Nina's letter today is from a 56 year old man who has always found friendships with women easy to achieve, but has had little success converting those relationships to romance. He's been described as a good friend, someone who is dependable and rock steady... but finds these qualities are making him a better friend than boyfriend in the eyes of the women he's met so far. Having recently left the West Coast to relocate to Indiana, he's found the women he meets to be markedly different and wonders how he can improve his chances for finding romance in the Midwest?

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