As the Rolling Stones so sagely noted: "You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you might find, you can get what you need," and nowhere is that wisdom more true than between the sheets.

So, what do you do when you want to try something new and you're not sure your partner will agree? Well, as with most things we negotiate, Nina says we have to be clear, be kind, and be coming from a place that's trust-based, not anger or resentment oriented. If you "can't get no satisfaction," the reason may not be your partner ... it may be you.



Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.