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Contributor: Catch Star Catch Star
I'm finally in a relationship with somone I feel comfortable expressing my kinkier side with.
It has been liberating.
I'd been doing self bondage for years in secret, but trusting my gf while I'm in cuffs has been such a wonderful experience. I'm sure we will have so many more adventures in the future :3
05/01/2012
Contributor: USJT130119200518 USJT130119200518
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Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
We're just now starting to venture into the BSDM. But this has been a fantasy of mine for a very long time. I just never felt comfortable enough with any one else to do it with any one else. I guess b/c I've never let anyone control me ... more
My wife and Iour just starting out as well. But this has been something I have thought about for years and dabbled a bit, But this is my first time in a D/s relationship.
05/01/2012
Contributor: All His All His
Its something I have always found attractive but never been in a relationship or situation I would go there in. The Hubby and I are just starting out together.
05/02/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Maybe a year or so
05/19/2012
Contributor: reinkaos reinkaos
just cuffs blindfolds and restraints, nothing major, but we've tried some softcore bdsm for about three years
05/21/2012
Contributor: Fawkes Fawkes
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Originally posted by Tart
How long have you been in the lifestyle?
over a year or so
05/21/2012
Contributor: SkinFlute SkinFlute
I've always been into it, but I just started living it!
05/24/2012
Contributor: KinkyKatiya KinkyKatiya
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Originally posted by Tart
How long have you been in the lifestyle?
I've always secretly been into it. Ive only recently expressed my appeal to my now first Master.
05/24/2012
Contributor: queenofsiam queenofsiam
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Originally posted by Tart
How long have you been in the lifestyle?
I've been in the lifestyle about 2 years.
06/11/2012
Contributor: CinLuvsBre CinLuvsBre
I just started ! Newbie!
06/16/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
I've been into the lifestyle for about 6 years now, but it wasn't anything other then just restraints, so I don't really count the first 3 years. Going past restraints, it's been about 3 years now. :3
06/17/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
i would say going on 3 years
06/18/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Just within the last year or so, actively. Sort of longingly admiring from a distance, without participating, for the last 6.
06/23/2012
Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
We're just starting!! I'm about to start purchasing our first sets of cuffs and such!
06/24/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
A little newbie here.
07/05/2012
Contributor: booyahshaka91 booyahshaka91
not long
07/06/2012
Contributor: MissLoren MissLoren
just starting
07/06/2012
Contributor: squire squire
Always been interested, and as time passes it's been great to explore with my partner
07/08/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
on and off for a yr
07/27/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
A few years. I can't remember exactly how many. 3-4? Maybe 5?
08/01/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I started off with light. But in the past 3 years it has become something more.
08/01/2012
Contributor: MrPink MrPink
I'm just starting; a recent relationship introduced me to it for real, it was just an unexplored curiosity before that. However, I can say I don't plan on giving up on this. I was always underwhelmed with 'normal' sex to the point that after my first sexual relationship it wasn't a priority of mine (I'd get some urges but it never satisfied, relationships were more about nonsexual connections w/ some sex for their sake). Now I'm always happy playing out fantasies.
08/02/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
How long have you been in the lifestyle?
about a yr
08/02/2012
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
Been in for a while and plan to be forever.
08/02/2012
Contributor: clockwork451 clockwork451
I haven't found someone to share my "interests" yet.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
How long have you been in the lifestyle?
Barely starting.
08/03/2012
Contributor: BG529 BG529
We are just starting out.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
we're slowly starting off. we're trying to figure out just what else we both would like. i already know i love the idea of being the sub.
08/03/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Well I've been doing self bondage in some form since I was about 5 but I didn't really get into the more sexual side of BDSM (or even realize there was more to it than just enjoying being tied up) until I was about 15.
I remember a few times when I was like 14 I almost got caught in pretty much full body bondage by my aunt...lord was that ever embarrassing. x_x
So I'd say as far as experience level goes maybe 8-9 years?
I'm pretty new to the whole community aspect of it though, honestly until I started looking at kinky porn pictures online and going on sites like Collarme, I was pretty sure hardly anyone was into it and that I was a total freak. But meeting a few really nice friends on FetLife and in the chat on this game I used to play really helped erase that thought from my mind. =)
08/04/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I was in it for a couple years then took a haitus and I'm getting in on another year or so.
08/04/2012