Now, this is the point, particularly if you haven’t been following my articles as a fan (I’m sure I must have one or two), where you probably think, “Yeah, you’re a guy. Of course you love cumming! You see money shots in porn and want to pop off your jism in any pussy, ass, or face you can get to hold still long enough!”
But honestly, I’m the kind of guy who loves the orgasms of others at least as much as my own and, in some ways, even more so.
I love hearing real (or well-acted and realistic) orgasms in porn from the women. I love knowing that as sexual education and awareness has grown, more and more women are finding ways to orgasm—whether with their lovers, their own hands or via toys—instead of just wondering what those so-called climaxes are like. And I especially love hearing my wife reach her sexual crescendo and feel her trembling and bucking as she cums, particularly if my tongue is making that happen.
Of course, I love my own orgasms, too, and that’s why I jack off more days of the week than not unless I’m really stressed, sick or busy. I’ve loved finding out how to enjoy various toys since discovering EdenFantasys when I was reviewing items from time to time and then buying toys with gift credit I’d earned from writing articles for them. So many ways to bring myself to climax and so many different subtleties of every experience because of the variety of stimuli.
Despite all this, I’m going to say something that some of you may not like, may misunderstand or may find confusing to read in an article by me after saying all that and writing the things I have in the past.
But honestly, I’m the kind of guy who loves the orgasms of others at least as much as my own and, in some ways, even more so.
I love hearing real (or well-acted and realistic) orgasms in porn from the women. I love knowing that as sexual education and awareness has grown, more and more women are finding ways to orgasm—whether with their lovers, their own hands or via toys—instead of just wondering what those so-called climaxes are like. And I especially love hearing my wife reach her sexual crescendo and feel her trembling and bucking as she cums, particularly if my tongue is making that happen.
Of course, I love my own orgasms, too, and that’s why I jack off more days of the week than not unless I’m really stressed, sick or busy. I’ve loved finding out how to enjoy various toys since discovering EdenFantasys when I was reviewing items from time to time and then buying toys with gift credit I’d earned from writing articles for them. So many ways to bring myself to climax and so many different subtleties of every experience because of the variety of stimuli.
Despite all this, I’m going to say something that some of you may not like, may misunderstand or may find confusing to read in an article by me after saying all that and writing the things I have in the past.
What a great article. Thank you so much for your honesty. Its not something my husband and I are experience but definitely something I can apply to the times I want sex and he doesn't.
great article.
Nice.
Your frankness takes my breath away, I couldn't have put it better myself. I do admit I know what excites myself better than my partner, my most sensual areas of my body that enjoys touching. The big O is an added bonus, to me I enjoy the time being with my partner, being held, cuddled, touched, and petted lovingly. But I am also with you, I love the big O and if it takes a toy for it to happen, then I'm all for it, daily if at all possible. But whether my man comes or not, I enjoy the sensation of him inside me no matter what.
yes!!
Thanks for the kind thoughts and remarks, everyone.
Such honesty should be applauded. I'm sure every couple can relate to this article in some way. Fabulous read!