Doesn't it hurt if flogged on the front area ? If I did that to Ow, she would pay my groin area in spades !

I think Peg did an nice review on something. Check it out. Go to his page/profile and find it.

Thank you for remembering my review

You are both lucky to have each other. This type of experience would be great to read in one of your reviews !

Hi Boutiquefetiche I would suggest going to the BDSM Fun and safety link on top of page, then on bottom of that page start a thread or ask your question there. here a link to help you out. link

Or pm lvstoplay. she is an active member of the BDSM community
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I like to spank my partner, but not so hard it makes her red or leaves marks

In the heat of passion I occasionally spank my wife's bottom. She does seem to positively enjoy it, as long as I don't get too heavy handed with it, no welts, just hand slaps that don't leave prints.
She has slapped my butt a few times when we were doing missionary, it did not turn me off, and did spur me on to some extent. GIDDY-UP !

I like to be spanked and I like to spank him. All of it is done lightly, I never mean to hurt him and dont want him to hurt me. I mainly do it because I like touching his butt and I like to be playful with eachother.

Floggers, whips, paddles, crops, all those are great fun. And all would be used lightly, intimately, but they sure can make it sexy as hell and even more fun.

Whaat? You're letting someone else spank her ? Does that turn you on ? If it happened to us, would for sure. We would prob rush home and pull the other's pant down to take a glance. And if her, I'll do a dip test.

I personally love to spank my partner. With a variety of methods. My personal favorite is bending her over my knee and spanking her with a paddle. It leaves her with welts and bruises and it drives her wild.

... I wish he liked to spank me more. He does not seem into it or maybe doesn't realize I like it more than he knows. I keep trying to show him I do. But hes also a little repressed and prude and I cant really just ask him. I reeeeally wanna try a crop. not a noisy one. a good sting-y one. Like that's ever gonna happen.

Mwahaha I got him to do it today! I was blocking him like basketball when he was after a snack after work today and I annoyed him enough I got exactly what I wanted. Things got interesting. I think we will be fine when my crop gets here. It'll be his crop if I get my way. I have to be careful but I think we can go there. I'm a brat.

Yippee were you bare butt

lmao yeah for most of it. I had just gotten out of the shower when he got home and was in a tshirt and lace skivvys. When it started I got in his way just playing around. I do that fairly often anyway. Then I wound up in a position similar to MikeysPlace's wheelbarrow... Then I somehow ended up over the washing machine and then on the couch. Later on I was sort of napping and he sneak attacked me which was really unfair. That is the most antiprude he has been in weeks. I was a little sore last night but most of its going away. I miss it. I want it back. I'm just going to start playing around more again and slowly bring in more stuff further away from the norm and see what gets his attention most and what doesn't. I tried to be like that a little when we were first together but he never just comes out and says I like this, I don't like that. The arsenals expanding . I will figure this out mwahahaha.

Maybe one day the two of you will discover pegging (bend over bf) if he won't do you,then maybe you should do him. Changes everything. However don't do it if will jeopardize your relationship. There are ways to introduce this exciting lifestyle into your relationship. I got some tips from the net.

Watching some videos of real life couples pegging really got my juices going

lmao he will not let me anywhere near that area of his body... sometimes I have tried to tease or threaten playfully and I am not even serious about it and he literally gets out of bed and runs away. And other than him grabbing or occasionally spanking he really doesn't go for butt stuff. He told me once before we started living together the thought grosses him out. I can kind of understand why. I don't really have an opinion either way. Some people think its great. Can't really send him videos and don't want caught with porn on my phone cuz he says he is very against it. When we first started seeing each other, I was trying to flirt with him and have a weird conversation. I asked if we could make a porn just for us for fun cuz I thought some guys really dig that and it wins favor with them quickly. His answer to that question was no, you can and bye. He told me he'd leave me if he ever found out I was in a porn or filmed us behind his back. I am not a porn star. I never have been but if it made him happy I would probably try it. I have not watched porn since I was in highschool. I was way more fun back then. My friends and I would loiter in a mall like dumb kids will but we were weirdos. If we got bored we would go into a certain catch all adult toy and gag gift store: we would go in and get the cheap jokes for crops, paddles and floggers off the shelves and do some product testing standing in a circle in the store window. Of course it was all over clothing or as much skin as one can show in a tshirt and jeans but one friend frequently went home with welts cuz he was the only boy with us and us gals would really lay into him. One of my besties had the same red hair as me and we looked related. She played volleyball and had a wicked arm for bare handed smacks and the crop and flogger. Once she got me really good and then dragged me to the mall entrance and made me ride the carousel there. With the exception of that it was mostly for shock value cuz we were just obnoxious.

I love to give a good spanking

I would say so. So much that you said it twice ! What's your mo ?Bare hand, paddle flogger ? Bare ass, leave redish or scars ?

We're into just hand unless one of us was very bad. Then it's what's behind my back.