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Contributor: lovehurts lovehurts
I don't think it is cheating, but my partner always ask me to watch with him.
12/25/2012
Contributor: UpTheMiddle UpTheMiddle
My ex used to think it was cheating. My new girlfriend does not.
12/31/2012
Contributor: piglet4 piglet4
yes i do think it could be a self concious thing but i guess maybe i do see what everyone means it could be because i think he would find the other women more attractive than me and would want to have sex with me while thinking about the other woman!
06/18/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
I guess the definition of "cheating" depends on the relationship. In my relationships, it would DEFINITELY not be cheating.
06/18/2013
Contributor: No-nita No-nita
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Originally posted by piglet4
if your partner watches porn do you consider that cheating or is that normal?
It depends entirely on the relationship. I knew one couple where one party felt that porn was involving other people indirectly in their relationship and did not want the other person watching it. The other person watched it anyway. In that case, I would consider it cheating, since boundaries were laid very clearly and they were crossed anyway. It really just depends on your views on porn as individuals and as a couple.
06/18/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by piglet4
if your partner watches porn do you consider that cheating or is that normal?
I think porn is pretty normal.
06/19/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Not cheating, just wish he would have waited for me... I like porn too!
07/27/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by piglet4
if your partner watches porn do you consider that cheating or is that normal?
Normal. It's not like the porn star will actually sleep with my partner nor even text for that matter.
07/28/2013
Contributor: Mirachaya Mirachaya
Normally not cheating, after I asked to play later and he chooses porn instead, questionable.
07/29/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
Nope. My girlfriend and I live 200 miles apart now, and we both watch porn a bit.
07/30/2013
Contributor: morganamariah666 morganamariah666
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Originally posted by piglet4
if your partner watches porn do you consider that cheating or is that normal?
Completely normal...its like that old saying ...you can look but dont touch.
08/13/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
I don't consider it cheating at all. Both myself and my wife have our own porn and will even watch it together at times. It needs to be a topic of discussion. Some may have other opinions.
08/13/2013