Of course, whose to blame isn't really the issue, according to Nina. It's about recognizing your role and responsibility in making sure you get that orgasm, instead of waiting for someone to bring it to you by accident. This week, Nina talks about how to get to know yourself and your own way to orgasm better, shedding preconceived notions on how you are "supposed" to reach orgasm during partnered sex, and how to share this new found information with your partner so they can more successfully help you cross the finish line.

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