"I want to advocate for legalization of sex work, because without the demonetization, sex workers can actually set forth a lot more standards and fair practices."
Ivy Jones ~ Sexter and Cam Model
Ivy Jones is a 23 year old, bi-racial webcam model who, in the real world, is a pansexual who identifies as a male. He is an anarchist, avid activist, and openly admits that he would make the world’s worst "Suzie Homemaker." In the cam world, he plays up the "girly girl" aspect for some quick cash. He also does sexting and online role play for the same reasons, whether it is to have extra money on hand, pay off some bills, or even buy a new toy for his cat. The thing with camming, it’s a great way to just work when you have time, and make money when you want to.
Ivy started camming at a very young age of about 13, mostly being a submissive for a few guys for free. At this point, I am sure there are a few readers shaking their heads in disapproval at his young age. But think about it. One in four children age 11-16 report having sex. Not just quenching their curiosity online, but actually out there, having impulsive, ignorant sex. And what is worse, 30% of that group end up getting knocked up by the age of 15. So if you were shaking your head, I'm sure you are done now. Moving on. Eventually, he stopped for some time in his upper teens and only rejoined the camming world not too long ago when money got tight. Though he, modeling as a "she," occasionally does Domme some men, he wouldn't call himself a professional. Really? The way I see it, if some dude wants to pay you cold hard cash to make him your bitch, whether it is a Domme/sub relationship or otherwise, I say you got that shit on lock. Professional? Hell, you’re a fuckin' rock star.
Now it's time to pinpoint the beginning of Ivy's camworking career. This portion is hard to not shake your head at. In fact, it kind of made me want to go on a pedo castrating spree. Ivy explained that he honestly thinks that the reason he ended up working in the sex industry stemmed from abuse. My question to him was, "What do you think was the beginning or background to you becoming a sex worker?" In his own words he answered, “Honestly? Running into abusers when I was young. Granted, I probably would have been doing sex work regardless at this age now for cash. However, the fact that it's just like riding a bicycle for me is probably from my experience as a minor.” Scary thought right? But it is typically a major factor in becoming a sex worker. Not for everyone. But statistics show that the majority of sex workers have been in an abusive relationship in their formative years. Here is some research and statistics that might give you some chills as well:
• It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today.
• Approximately 95% of teenage prostitutes have been sexually abused.
• Long term effects of child abuse include fear, anxiety, depression, anger, hostility, inappropriate sexual behavior, poor self-esteem, tendency toward substance abuse and difficulty with close relationships.
• Sexuality is regarded not simply as a part of the self-limited to genitals, discrete behaviors, or biological aspects of reproduction, but is more properly understood as one component of the total personality that affects one's concept of personal identity and self-esteem.
• If the child victim does not resolve the trauma, sexuality may become an area of adult conflict.
Working in the sex industry does not guarantee that a person was abused; there are plenty of people in the industry that have simply found it to be a lucrative career path. But everyone has their history, and they are not always full of sunshine and butterflies.
Ivy started camming at a very young age of about 13, mostly being a submissive for a few guys for free. At this point, I am sure there are a few readers shaking their heads in disapproval at his young age. But think about it. One in four children age 11-16 report having sex. Not just quenching their curiosity online, but actually out there, having impulsive, ignorant sex. And what is worse, 30% of that group end up getting knocked up by the age of 15. So if you were shaking your head, I'm sure you are done now. Moving on. Eventually, he stopped for some time in his upper teens and only rejoined the camming world not too long ago when money got tight. Though he, modeling as a "she," occasionally does Domme some men, he wouldn't call himself a professional. Really? The way I see it, if some dude wants to pay you cold hard cash to make him your bitch, whether it is a Domme/sub relationship or otherwise, I say you got that shit on lock. Professional? Hell, you’re a fuckin' rock star.
Now it's time to pinpoint the beginning of Ivy's camworking career. This portion is hard to not shake your head at. In fact, it kind of made me want to go on a pedo castrating spree. Ivy explained that he honestly thinks that the reason he ended up working in the sex industry stemmed from abuse. My question to him was, "What do you think was the beginning or background to you becoming a sex worker?" In his own words he answered, “Honestly? Running into abusers when I was young. Granted, I probably would have been doing sex work regardless at this age now for cash. However, the fact that it's just like riding a bicycle for me is probably from my experience as a minor.” Scary thought right? But it is typically a major factor in becoming a sex worker. Not for everyone. But statistics show that the majority of sex workers have been in an abusive relationship in their formative years. Here is some research and statistics that might give you some chills as well:
• It is estimated that there are 60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America today.
• Approximately 95% of teenage prostitutes have been sexually abused.
• Long term effects of child abuse include fear, anxiety, depression, anger, hostility, inappropriate sexual behavior, poor self-esteem, tendency toward substance abuse and difficulty with close relationships.
• Sexuality is regarded not simply as a part of the self-limited to genitals, discrete behaviors, or biological aspects of reproduction, but is more properly understood as one component of the total personality that affects one's concept of personal identity and self-esteem.
• If the child victim does not resolve the trauma, sexuality may become an area of adult conflict.
Working in the sex industry does not guarantee that a person was abused; there are plenty of people in the industry that have simply found it to be a lucrative career path. But everyone has their history, and they are not always full of sunshine and butterflies.
Love this series!
Thanks! I'm glad you liked it!
I absolutely love your articles.
I'm glad you are enjoying it! Stay tuned for more to come!
thanks
thanks
I am fine with legalizing sex workers, just for their own protection, but teenagers should not be a part of it! Great article though, very well written researched and emotional too.
This has really opened my eyes, thank you.
i did the same thing with "two girls one cup" don't do it unless you are EXTREMELY open minded and NOT AT ALL SQUEAMISH
btw lilly i love your "about me"