Clitoral stimulation. How much is enough? How much is too much? The answer is different for every woman. Most of us know how to please ourselves, but sometimes, we have trouble communicating our desires to our lovers. If he/she loved me, he/she could make me come, right? Not really.

Sure everyone wants an orgasm—or several—but not all orgasms are created equal. You may be surprised to learn that you can teach yourself more ways to come than you might imagine—and sometimes, it's okay not to come at all. As long as you're having a good time, says Nina, there is no wrong way to reach the big "O." So relax, have fun and let your pleasure find you.


Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.