The New Intimacy

Do you like to watch your significant other have sex or fool around with another person?

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Contributor: dm dm
Only in fantasy and never reality
12/14/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Not for me.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Inkkythesquid Inkkythesquid
No Way. I'm Pretty Selfish When It Comes To My Man. Lol
12/16/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I'll admit I've thought about it and we even discussed it and I still fantasize about it from time to time, but it won't happen. After a long discussion, we decided it was something best left to fantasy.
12/17/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
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Originally posted by rmiles124
After seeing it many times on porn and trying myself, I've recently discovered that it turns me on to watch my boyfriend go down on other girls and have sex with them. I never thought I would be ok with this, and all my other friends say they ... more
im not sure how i would react, but im interested in seeing him fool around with another girl. i think i would probably be somewhat hurt if he actually had sex with her. (note: this is with me present, not him going behind my back in secret)
12/22/2012
Contributor: guppiefish guppiefish
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Originally posted by rmiles124
After seeing it many times on porn and trying myself, I've recently discovered that it turns me on to watch my boyfriend go down on other girls and have sex with them. I never thought I would be ok with this, and all my other friends say they ... more
Personally, I find the desire to so bizarre that I don't quite know how to grab my mind around it. What is the draw, and how does jealousy factor (or not) into the situation?
01/06/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
it's a good question. if it works for you...great. lucky bastard! sex is sex, and most people have so many hangups that they will never allow themselves to experience something "scary" or "dangerous" or non-mainstream. life is short. don't let other's ruin your good time. if it's not hurting anyone else, it's none of their business.
01/14/2013
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I remember the french political philospher P. J. Proudhon:

Property is theft!
01/14/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I've thought about it, and fantasized but I don't think I could go through with it, and I know my mans not into that idea either.
03/20/2013
Contributor: mfletcher1 mfletcher1
nope no way we don't share lol
04/09/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
When I was pregnant, the idea of this REALLY turned me on. So much so I almost mentioned it to him. I'm glad I didn't though - because not pregnant me still feels sick at the thought of him with someone else, so I'm sure I would have regretted it, and probably even just the conversation it would have brought on!
04/09/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by rmiles124
After seeing it many times on porn and trying myself, I've recently discovered that it turns me on to watch my boyfriend go down on other girls and have sex with them. I never thought I would be ok with this, and all my other friends say they ... more
I don't know! I guess it depends...
04/11/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Not my thing, or his. We have agreed that when it comes to sex we will do anything the other wants, but no one else will be actually involved, others can watch, but not participate. It has worked great for us, because anything, really means anything, and we haven't been happier!
04/13/2013