Nina embarks on this three-part series on dealing with the decline in sexual activity in a committed lesbian relationship with a discussion on how to assess if it's appropriate to call an end to a relationship when the sexual relationship dies. She answers several questions from a woman whose female partner appears to be interested in sex, just not with her and offers some advice on how to navigate and assess the viability of her relationship after lesbian bed death.
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I agree. This is not a garden variety of sex drive decreasing because of the mileage of the relationship. The girlfriend sounds very manipulating, shifts blame for the situation instead of tying to resolve it and sucks all the joy from the relationship. There is no reason for this relationship to continue.
I've experienced something of the opposite of that situation. I was working full-time and supporting my girlfriend, but she expected me to be ready for sex anytime she was, often several times a day...despite the fact that she would regularly fight with me most of the night, after which I'd have to go to work on very little sleep. She'd be extremely offended and hurt if I told her I was too exhausted, or if I didn't seem "into it" enough. I finally got out when it became obvious that she had serious mental health problems, and she turned out to be paranoid-schizophrenic.