Nina addresses the questions of a man who, after a lifetime of dealing with insecurity over his genital appearance and the resulting compulsive behaviors that it caused, is wondering if he can move past these problems and heal past wounds. For years, this man has endured feelings of inadequacy and feeling like a "freak." Nina says that regardless of what you think may be wrong with how your genitals appear, there is nothing wrong with you. She recommends Cheri Huber's book of the same name, There's Nothing Wrong With You, as an inexpensive method to help with the difficult challenge of resolving the pain, anger, grief, shame and other feelings that arise from being teased for being different.

Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.