ravishment Play it is all consensual, but with an edge. Almost like role playing.
01/25/2011
I'm not sure if this counts as what you are talking about:
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to orgasm. So when he got to that point I would hold off, slow down just enough to bring him back from the edge. And I did this several times before he grabbed my hand and made me help him finish. Not angrily, but playfully, and with just enough "I need this please" in it to let me know it'd been enough torture
What I was trying to do was first and foremost, a little orgasm play as we had previously discussed. He told me later he really enjoyed it. But I have to confess like I did with him: the other thing I was trying to do? Was see how far I could make him shoot by staving off his orgasm longer and longer. Which, for the record, was past his shoulder (lying down) and there was a lot more of it than usual
It was fun for both of us, whatever you would call this experience, and we'd both do it again
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to orgasm. So when he got to that point I would hold off, slow down just enough to bring him back from the edge. And I did this several times before he grabbed my hand and made me help him finish. Not angrily, but playfully, and with just enough "I need this please" in it to let me know it'd been enough torture
What I was trying to do was first and foremost, a little orgasm play as we had previously discussed. He told me later he really enjoyed it. But I have to confess like I did with him: the other thing I was trying to do? Was see how far I could make him shoot by staving off his orgasm longer and longer. Which, for the record, was past his shoulder (lying down) and there was a lot more of it than usual
It was fun for both of us, whatever you would call this experience, and we'd both do it again
01/27/2011
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Would you be willing to explain what Ravishment Play is for me please?
Originally posted by
P'Gell
txymxy, it's not really "against your will." It's more of a control and power game.
Similarly to Ravishment Play it is all consensual, but with an edge. Almost like role playing.
Similarly to Ravishment Play it is all consensual, but with an edge. Almost like role playing.
01/27/2011
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I love it when my wife does this - wish she would do it more!
Originally posted by
MeliPixie
I'm not sure if this counts as what you are talking about:
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to ... more
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to ... more
I'm not sure if this counts as what you are talking about:
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to orgasm. So when he got to that point I would hold off, slow down just enough to bring him back from the edge. And I did this several times before he grabbed my hand and made me help him finish. Not angrily, but playfully, and with just enough "I need this please" in it to let me know it'd been enough torture
What I was trying to do was first and foremost, a little orgasm play as we had previously discussed. He told me later he really enjoyed it. But I have to confess like I did with him: the other thing I was trying to do? Was see how far I could make him shoot by staving off his orgasm longer and longer. Which, for the record, was past his shoulder (lying down) and there was a lot more of it than usual
It was fun for both of us, whatever you would call this experience, and we'd both do it again less
I was giving my boyfriend a hand job (I had my period, and red sex is not even an option with us) and I've gotten to the point where, I know exactly when he's about to orgasm. So when he got to that point I would hold off, slow down just enough to bring him back from the edge. And I did this several times before he grabbed my hand and made me help him finish. Not angrily, but playfully, and with just enough "I need this please" in it to let me know it'd been enough torture
What I was trying to do was first and foremost, a little orgasm play as we had previously discussed. He told me later he really enjoyed it. But I have to confess like I did with him: the other thing I was trying to do? Was see how far I could make him shoot by staving off his orgasm longer and longer. Which, for the record, was past his shoulder (lying down) and there was a lot more of it than usual
It was fun for both of us, whatever you would call this experience, and we'd both do it again less
01/28/2011
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Right, I didn't mean non-consensual really. More just that I don't know if I could hand that power over, because if I'm not the one running the txymxy orgasm show, it just doesn't happen
Originally posted by
P'Gell
txymxy, it's not really "against your will." It's more of a control and power game.
Similarly to Ravishment Play it is all consensual, but with an edge. Almost like role playing.
Similarly to Ravishment Play it is all consensual, but with an edge. Almost like role playing.
01/31/2011
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It's not what many people would called Politically Correct. Ravishment Play is different for every couple or group who plays with it. Basically, it role playing that one person (or more) is being forced (after consenting and hopefully having a safe word to use if things get too intense) to endure sexual manipulation by an other or others. Basically, it's what is known in less understanding circles as "Rape Play." But, honestly, there is nothing playful about rape. Nobody wants to be raped. They are very very different. Ravishment Play is totally consensual, and is basically sex with a "consensual force" edge.
Originally posted by
MeliPixie
Would you be willing to explain what Ravishment Play is for me please?
It isn't for everybody. Some people are turned off by the very mention of it, some feel they don't like it and some are don't get it, and a some are afraid of it. These people should most likely stay away from it.
I find it is only fun and comfortable in a relationship where you and your partner really trust each other.
02/01/2011
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I feel this way about Orgasm Denial. At one time I could do this, but as I have gotten into Peri-menopause orgasm is more difficult than it was when I was younger and could easily put it off and still come. Now, if I feel it, it has to happen then, or it may not.
Originally posted by
toxie m
Right, I didn't mean non-consensual really. More just that I don't know if I could hand that power over, because if I'm not the one running the txymxy orgasm show, it just doesn't happen
Orgasm Denial is like the opposite of Forced Orgasm Play. Being denied an orgasm, in most cases, until your Top says it's OK to come. Used be able to do this, now I can't. We still play with Forced Os, but it's really different. Although sometimes I need him to "tell me it's OK to come" for me to get there. Everybody is different.
If you feel you need to be in control in order to orgasm, and don't feel comfortable giving up sexual control to an other person this type of play may simply not be for you. It's OK. It's not for everybody.
02/01/2011
I've done this (or have had it done) and I loved it.
02/03/2011
I've never tried this, but I think it could be really hot. It might also help me realize that while it helps me to be in the mood to come, I don't need to be in the mindset and can be forced into it. Mmm...yeah, that would be hot! *makes a note* Gotta try this!
02/15/2011
Love getting new ideas to use in the bedroom...
02/17/2011
We do it. I like it. It was during this I had my first clitoral orgasm. It was amazing!! My husband who is the dom in our relationship loves, loves telling me when I can cum or not. It is very much a mental thing and can sometimes be exhausting but fun at the same time.
02/21/2011
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I'm glad I helped!! Hope you enjoy it!
Originally posted by
SexyStuff
Love getting new ideas to use in the bedroom...
02/22/2011
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I agree, the psychological aspect of it is tons of fun
Originally posted by
IrishLassie
We do it. I like it. It was during this I had my first clitoral orgasm. It was amazing!! My husband who is the dom in our relationship loves, loves telling me when I can cum or not. It is very much a mental thing and can sometimes be exhausting but
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We do it. I like it. It was during this I had my first clitoral orgasm. It was amazing!! My husband who is the dom in our relationship loves, loves telling me when I can cum or not. It is very much a mental thing and can sometimes be exhausting but fun at the same time.
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02/22/2011
I happen to love forced orgasm play, and I'm very lucky to have a play partner to enjoys giving them to me. *grin*
We usually engage in penetrative sex until he's gotten off, at which point I'm either held down or tied to our headboard while he uses fingers, toys, mouth and whatever else is around in order to get me off as many times as possible...which for me can be anywhere from another two all the way to 18 or 20 (or more). The best point (for me) is toward the end where I'm telling him that I can't do it anymore and he looks down at me and very calmly tells me that I can and will. And I do.
*laughs*
Usually that last one wipes me out; then it's cuddle time.
We usually engage in penetrative sex until he's gotten off, at which point I'm either held down or tied to our headboard while he uses fingers, toys, mouth and whatever else is around in order to get me off as many times as possible...which for me can be anywhere from another two all the way to 18 or 20 (or more). The best point (for me) is toward the end where I'm telling him that I can't do it anymore and he looks down at me and very calmly tells me that I can and will. And I do.
*laughs*
Usually that last one wipes me out; then it's cuddle time.
03/09/2011
I love orgasm control, be it forced orgasm or orgasm denial.
03/09/2011
Master makes me orgasm over and over again, even if I say I don't want to. I always do, even if I say I don't. Forced anything is always yummy.
03/27/2011
I'm surprised there are no males posting in this thread! forced orgasms aren't just for ladies you know! I often fantasize about such things too
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple orgasms or needing tons of 'training' to do so but still, very intriguing idea ^^
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple orgasms or needing tons of 'training' to do so but still, very intriguing idea ^^
03/27/2011
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I'd be very interested in finding out how this can be done. As a male, I would enjoy my SO doing this.
Originally posted by
ShadowKitten
I'm surprised there are no males posting in this thread! forced orgasms aren't just for ladies you know! I often fantasize about such things too
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple ... more
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple ... more
I'm surprised there are no males posting in this thread! forced orgasms aren't just for ladies you know! I often fantasize about such things too
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple orgasms or needing tons of 'training' to do so but still, very intriguing idea ^^ less
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple orgasms or needing tons of 'training' to do so but still, very intriguing idea ^^ less
On the other hand, I have, on multiple occasions, forced my lady to have multiple orgasms and when she says she cannot have another, I force her to have one more. It is usually completely draining to her and a gusher as well! Oh so hot!
03/30/2011
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The refractory period is the big killer here. For males it is much easier to get into orgasm denial as slowing down or stopping the orgasm can be done for most guys, but a lot of guys have great difficulty getting off after the first one.
Originally posted by
ShadowKitten
I'm surprised there are no males posting in this thread! forced orgasms aren't just for ladies you know! I often fantasize about such things too
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple ... more
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple ... more
I'm surprised there are no males posting in this thread! forced orgasms aren't just for ladies you know! I often fantasize about such things too
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple orgasms or needing tons of 'training' to do so but still, very intriguing idea ^^ less
I know it's a bit trickier for guys due to most of them lacking the ability for multiple orgasms or needing tons of 'training' to do so but still, very intriguing idea ^^ less
That being said, if intercourse isn't on the menu or you are willing to wait, I have experienced forced orgasm for the first one. My lover has grabbed me as soon as I enter the room, pulled off my pants and underwear, grabbed my hips and given me oral and wouldn't let go until I came. So hot and so powerful. The killer is when I tried to pull away, she looked me in the eye, pulled off, shook her head, said uh-uh and smiled wickedly before plunging all the way down again. I swear I almost blacked out from the force of those orgasms!
03/31/2011
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That is unbelievably sexy...
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
My husband has been experimenting with this a lot lately. He has figured a way to not let my orgasm decrescendo, in which if he let's it go on too long, I squirt like a fire hose. Once HE achieves that, then he will decide if I am finished or
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My husband has been experimenting with this a lot lately. He has figured a way to not let my orgasm decrescendo, in which if he let's it go on too long, I squirt like a fire hose. Once HE achieves that, then he will decide if I am finished or not. hehe I like it that way! I have always been too indecisive for my liking.
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04/01/2011