Tuesdays With Nina: How do you figure out who's should be the driver's seat? « Relationships

Who should be in the driver's seat? Does one partner have to be always on top to make a relationship work? Are there rules that say you have to be in charge all the time, make all the decisions or should you be equals? Is this the natural way of things or should we make our own rules, follow our own path and make it up as we go along? Nina offers advice for Lisa on how to go about discovering the answer for herself.

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Tuesdays With Nina: How do you figure out who should be in the driver's seat?

Lisa, who considers herself a bisexual, sex and relationship virgin, is wondering if, in a lesbian relationship, you are in the driver's seat in the bedroom does that mean you are in the driver's seat, or the more dominant, butch partner outside the bedroom as well?