Whether we define “sexy” as sexually charged, physically attractive or primed for sex, we, generally speaking, consider “sexy” to be an overall positive thing. No matter their gender, sexuality or race, most everyone likes to feel sexy. Let’s be honest here. There’s not much that excites a body more than knowing someone else finds one attractive. Except maybe finding oneself attractive. So, in the interest of helping you find your sexy (or at least your sexy time), we’ve put together this buyers guide full of toys and lingerie and body care products we think will give you a nudge (or a giant shove, as the case may be) in the right direction.
Sexual health is sexy!
Je Joue Ami, Rocks Off Ltd. Naughty Boy, ISA Research and Education Kegelcisor Enhansor, EdenFantasys Beginner Anal Kit, Shots Media Touche the Dukes
Studies show that men who massage their prostate at least once a month have a higher libido and sperm count, and even have less issues with prostate infections while women who kegel regularly have better orgasms and overall sexual and urinary health! And besides that? It just plain feels good! EdenFantasys has some great tools to help you with all of the above.
The Je Joue Ami exerciser balls are a set of three balls, all of different sizes and weights. You can progress from one to the next and strengthen your PC muscles which can have many positive impacts on your body! The Amis are fantastic and since two of them are flexible, they can conform to your body. These are excellent exerciser balls for a wide range of women. - Ivy Wilde
Touche The Dukes are an ingenious and unique vaginal exerciser. Similar to the LELO beads, the Dukes also feature interchangeable weights, but let you decide if you want one ball or two while also getting to choose your preferred weight combination. They’re comfortable for long term wear or short term wear and are a great choice for anybody looking to exercise their vagina. - Sam (aka Jul!a)
The Kegelcisor Enhansor is the cutest exerciser you will find. It’s designed for older women, but will work well for anyone looking for a durable and small kegel exerciser. You won’t feel kegel exercises as intensely with this product however as you would with larger barbell style exercisers. - Tuesday
Have you seen EdenFantasys new Beginner Anal Kit? These anal toys are a great introduction to prostate massage. They’re made of silicone, so you can disinfect them with bleach or by boiling them. They’ve got wide bases to keep them from attempting to wiggle all the way inside your bum. They’re smaller than most plugs and different textures to open beginners up to a wider range of experience in the anal department. But best of all? Check out that price! At $21.99 for three plugs, you can’t go wrong.
The Naughty Boy, by Rocks Off Ltd. flipped Top to Bottom’s lid by helping him find his p-spot for the first time ever. If it lines up with your anatomy correctly, you can stimulate your p-spot and your perineum at the same time. It’s made of silicone and vibrates to aid in relaxing your anus. The bullet is removeable so you can boil the toy, but don’t forget to put a little lube in the hole before inserting the bullet so it’ll pop right out when you’re ready to clean it! Overall, it’s a really great toy for beginners, and even better for folks who’ve been stimulating their prostate for a while.
Pampering yourself is sexy!
Cake Beauty Milk Made Smoothing White Sugar Scrub, Doc Johnson Good Head Xmas Kit for Her, Shunga Intimate Kisses Exotic Green Tea Aphrodisiac Oil, Lover's Choice Romantic Essentials Kit, System JO Dona Body Butter
Whether it’s just for you, or for you and a partner, we’ve got tons of body products that will enhance your sexy. From sugar scrubs, to body butters, to massage products and blowjob enhancers, you can’t go wrong with sexy stuff for your skin.
“Cake’s Milk Made line does it again! This raspberry and vanilla scented scrub exfoliates beautifully. Not only that, but it leaves just the right amount of oils and butters on the skin when you’re done with the scrub,” says Kira of Cake Beauty Milk Made Smoothing White Sugar Scrub. Doesn't it sound delicious?
System JO Dona Body Butter is an aphrodisiac infused rich, silky butter to deeply moisturize and rehydrate skin from a new line from System Jo. Each step has products to help you relax, unwind, and release your sensual energy! The products are natural, eco-friendly, paraben free, and without harsh chemicals so that you can treat your body well while getting into the mood!
The Doc Johnson Good Head Xmas Kit for Her enhances oral sex with just a drop to the tongue, and their festive packaging makes them perfect for stuffing stockings. But who says it has to be Christmas to give Good Head?
“Shunga’s Intimate Kisses Exotic Green Tea Aphrodisiac Oil can be applied anywhere on the body where lovers want a little extra heat and flavor during foreplay,” say Alan & Michele. “Because it’s a glycerin-based product, rather than a true oil, there is no need to worry about it clogging pores or being difficult to remove; although, women who are prone to UTI’s or yeast infection may want to avoid using it in the genital area. The ‘aphrodisiac’ effect doesn’t come from some unheard of chemical component, but rather from the way the oil’s warming capability makes the skin feel more sensitive.”
Surprise the one you love with an unforgettable romantic romantic occasion using the Lover’s Choice Romantic Essentials Kit. Warming massage oil, bubble bath, scented silk rose petals, mood setting tea lights and a mini romance guide get the evening started. It’s even got a couple breath mints you can use to cover up the oysters and champagne you nibbled on before getting into the sexy, or ... Well, use your imagination!
Testing your boundaries is sexy!
Magic Silk Barbarella, Sportsheets Sex and Mischief Wild About S&M Kit, Magic Silk Medusa, Fetish Fantasy Elite 20’ Bondage Rope, Magic Silk Raven
Barbarella, Medusa, Raven by Magic Silk are great additions to any kinkster’s closet, or even just the closet of someone who wants to spice up their sex life. Whether you top, bottom or dabble, these delicious pieces made of nylon and spandex will show off your assets and rev your lover’s engine.
But don’t for get the accessories! Sportsheets Sex and Mischief Wild About S&M Kit and Fetish Fantasy Elite 20’ Bondage Rope will add to the atmosphere in ways you never thought possible. Take away your partner’s sight or ability to push your hands away (with their permission, of course!) and embark on a decadent journey of sensual exploration.
Occasional extravagance is sexy!
Wet For Her Toy Four, Fun Factory Minivibe Angelo Click ‘n’ Charge, Je Joue Fifi, Je Joue Uma, Sportsheets Fetish Fantasy Elite Vibrating Panty
The Toy Four by Wet For Her is a double ended vibrator meant for partner use. It resembles the thumb and two first fingers on your hand, just a little longer. Made of silicone, it’s body safe and great for sharing!
“Je Joue took their time creating a rabbit-style stimulator; years after this company emerged with the innovative SaSi, it's finally breaking into dual stimulators with the Fifi,” says advanced reviewer Owl Identified. “The wait has proven to be well worth it, though. Deep, rumbly vibrations come from three separate motors, providing stimulation to multiple erogenous zones at once. And with its smooth, matte silicone surface, Fifi should last safely and comfortably through a lot of play!”
Fun Factory Minivibe Angelo Click ‘n’ Charge and Je Joue Uma are great body safe g-spot vibes that will save you a bundle on batteries while protecting our landfills. Each have elegant curves designed with your g-spot in mind, but Angelo is shaped sort of like a tongue while Uma’s shaped more like an old-school phone. You’re definitely going to wanna try them out!
Or hide the vibe in your panties and go out on the town! Sportsheets Fetish Fantasy Elite Vibrating Panty comes with an adorable pair of pink and white polka dot panties with ribbons in the front. The toy, made of silicone, curves just right to nestle exactly where you want it. And it's 100% disinfectable! Just remove the bullet and drop it in a pot of boiling water for ten minutes. You know what that means, right? Sharing!
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