For many people—particularly men—their only access to a sexual outlet is pornography. With that in mind, Nina talks about what happens to those who cannot interact with the human objects of their desires.
If you find yourself thinking of someone as a "loser," or are tempted to treat them disrespectfully when they approach you in a less than smooth manner—stop and consider their experience and their loneliness. No, you don't have to date them, but you can choose to be a kind, caring and compassionate person instead of another negative influence.
Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.
If you find yourself thinking of someone as a "loser," or are tempted to treat them disrespectfully when they approach you in a less than smooth manner—stop and consider their experience and their loneliness. No, you don't have to date them, but you can choose to be a kind, caring and compassionate person instead of another negative influence.
Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.
Thank you Nina for taking up a subject that I identify with. I'm 38 and a virgin and I hate it. I have an active sex life through the use of porn, but it's getting stale. When I turned 38, I had this moment where I just said to myself that I was tired of being lonely and alone. Over the past six months I have been slowly gaining more confidence by doing what I do best - using language. I've lost over 50 lbs. of weight, which gives me more confidence in how I look. I'm not a stud, but I'm not a dud, either, but I do look and feel better. I haven't found a woman yet, but each day it gets better and I gain a little bit more confidence.
The biggest question that I have now is do I tell her that I'm a virgin? To me this is lying through omission, and I don't like it.