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by
The Bloggess,
Feb. 02, 2012
Once again, twitter has gone crazy with the bad sex trends and has basically written my column for me. This time there were a few gems worthy of sharing and a whole lot of shit that makes me glad I’m not single.
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by
Liz Langley,
Jan. 09, 2012
Somehow getting older is a little less scary.
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by
Em & Lo,
Jan. 03, 2012
If we had to distill our entire body of sex advice into one word, it would probably be this: communicate. Before sex, during sex, after sex — speak up, people!
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by
Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 28, 2011
As I look back on 2011, I realize one thing I’ve come to understand more this year is that our society is a lot more prudish than we like to think it is. First let me say that I think everyone should have a clear idea of what's right for them when it comes to sex. Navigating how and when and why you're getting it on is important; telling other people what to do, however, is offensive.
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Liz Langley,
Dec. 26, 2011
What’s worse? The principal doesn’t see the problem.
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by
Liz Langley,
Dec. 20, 2011
Mamas, don't let your babies grow up to be rapists.
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by
Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 16, 2011
Phone sex, raunchy emails, and sexting are classics now. What can you do that hot-and-heavy partners couldn’t do ten years ago? Plenty, as it turns out. Have a quick peek at five stars of the new generation of sex tech ready and waiting for your sweaty mitts.
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by
Sexis Editors,
Dec. 13, 2011
Marriage. Divorce. Dating. Sperm Donors. Insect Sex. November had a little bit of something for everyone to be thankful. Break out the leftovers and dig into the best of SexIs from November.
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by
Liz Langley,
Nov. 22, 2011
You think you’ve got romantic problems.
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by
Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 17, 2011
Sexuality educator Marylou Naccarato waxes on the importance of sensuality to happiness and creative uses for low, Japanese tables that don’t involve sushi.
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by
Sexis Editors,
Nov. 08, 2011
October was boob month. Breast Cancer Awareness Month sparked somber inspiration for many of our writers and columnists and the subject was clearly on the minds of many of our readers. Still, we tried to approach the topic as a celebration of not only surviving the disease but of breasts themselves.
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by
Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
We know, everybody's gotta make a buck, but ...
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by
Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
Compared to seniors in the '70s, they're also more sociable ... yet lonelier.
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Liz Langley,
Oct. 25, 2011
Halloween is without question the best of all possible holidays…there’s no family BS, no gift guilt, just tricks, treats and terror. But let’s face it…trying to squeeze something sexy out of it is like trying to take candy from Rosemary’s Baby.
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by
Liz Langley,
Oct. 19, 2011
Proposed law would make it a crime even when both are adults.
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by
Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 13, 2011
This hasn't happened to us and we're not sure we'd mind. You?
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by
Liz Langley,
Oct. 11, 2011
Dr. Drew's Celebrity Sex Rehab has brought focus to sex as an addiction, an idea with which many disagree, including some of his former celebrity patients.
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by
Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 07, 2011
Good for grandma, right? Well, maybe not. The cops don't approve.
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by
Nina Hartley,
Oct. 04, 2011
The Naughty Nurse, the Sassy Schoolgirl, The Prison Guard, The Perverted Professor...most of us have a role that really gets us hot, but how do you get into character and get comfortable with the scene that your partner is into, but you find makes you feel ridiculous?
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by
Liz Langley,
Sep. 22, 2011
... but his wife calls younger woman “a predator” as divorce looms.
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by
Midori,
Sep. 12, 2011
It seemed like a good idea at the time...
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by
Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
We knew. You knew. Scientists lag behind?
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by
Midori,
Aug. 25, 2011
Once a year, tens of thousands of people come together in Nevada's Black Rock Desert to create Black Rock City, dedicated to community, art, self-expression, and, of course, having a good time. But there are some guidelines to be followed when setting off for a sex adventure in the desert.
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by
Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Aug. 24, 2011
Rachel White's Kinseyesque scale for measuring the degree of your submissiveness offers insights into more than just how submissive you might be in the bedroom.
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by
Liz Langley,
Aug. 22, 2011
Actress says hormone replacement keep her youthful, at 73.
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by
Liz Langley,
Aug. 12, 2011
Where there's a will, and love, there's often a way.
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by
Liz Langley,
Aug. 02, 2011
More recent college grads make “arrangements” to pay off loans and bills.
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by
Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 27, 2011
Okay, so this is just getting mean ...
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by
Liz Langley,
Jul. 21, 2011
Here's a tip, though: Don't store those XXX phone pics on Facebook ...
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by
Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 29, 2011
Joan Price is 67 and wants you to know that sex doesn’t stop at 50—or 60, 70 or 80 and 90!
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by
Liz Langley,
Jun. 27, 2011
New book tells the stories that used to go untold.
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by
Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 21, 2011
We think this will be the last time Crystal Harris makes the cover.
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by
Jeff Schult,
Jun. 20, 2011
Common Asian herb boosts male libido, according to new scientific research.
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by
Jeff Schult,
May. 10, 2011
Plus, they allegedly don't break or leak. Coming soon!
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by
ErinORiordan,
May. 09, 2011
Perhaps it’s a cliché, but it‘s eternally true: springtime brings thoughts of new life, birth, and evidence of sexual reproduction. As real chicks hatch from birds’ nests, we eat sugar-coated marshmallow chicks delivered by a mythical bunny (and we all know what bunnies like to do in their spare time).
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Jeff Schult,
May. 05, 2011
“The whole lifestyle will just disappear unless we attract a younger crowd.”
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by
Em & Lo,
May. 03, 2011
We constantly hear how we should avoid getting into a sexual rut and keep trying new things. But just as important is to develop some good sexual habits — things that you should be engaging in on a regular basis with your partner (whatever regular means to you) — now and always.
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by
Rayne Millaray,
May. 03, 2011
And it was going to be such a nice Easter present, too ...
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by
Jeff Schult,
Apr. 28, 2011
At least they were, in 1949. Something to tell your parents, or grandparents ...
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by
Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Apr. 20, 2011
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how one’s sexual experience shapes their outlook on sex and relationships. Is more experience, not necessarily your “number,” but practical experience with other sexual partners, helpful when it comes to knowing what to do with a new partner?
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Jeff Schult,
Apr. 18, 2011
It's just 2 percent, but we do the math so you don't have to.
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by
Kal Cobalt,
Mar. 04, 2011
You have a cat, you know the deal: ownership goes both ways. Your furry companion has some ideas about when and how you should offer up affection, entertainment, and snacks. Often, those of us with cats fancy ourselves as the center of their universe, while they seem to think of us as personal assistants barely earning our keep—and that can make bedroom shenanigans complicated, to say the least.
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by
Jeff Schult,
Feb. 03, 2011
Cool, free dating site now the property of not-nearly-cool, paid site.
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by
RalphieGuy,
Feb. 02, 2011
My Visit To A Play Space In The Wilds Of Suburbia
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by
Gary,
Jan. 27, 2011
Our third Porn Club discussion was a lively and enjoyable evening. We had a large number of attendees, including the star of Girl Talk and Love & Marriage, Kayden Kross.
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by
Lorna D.,
Jan. 26, 2011
Survey says most of us believe that, anyway.
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by
Lorna D.,
Jan. 05, 2011
He plays a stalker in “The Flying Pink Pig”
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by
Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 30, 2010
Pomegranates: They’re sexy, they’re mysterious, and they’re completely impenetrable to pomegranate virgins. How the hell do you eat them, and are they worth the work? If you’re a sensual foodie, absolutely!
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by
Jeff Schult,
Dec. 22, 2010
Some people just like to start the New Year with a random bang.
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by
Lorna D.,
Dec. 14, 2010
Over-the-counter/online libido enhancer reportedly isn't all herbal.
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by
Nina Hartley,
Dec. 14, 2010
We've all heard the math jokes: 20 goes into 60 a lot more times than 60 goes into 20, but for couples who are dealing with a sizable age disparity, the day to day realities—from functionality to family or peer pressures—can be daunting.
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by
Sexis Editors,
Dec. 13, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: When I was younger, I would have been so much happier with sex, if only I had known... what?
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by
Lori Selke,
Dec. 13, 2010
Landmark San Francisco organization faces challenges due to its hands-on nature and pansexual audience.
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by
Nina Hartley,
Dec. 10, 2010
Nina Hartley is a lot of things to a lot of people: A pioneering porn star who made the crossover to mainstream films; a wife, a nurse, a sex positive feminist and a champion of free speech. For the last year, SexIs has been bolstered by her regular contributions each week with the thoughtful advice she provides in Tuesdays With Nina.
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by
Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 09, 2010
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by
Em & Lo,
Dec. 07, 2010
If you want to start eating healthy, you know that changing your relationship to food is more effective than a crash diet. The same is true with your sex life.
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by
Lorna D.,
Dec. 07, 2010
More than half of those surveyed enjoy sex in their 70s and beyond.
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by
Nina Hartley,
Dec. 07, 2010
Nina Hartley is a lot of things to a lot of people: A pioneering porn star who made the crossover to mainstream films; a wife, a nurse, a sex positive feminist and a champion of free speech. For the last year, SexIs has been bolstered by her regular contributions each week with the thoughtful advice she provides in Tuesdays With Nina.
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by
Midori,
Dec. 06, 2010
In Japan, petting pussy has its price ... and can be both decadent and tame.
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by
Lorna D.,
Nov. 22, 2010
Pontiff, in new book, says that prophylactics may be permissible (under the narrowest of circumstances.)
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by
Nina Hartley,
Nov. 16, 2010
If a tree falls in the forest, and no one hears it, does it make a sound? If a man has only had sex that he's paid for, does it still count? The answer to the first question is yes.
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by
Nikol Hasler,
Nov. 12, 2010
At 31, I'm not exactly a cougar yet.
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by
Nina Hartley,
Nov. 09, 2010
Women have been told that they reach the top rung of the sexual ladder later than men do, but what does that really mean? Is it possible to quantify the female libido chronologically?
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by
Dorian Darque,
Oct. 29, 2010
Have you ever walked alone into a darkened room and got that anxious, foreboding feeling something shouldn’t be there; something in the shifting shadows just out of sight, something with unknown motive and malevolent intent? Or does imagination just get the better of us sometimes?
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The Bloggess,
Oct. 28, 2010
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Rydell Johnson,
Oct. 25, 2010
Or come as you really are. Or come as a massive vagina. It doesn’t really matter, and that’s what makes Halloween so great.
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by
Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 19, 2010
For once, I’m not writing about getting laid. Kinda.
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by
Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 07, 2010
For the past three years, Apple’s iPod Touch has been the company’s biggest success with consumers under 18. Now that the device’s newest upgrades include the same video chat feature in the iPhone that was immediately adopted by the phone sex industry, what does this mean for the “kid-friendly” entry in the Apple empire—and for the ubiquitousness of tech and sex, no matter what your age?
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Lorna D.,
Oct. 06, 2010
High court to address latest in long line of free speech cases: Is Westboro Church over the line?
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by
Sexis Editors,
Sep. 27, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: The soundtrack of your sex life.
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Lorna D.,
Sep. 06, 2010
Thousands of Americans across the nation are enjoying the extended weekend to rest, travel, reflect—or job hunt—but, according to one dubious “news” source, today’s a great day to just lie around and have sex.
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by
removedacnt,
Aug. 19, 2010
Whether it’s the first flicker of sexual attraction, or deep in the throws of passion, it’s a good bet that when you’re in the moment, you’re not worrying about the chemistry of desire.
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by
The Bloggess,
Aug. 19, 2010
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Sexis Editors,
Jul. 19, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: Dénouement.
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by
Midori,
Jul. 19, 2010
Where is the sexiest city? Do images of lovers cavorting on beaches, romantic walks along quaint cobblestone paths or luxurious hide-away hotels come to mind? If you think “the sexiest city” is an easy question to answer, your buying the hype of travel advertising.
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Nina Hartley,
Jul. 06, 2010
You know the old saying: “Do the curtains match the carpet?” What if your drapes and rug aren't alike, but you'd like them to be? Or what if you kinda hate that “matchy-matchy” look, and would rather get a little crazy with the color down below? This Tuesday, we’re dedicated to the DIY of dying your pubes, and Nina’s got the must-know tips and safety information you’ll need before getting started.
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Sexis Editors,
May. 31, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: "I want you, but I can't tell you."
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by
Dorian Darque,
May. 28, 2010
There may be nothing you can legally do with your body more exciting and sensual than grabbing your partner and jumping on a motorcycle, at least in public. No other human experience heightens the senses and ignites instincts like climbing atop a great chuffing beast and heading out on the highway.
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Jeff Schult,
May. 21, 2010
First date: coffee or dinner and a movie. Second date: things begin to warm up. While traditionally the third date is "the one we do it," sometimes second dates are all it takes...
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Sexis Editors,
May. 11, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner up and the outstanding entries for last week's topic: Solo Sex. How tweet it is!
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Liz Langley,
May. 03, 2010
It might be a graceful phrase from Anais Nin or Pat Califia, sought out or stumbled on, but as with any sexual attraction, once it chooses you, your heartbeat quickens, you’re aware of your breathing, and you become a bit stupid with horniness. That’s what reading erotica does to you—at least good erotica.
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by
G.L. Morrison,
Apr. 26, 2010
When the rules of society overrun the path to sexual satisfaction, sometimes, the only way to get back on track is with a little—or a lot—of hands-on help.
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by
Nina Hartley,
Apr. 20, 2010
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Nina Hartley,
Mar. 09, 2010
Great sex is easy... when you're Nina Hartley, but even Nina says there's a lot to be learned from reading. This week, Nina tells us which books are essential to educating your libido.
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Cherry Trifle,
Feb. 16, 2010
And why shouldn’t they? Haven’t they earned it, for Pete’s sake? And if nothing else, the prospect of aging does seems far more tolerable if oral’s still on the table.
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Sarah Sloane,
Feb. 09, 2010
To hell with the young ones that don’t know their G-spot from their clit, or who think that perky tits and a flat tummy are the keys to getting a date. Give me a little of that Cougar spirit!
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Nina Hartley,
Jan. 19, 2010
Today, Nina dishes on the biggest sexual organ of all...the brain!
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Nina Hartley,
Dec. 15, 2009
This week, Nina expounds on the art of proper breathing techniques during sex, in order to open up the body to maximum pleasure.
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by
Dr Dick,
Nov. 30, 2009
World AIDS Day brings into focus the micro-strategies needed to combat a macro problem.
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Dr Dick,
Nov. 23, 2009
Have you ever wondered about the term sex positive? If you’re like me, you see it all over the place, especially on sex-related sites. I confess I use it way more often than I should. It’s become one of those industry buzzwords that has, over time, become so fuzzy around the edges that to some, it’s now virtually meaningless.
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by
Elizabeth,
Nov. 16, 2009
When it comes to STDs, for many people, it’s much easier simply not to know.
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by
Mother May I?,
Nov. 09, 2009
Why is talking to our progeny about sex so awkward? Does it have to be?
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by
Dr Dick,
Nov. 09, 2009
Let’s pick up where we left off last week, on the perils young people face as they navigate the expectations of virginity and sex, and begin to consider their first forays into partnered sex.
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by
Rachel Rabbit White,
Oct. 21, 2009
Who doesn't remember their first crush? I was four years old; she was my Sunday School teacher, tall with pale skin and long sandy brown hair nipping just above her waist. I remember feeling excited by her, romantic toward her. I wasn't sure what I wanted to do with her but I had fantasies of grandly sweeping her away to do...something.
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Dr Dick,
Oct. 05, 2009
Dr. Dick weighs in with a little talk about sexual identify, just in time for National Coming Out Day.
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Sexis Editors,
Oct. 02, 2009
Today on SexVoxing: What is in your bedside table drawer or toy basket?
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Elizabeth,
Aug. 20, 2009
Ah, college. It’s where teenagers go to learn—about themselves, about the world, how to do body shots, and pick up strangers in bars. For many young people, it’s the first time they’ve been away from parental authority. They are treated and are expected to act like adults, but for many the taste of freedom is embraced as license to explore the siren songs of sex, drugs, and rock ’n’ roll.
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by
Mr Guy,
May. 01, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one dirty, smelly brassiere at a time.
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by
Mr Guy,
Mar. 11, 2009
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