How do you become sexually confident enough to be spontaneous and take risks without feeling like an idiot? Even Nina Hartley has had moments of feeling like a fool and moments of shyness.

So how do you get to the point where you are feeling more confident than clumsy, more fantastically sexy than foolish?

Nina offers frank and honest thoughts on how to improve sexual confidence, take control of your own sexual energy and find the courage to overcome shyness in favor of more spontaneity and excitement in the second segment of a two-part series on how to handle when your spouse has a drastically lower sex drive than you do.