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Mr. Sexsmith Says: What To Do To Get Your Stone Touched

Melting the Stone wants to know if she can ever move past childhood abuse and allow herself to be touched by others, or if she's doomed to a life lacking physical intimacy.

Tuesdays With Nina: Feeling Frigid

Is a woman frigid if her partner can't get her off? This common problem can be a source of great stress in a relationship. He feels like a failure for not being able to get her off. She feels frigid and ashamed. How can an otherwise happy couple solve the problem of no big O?

Mr. Sexsmith Says: From One Butch Top To Another, Here’s How To Get Off More Easily

Some Women Complain of Premature Ejaculation (Their Own)

Others might be jealous, but we think we get it ...

Shoe Designer Says Heels are about Orgasms and Personality

“So putting your foot in a heel, you are putting yourself in a possibly orgasmic situation.”

Sex While Skydiving Totally Worth Getting Fired For

Well, we think so, anyway. Maybe there's a new career in it?

Great Sex Can Make You Forget Everything. Literally.

This hasn't happened to us and we're not sure we'd mind. You?

Female Orgasm Remains a Mystery to Scientists

We're not going to let it bother us, though.

Maggie Gyllenhaal, Orgasm Expert, Satisfies 'Curiosity'

And now we want to go see her in “Hysteria.” Who wouldn't?

$3k a Night Hotel Room Gets a Lot of Action, Apparently

On the carpet? We get that. But on the wallpaper?

Tuesdays With Nina: We're All Responsible For Our Own Orgasms

Your boyfriend has only made you come once in a year? Is that his fault or is it yours?

Coming Soon: Possible Cure for Premature Ejaculation

Yes, it's part psychological ... but an anesthetizing spray has promise.

Brain Scans Reveal Secrets of the Female Orgasm

If we had an MRI machine, this is totally what we'd use it for.

Tuesdays With Nina: Help! It Takes Me Forever to Come!

Nothing is quite as frustrating as not being able to cross the finish line in a reasonable amount of time. For some women, this can be a common problem, but even men find that orgasm is sometimes too far down the road.

Tuesdays With Nina: Help! I Can't Relax And Enjoy Sex.

We've all been in this position at least once in our lives. Life is stressful and sometimes you just can't slow down and focus on the task at hand — reaching orgasm. But what if you've never been able to relax enough with your partner to come?

Tuesdays With Nina: A Road Map to Pleasing a Woman Using Perineal Massage

There are many roads to bring pleasure to a woman. The ways to bring a woman to orgasm are practically endless and perineal massage is just one technique you can use to help build toward that goal.

Secrets of a Sex Writer: I Have Trouble Having Orgasms — and I’m Okay With That

True confession time: I have trouble with orgasms. By which I mean, I am not the queen of the multiple orgasm, or even the single orgasm. I like them, sure, but they don’t always like me back.

Journalist Donates Orgasm to Science

Who wouldn't want to masturbate during a brain scan?

Florida Atheist Prosecuted for Alleged Fake Orgasm

No, we didn't think you could be jailed for that, either.

Tuesdays With Nina: Scared to Seek Satisfaction

Do you find it difficult to let your partner know that they've stopped short of pleasing you in the bedroom? Communicating the specifics of what you want and need in the bedroom can be, for many, a seemingly insurmountable hurdle. What do you do if you're too terrified to utter those all-important words "Don't stop!"?

Tuesdays With Nina: Help! I've Never Had An Orgasm and I Don't Know How!

For some, orgasm is elusive. No matter how hard you try, how many toys you buy, you just can't seem to reach the pinnacle of orgasm. Is it mental? Is it physical? Is it a matter of technique? Just what is it that is keeping you from finding the big O?

A Guide to Geysers, Facials & Pearl Necklaces

There comes a time in every guy's life when he wants to pull out and impersonate Old Faithful, just for the visual. Or perhaps there come -many- times. Women, too, may appreciate the visual — just like the hickey, it’s a spectacle (though hopefully not one that your co-workers will spot the next morning).

Tuesdays With Nina: Is it possible to overstimulate your clitoris?

Orgasms are tricky business. Because every woman is different, no two women reach orgasm the same way and for that matter often the same woman takes a different path to orgasm from one session to the next. But, what happens when you find that the more often you use your vibrator, the more power you need to reach orgasm?

Northwestern Students Treated to Orgasm Demo

Human sexuality class goes all the way.

Nikol Hasler: Sex Is Inspirational; You Can Do Magic!

A few months back, a good friend of mine told me that he'd been fingering his girlfriend and she'd ejaculated.

15 Steps to Stop Faking

As many as 10 percent of women have NEVER had an orgasm, and many more than that have never had an orgasm with a partner. And the more women fake, the worse these statistics will get. It’s time to take our orgasms into our own hands—quite literally, if need be. Stop the madness, ladies, and start the ecstasy!

Some Guys Allergic to Their Own Semen

Men suffer from “post orgasmic illness syndrome” (We're not making this up.)

Post Mature Ejaculation

Synopsis: Middle-aged man experiences the joys and terrors of rediscovering multiple orgasms. His own.

Tuesdays With Nina: Banishing Your Inner Sexual Censor

Anyone who has seen porn is familiar with the kind of orgasm that is heralded by lusty cries of: "Yes. Yes. Yes. Oh, God, Oh, God. There. Right THERE! Yes! Yes! Yes! Oh, fuck, YES! OH, FUCK ... YESSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!" But what happens when the big bang isn't... well... big?

Cosmo Tones Down Orgasms for Advertisers

“60 Sex Tips” turn into “The Male Brain.”

The Naked Reader Twitterotica Contest!

Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for our Special Holiday Edition: New Year's sexual resolutions—What will you be doing to improve your sex life in 2011?

Celebs Sacrifice Tweeting for World AIDS Day; Gay Pride in India; She Blinded Me With Sex

Keyes, Gaga, Timberlake to cut social networking until $1M goal is reached.

Playboy’s TV for 2; How Women Orgasm; Beyoncé’s Heat is Pretty Hot, Actually; Porn in a Cup

Hefner's channel hopes to attract more female viewers, maybe even couples.

Em & Lo's Sex Advice for Grown Ups—A Guide to Orgasm Etiquette

We hope we don’t need to point out that just one orgasm, for one partner, is not the finishing tape of a sex run. Instead, think of sex as a three-legged race—your partner can neither compete nor cross the finish line without your help, and vice versa. Each partner should make a concerted effort to satisfy the other partner before throwing in the towel.

Tuesdays With Nina: Finding Your Orgasm During Sex With A Partner

You can climax with a vibrator—alone in your bedroom, just you and your fantastical thoughts—no problem. But slide into bed with another human being and all bets are off?

Eat Your Heart Out: The Sexualization of Food and Food Culture

They say you never forget your first: That initial surge of blood as your heart begins to hammer, those small moans of pleasure, your mouth actually watering as your lips embrace the object of your desire.

Tuesdays With Nina: Hypothyroidism and Inability To Orgasm

This week, Nina tackles the concerns of a woman diagnosed with hypothyroidism and her resulting inability to achieve orgasm. People with this condition often have a reduced libido and diminished ability to climax—which can be distressing to both you and your partner. Nina has consulted sex expert, Dr. Robert Lawrence, for tips on how to cope with a thyroid that's putting a damper on your sex life.

Tuesdays With Nina: Clitoral Stimulation and Not Stressing Over Orgasms

Becoming Orgasmic

One definition of insanity is trying the same thing and expecting different results. The years that I’ve been sexually active have been great, but leave something to be desired. I’ve been getting it in, but I haven’t been getting off. Simply put: I have never experienced climax as a result of intercourse.

The Story of (the Missing) O

In her witty, tongue-in-cheek tale, Cutting Up Playgirl: A Memoir of Sexual Disappointment, author Carrie Jones chronicles a life without orgasms and her quest for the ever-elusive climax to her story.

Clit Sensitivity & Piercing, and Knowing When it's "Time" To Orgasm

This week, Nina takes on two very different questions. First, she tackles the issue of clit sensitivity. Does it diminish as we age? Can a clit piercing enhance pleasure? Next, a considerate young man wants to please his lover, but is worried that he's climaxing too fast. Find out why Nina says: "There's no such thing as coming to soon."

Tuesdays with Nina: A Bit of Everything

Nina answers a few viewers’ questions on yeast infections, excessive masturbation, and...Nina dishes on her favorite sex toy!

Come as You Are

An education in orgasms, from beginner to expert.

Faking the Big “O”

News flash, folks: You may think you’re a powerhouse in bed who can get any partner off, but according to a University of Kansas study, of students they interviewed who were sexually active, 67 percent of women—and 30 percent of men—faked orgasms.

Dr. Dick on Demand: Sexual Mythbusters, Part 1

No matter your experience level, no matter what you know (or think you know)—there is need for a little remedial sex-ed from time to time. The one and only Dr. Dick has a surprise or two for you this week, as he sets about a little sexual mythbusting of his own (sans handlebar moustache and/or beret).

With This Ring…A Buyer’s Guide to Cock Rings

So you say you’re ready to get your Frodo on and try your very first cock ring? First, you’ll want to know the ins and outs of getting it in and out, from safety to texture, and ultimately to decking out your member in style.

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Where we shine the warm, wet light of truthiness on that newly-hallowed squirt of feminine splendor: female ejaculation. So come – and be christened!

O: Your Own Carnal Knowledge

So you think you know what an orgasm is (and isn't)? Think again!