Many things conspire to make it difficult to relax during sex. This can be a common problem and Nina has several suggestions for puzzling out just what's holding you back and keeping you from the pleasure you deserve! Whether you've suffered from sexual abuse, have grown up in a strict environment or perhaps just aren't comfortable in your own skin, there are skills you can learn for relaxation and bringing yourself to orgasm. Help is on the way!

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