Bottom Spanking

Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
Do you like your bottom spanked or do you like to spank your partners? With what do you like to be spanked with? Like it soft, hard, or leaving welts?
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Total votes: 910 (166 voters)
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12/11/2013
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Contributor: kinkedu kinkedu
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Do you like your bottom spanked or do you like to spank your partners? With what do you like to be spanked with? Like it soft, hard, or leaving welts?
I think bare handed, over the knee spanking is my personal favorite but if I have to choose a toy I'm definitely gonna go with an elk or moose skin flogger. I feel like of all the floggers it's the most versatile since you can really make it sting or just make it pop.
12/11/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Do you like your bottom spanked or do you like to spank your partners? With what do you like to be spanked with? Like it soft, hard, or leaving welts?
Love all the different types of toys! Even got a few new ideas from your list :p
12/12/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
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Originally posted by kinkedu
I think bare handed, over the knee spanking is my personal favorite but if I have to choose a toy I'm definitely gonna go with an elk or moose skin flogger. I feel like of all the floggers it's the most versatile since you can really make it ... more
I had never heard of an elk or moose flogger. I googled and they look fun. They are a bit pricey though, but I guess you get what you pay for. Thanks for sharing.
12/14/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I recently had my first experience of being spanked or slapped, really, on my tush. I actually liked it, although, prior to this experience, I always thought it would be painful I did not want to be spanked.
12/15/2013
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I don't mind lightly, but I'm not into pain. I'm super sensitive to pain, easily bruise, etc.
12/15/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
When we are in the mood, we will do some very very light spanking. Today was one of those days. We played a game and the winner got to spank the loser lightly with the hand.
12/19/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Well, I gave her a rematch after dinner and she won this time. Collected her winnings last night. This morning, guess what ? She told me she enjoyed giving me the smacks and will do it harder next time !
12/20/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Love being spanked hard enough to make it hurt, but not leave marks.
12/30/2013
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Spanking was a big NO for me until only the last couple years. Something clicked and all of a sudden I find that it really gets me going!
01/03/2014
Contributor: smalltalkingbit smalltalkingbit
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Originally posted by SecretKinksters
Love being spanked hard enough to make it hurt, but not leave marks.
Same!

I also like being spanked most of the time, but there are a few instances where I don't prefer it. It depends on the day.
01/26/2014
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
My current partner is the only person who's ever spanked me. The first time he did it, I was surprised and a little offended. I wasn't sure how to feel. Now, I like it when the mood is right, during sex when I'm on top. I wouldn't be okay with the whole "bending me over his knee" type of spanking.
03/16/2014
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
I like it
03/16/2014
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
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Originally posted by PadoruLover
I like it
and I like paddles
03/20/2014
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I love it all.
03/21/2014
Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
^Same. LOVE spanking!
03/30/2014
Contributor: HouseWench HouseWench
Hmm, spanking is very fun, but I prefer softer materials on my skin (fur! suede!) and GIVING more stingy sensations. I'm a huge fan of using rulers and bare hands
05/15/2014
Contributor: oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
I wish I could say I've been spanked by a variety of things, but I've only gotten to know hand, crop, and a wooden paddle. All of those are fun, but I'd like to experience a variety of materials before I could truly declare a favorite.
05/15/2014
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
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Originally posted by Pete's Princess
Do you like your bottom spanked or do you like to spank your partners? With what do you like to be spanked with? Like it soft, hard, or leaving welts?
I LOVE to be spanked! Although I like implements I have to say I like his hand on my ass the most and I enjoy the sting and hot throbbing for hours (occasionally a day or two) and I like to see his handy work after the fact.
06/04/2014
Contributor: k1985g k1985g
It depends...
All those opportunities to give/get a good spankin', disciplinary or foreplay (all, however, are ultimately erotic!)
Will I dominate or submit? Who's up for some intense stimulation?
I love to warm my hand as I make her sooo wet as her bottom start tingling
...or the intimate feel of her hand on my behind?
Maybe we stay with the hand--or notch up the sting with an implement; mmmmm!

she gets the endorphin tonight!
07/03/2014
Contributor: anyankaleigh anyankaleigh
Love spanking! Over the knee is my favorite. I also like belts, which IDK if counts as spanking really.
07/16/2014
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
We love spanking!! I love to whip my hubby while I am pegging him.. He loves the pain and it makes him cum so hard.
08/30/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
We love spanking!! I love to whip my hubby while I am pegging him.. He loves the pain and it makes him cum so hard.
Ouch! is all I can say when reading this, but I bet it feels real good.
One day....
08/30/2014
Contributor: Mystic Mystic
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Originally posted by anyankaleigh
Love spanking! Over the knee is my favorite. I also like belts, which IDK if counts as spanking really.
I love belts the most too! My Dom uses it not only to punish but to reward, because He knows I like the pain and gotta love those marks afterwards!
09/13/2014
Contributor: subbieforHer subbieforHer
I've never been crazy about it, but my Mistress certainly enjoys spanking me and uses it often as a form of discipline. Mistress has me bend over a chair every morning to present my bottom for a spanking and I suppose I've learned to get to enjoy it by now, even when She goes at me pretty hard and I love it! ;P

My Mistress will often correct any misbehavior with a swiftly administered spanking that typically leaves welts on my butt afterward. I do not find this punishment very pleasurable and try to avoid receiving them (I guess that's the point... lol).
10/16/2014
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I'm scared to hurt people, so don't. I have however been spanked. It's okay. It makes me feel like a superhero to end up with bruises but as I'm getting hit it's not so pleasurable; it's the after effect I like.
10/24/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
I just want to know how to do it safely and sensually. Anyone have any tips or can point me in the direction of a tutorial?
11/24/2014
Contributor: KittiezToyz KittiezToyz
I love to be both the spankee and spanker! I think I like receiving more though Love red marks, welts, bruieses I draw the line when blood is shed though. I do not have a favorite method as of yet, still experimenting.

As for tips and tricks number one rule is knowing no is no. If you don't like it say something, set up a safeword if needed. I like to say no & stop but beg for more so safewords are a good thing for me.

Start of gentle and gradually work your way up harder. Teasing with whatever item you are going to use for the spanking is always a huge turn on (for me anyway) and may help relax the spankee and/or spanker.

Baby steps.

It's not for everyone.
11/24/2014
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
My wife and i both enjoy it.. we do mostly with bare hands just enough for the oohs and aahs lol
09/08/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I don't dare over do it. She will just pay me back in triple !

And sometimes though wks later, when I'm in a vulnerable position helpless to do anything.

See what she hiding behind her hand ?
09/08/2015