Nina says many couples labor under the common assumption that your partner is responsible for your orgasm. We get ourselves off and our partners can only help. It's neither party's fault, but clearly they will have to work together to make it work. So what can be done to improve the chances of female orgasm with a partner? Not to worry, Nina has several ideas for how to get there.

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