They’re young and inexperienced. They’ve waited for love. Now that it’s here, they’re ready for sex, raring to go.

Well, almost.

“I’m a small woman and he is both lengthy and girthy,” she writes to Nina. Intercourse has been impossible for them. He’s too big, or she’s too small, or some combination of the two. Is there any hope for a physical relationship?

It’s rare, Nina says, for size to really matter; there are many ways of working through the problem and quite a number of interesting routes that go around it altogether. Not surprisingly, most of them can be enjoyed by anyone. Besides … who says you have to have traditional sex, anyway?

Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.