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Dressed for Sex-less

Culture dictates that women dress all sexy-like to tantalize and entice their men when they’re headed to bed. The fellas? Not so much.

Where Do Fathers Fit In With a Woman’s Reproductive Rights?

In the United States, a woman can have an abortion with or without the consent of the unborn baby’s father. Is that how it should be?

The Bloggess takes on Cosmo. Everyone loses.

Sometimes when I can’t think of a good topic to write about for my sex column I just turn to Cosmo, the holy grail of sex talk. I choose a headline at random and I try to write the article based on my personal knowledge without peeking at the answers.

Guys Find it Hard to be Sexy

Do men feel sexy? What does it for them? Our friend AHubbyof2SexualMinds gives us his opinion.

Are Hypocrisy and Thievery Prominent Among Sex Bloggers?

When one sex blogger cried copyright foul, it highlighted the daily hypocrisy she and other sex bloggers exhibit in thieving other people’s intellectual property. Copyright infringement, without a doubt, is unsexy.

Sexy is a Journey

There's so much more to being sexy than just body image. Here's what Roland concentrated on when he decided to get his sexy back.

Science Proves Once Again Men Really Are From Mars

With their propensity for sex-driven war, who else could have fathered them?

“Donorsexual” Ordered to Stop Giving Away His Sperm

It would have been okay if he were having sex.

Penis Tattoo Causes Permanent Semi-Erection

Maybe he won't have to take Viagra anymore?

Stephen Hawking Confirms Women are a Mystery

If he doesn't get women, nobody ever will.

Canadian DJ Maintains New Years Resolution of Abstinence

Says the Internet kept him honest. Thanks, Internet!

Legalize Same-Sex Marriage to Improve LGBT Health!

It's the right thing to do.

Fraternity Shut Down Over 'Who Would You Rape' Survey

We hope they all get to explain this to their moms.

Hotels Try to Cater to 'Just Us Girls' Demographic

Accommodations for women only: Feminine choice, or discrimination?

From the Dept. of 'Things Not to Do to Your Penis' ...

Silicone injections from a fake doctor? Not surprisingly, someone dies in this story.

Psychologist Allegedly Faked Rape to Convince Husband to Move

We're thinking she didn't think this all the way through.

Kids Say the Darnedest Things ...

9-year-old boy who made "suggestive" comments to teacher is in the clear, but principal loses job.

Scholarship Conditions Included Provision for Spankings

No, this was not BDSM college; Virginia man gets two years in jail.

Woman Says Nurse in Florida Hospital Fondled Her

Files suit to "protect other women" from sexual abuse; alleged abuser still working.

N.J. Mayor Resigns in Wake of (You Guessed It) Sex Scandal

The moral of the story is: If you're going to hire a male escort, don't make him mad at you.

Former 'Sheriff of the Year' Charged with Trading Drugs for Sex

... and he's held in a jail that was named after him.

Fox Reporter Outs Massachusetts Teacher as Porn Actor

... and, turns out, teacher has a lot of support and Fox, less than they expected.

Herman Cain: This Time, It's Not Sexual Harassment, Anyway ...

Attorney says alleged 13-year affair is really none of anyone's business.

Rapper Defends the Right to Make Stupid Gay Jokes

Because it's, like, in the Constitution. Uh-huh.

Eavesdropping Husband Tries to Strangle Wife

If your spouse works for the phone company ... Um. He trusts you, right?

Brooklyn, N.Y., Porn Store Clerk Slain

Robbery suspected as motive, NYPD searches for killer.

Mila Kunis, Justin Timberlake Make Marine Dreams Come True

Stars make good on promises of dates for enterprising soldiers.

Okay, This is Sort of Like a Bra for Penises

Guys: “Cocksox” will help you stand out in a crowd. Or get you arrested. We're not sure.

The Citadel Admits Inaction after 2007 Allegation of Sex Abuse

Shades of Penn State: “We regret that we did not pursue this matter further.”

Scientists Prove Hokey-Pokey Leads to Hanky-Panky

Dudes: Learn to dance. Because that's what it's all about.

87-Year-Old Woman Shoots Husband, 88, Over Alleged Affair

Fortunately, it was bird shot. And she's not mad any more.

Circumcised with Bamboo Sticks: All in a Day's Work

Some journalists really will do anything for a scoop.

Former Penn State Coach Charged with Sexually Abusing Boys

School's athletic director and a vice president of the university allegedly failed to report incidents.

Fearing Infidelity, U.K. Man Fattens Wife on Steroid Diet

Yes, this is abuse. And we're thinking he got off easy.

Iowa 83-Year-Old Guy Faces Prostitution Charge

We know, everybody's gotta make a buck, but ...

Oh, Grampa

When my grandfather died he left me partial ownership of a used tractor.

Older Folks are Better Educated, Have More Sex Than They Used To

Compared to seniors in the '70s, they're also more sociable ... yet lonelier.

Office Worker in China Gives Town a Free Porn Show

His computer was hooked up to a billboard. Oops ...

Filmmaker Plans Porn Parody Based on DSK Sex Assault Case

This sounds entirely NOT funny and not sexy, and we hope it goes away.

Oklahoma Penis-Pump Judge Loses Pension

It's probably bad enough to be known as the penis-pump judge, but ...

Sexual Harassment Allegations Cloud Cain Campaign Prospects

GOP presidential candidate says he was falsely accused.

How the Boy Scouts Failed to Stop a Pedophile

Newspaper's investigation says organization has secret files on reports of molestation.

Condom Klepto Hits Walgreens in Georgia

More proof, perhaps, that some shoplifters need treatment, not punishment.

On a Dare, Aussie Dude Moons Queen Elizabeth II

We don't know if she minded, but of course the police did.

Indian Girls Called 'Nakusa' Get New Names

In Hindi, it means “unwanted.” Maybe now, they won't be ...

Okay, Men are Funnier Than Women. But Not By Much

We're not sure science is the best way to judge, either, but here goes ...

New York Sex Offenders? There's a Facebook App for That ...

Just in time for Halloween, we suppose, if you feel you need to know where they live.

He Kissed a Boy, So Can't Be a Cheerleader

Texas teen's parents vow to pursue reinstatement. Yeah!

Bad Science Doesn’t Justify Male Circumcision

Doctors still attempt to promote the unnecessary and unethical practice of male infant circumcision – and have begun using increasingly questionable science to support their argument.

Strauss-Kahn Won't be Prosecuted for Sex Assault in France, Either

Prosecutors won't bring charges despite evidence in 2003 case.

Dr. Pepper Gets All Macho with New Diet Soda

We get the joke, but we're not sure it's the same joke they think it is.

Semen in the Yogurt? Just ... Ewwww.

We'll be avoiding those free samples from now on, thanks very much.

Women Eat Less When Dining with Men

Study suggests that the sex of the people around us may lead us to consume more or less food.

Butt Crack Pants are a Gold Mine for Albany, Georgia

Pull 'em up, it's the law. Oops, too late!

Which is Worse, No Girlfriend or a Fake One?

FakeGirlFriend.co is for when you're really lame, or really need an excuse.

Hitman Fakes Killing After Falling in Love with Target

No one gets away with anything, but at least they're all alive.

For This 14-Year-Old ... It Didn't Get Better

Buffalo, N.Y., youth commits suicide over bullying.

Only the Irish Want Sperm from Redheads

... well, at least when it comes from a sperm bank.

Sept. 11 Strip-Search Incident in Dispute

Yes, we know people get edgy. But the TSA gets out of control.

'Bloody Sunday' Bishop Would Let Priests Marry

Association of Catholic Priests agrees ... for what it's worth.

Doctor Charged with Two Sexual Assaults is Still Seeing Female Patients

Court says a female RN must be present, but allows him to practice.

Stalking Suspect Allegedly Called Her Ex-Boyfriend 65,000 Times

Thank you, autodialing. This is why you were invented?

Nebraska Prosecutor Under Fire for Lax Attitude on Rape

He also apparently thinks child porn should be ignored.

Walmart Theft of $45K Was to Pay for Sex Change, Car

That's one way to get money. It's a bad way, though, and almost never works.

Perpetual Hard-on Leads to Life of Crime

Hardened criminal? Priapism no joke for this New Yorker.

Dudes Want to Sue Sex Expo for Letting Women in Free

Guys, guys ... you're not going to win this one, and are you sure you want to?

Doctor Cleared of Sex Assault Charges after Three Years in Jail

He was the victim of a “How I lost my virginity” lie.

Lesbian Scoutmaster Outed, and Removed from BSA Post

Longtime volunteer victimized by assistant scoutmaster's “witchhunt.”

Gay Tripping — Part 1

Gay resort chains are nothing new abroad, but what about closer to home? As the tendrils of marriage equality take root and the gay community continues its slow, measured march toward ubiquity, are LGBT hotels becoming just another no-big-deal niche in the travel industry?

Research Validates Caveman Approach to Hookups

We're thinking this probably does not work for everyone.

Single Women Think Single Men Ruin the Neighborhood?

Well, not entirely ... but they aren't a priority, in top ten cities for unattached women.

Navy Reinstates Commander Who Made Raunchy Videos

Panel of admirals says former Enterprise XO can stay in service.

'Girls Gone Wild' Guy Allegedly Assaulted A Girl or Three

Joe Francis says surveillance camera will prove his innocence.

$3k a Night Hotel Room Gets a Lot of Action, Apparently

On the carpet? We get that. But on the wallpaper?

Alcohol & Consent: Why the Double Standard?

Whacked out, drunken-ass consent is still consent; otherwise we have to reexamine a woman’s right to drink.

Wanted: A Rick Perry Sex Scandal

Ron Paul supporter takes out ad looking for dirt on Texas governor.

Adam Corolla's Bigotry Masquerades as Comedy

GLAAD on his tail for anti-LGBT podcast rant.

Allies Wanted to Dose Hitler with Estrogen

Feminized fuehrer, perhaps, would have been less monstrous.

Disney Discourages Typhoon Lagoon Perv

Of course they do, and good thing, too ...

Ask Before You Use the Handcuffs, Okay?

She'll thank you for your consideration, instead of calling the police.

Audio Tapes Provide Damning Evidence in Trial of Polygamist

Recordings of leader of Mormon sect are allegedly of him having sex with 14-year-old.

Sexy Ads in U.K. Vandalized by Teen Sharia Supporters

Our advice, kids, is to learn not to look, or become more tolerant.

Men with Unwanted Breasts: There's Hope

Increasingly, gynecomastia can be treated.

Sex Offenders: Does Frank Rodriguez Belong on That List?

After 15 years of marriage and four children with the “victim” ... we'd say, “No.”

Girl Gamers Unwelcome Where the Boys Can't Behave?

Controversy in LAN party land mostly reinforces stereotypes.

Improved Male Birth Control on the Horizon

(And it's about time, wouldn't you say?)

Solicitation: Sex Workers and Johns Come Together

The Naked Truth is an online community where sex workers come together to talk openly, share resources, and vent about bad clients. There are other such forums online, where sex workers gather, but what makes The Naked Truth unique is that those “bad clients” are often a part of the conversation.

Guys Can Claim Sex Discrimination in the Workplace, Too

At beauty product company in Puerto Rico, allegedly, only women could be on top.

Catching Pervs in the Act, at Comic Con

Mr. Radtastic is our new favorite superhero. How about you?

Oklahoma's Masturbating Ex-Judge Faces New Charges

We expect he'll leave the penis pump at home, this time.

Swedish Sperm-Sniffing Dog Fights Sex Crimes

The question is ... Okay, we actually don't want to know how the dog was trained.

True Blood: Witchy Women (and Men)

Alpha Male Baboons Get Laid More, But Stress Out

Beta males may actually be happier in the long run. Huh.

Solicitation: Sex Worker Round Table — Part 2

Falling in Love with Clients, Marriage and Paying for Sex as a Woman

Ohio Politician Mixes Booze, Driving, Viagra ... Etc.

Well, voters. You know what to do with this one, right?

Canada Put Naturists on Trial for Public Nudity

Naturists, in turn, put Canada on trial for public prudery.

Teen Could Get 8 Years for Sex-Toy Prank

If you're thinking this is overkill, we're with you.

Writer Will File Attempted Rape Complaint Against Strauss-Kahn

Incident allegedly occurred in 2003. Meanwhile, case against him in NY is in tatters.

Two Charged in Murder Cases Wed in California

Maybe if we were actually there, it would seem more romantic ...

One-Finger Salute Gets Missouri Driver Arrested

We don't recommend his behavior but we're thinking he has a right to express his displeasure. You know?

Church Radio Station Manager Caught with Pants Down

Driving while nude? Try not asking for directions ...

The Straight, White, Cisgender Male = Creepy

I’ve invested a lot of column inches fighting the perception that straight, white, cisgender men are “the enemy” — and that they don’t deserve the suspicion, negativity or outright hostility that often awaits them within the so-called “sex positive” online community.

The problem is: There are straight, white, cisgender men who certainly don’t do me any fucking favors.

Adult Industry Can't Resist the Famous Weiner

Just what you wanted. 'The Wonder Weiner,' for your phone. Uh-huh.

Solicitation: Sex Worker Round Table — Part 1

We associate the word “John” with the word "trick." It’s been reported this is because, on the street level, the sex worker is trying to "trick" him into as much money as possible — it’s part of “the game.” But what do sex workers really think of their clients? Are they trying to scam them? And what do they think about what our Johns have had to say?

Adult Industry Job Offers Rolling in for Andrew Weiner

Well, of course they are. You knew this would happen.

Weiner Resigns in First No-Sex Sex Scandal

A relieved Congress is again pervert-free. (Right.)

Hefner and Harris Cancel the Playboy Wedding

Now we don't feel so bad about not being invited ...

Catholic University Back to Single-Sex Dorms

President says women have failed to civilize the men ... like it was their job?

Get 'Em While They're Hot? Weiner Action Figures, T-shirts and #Weining ...

Who will buy these things? Republicans? We don't know.

'Gay Girl in Damascus' Turns Out to be Hetero Married Male American

Bringing fictional characters to life, on the Internet, can be a very bad idea.

'The Naked Adventurer' Ends Bid to Row Across Indian Ocean

Irish dude rescued by Japanese cargo ship. Probably wearing clothes now.

As Scandals Go, 'Weinergate' is Lame

He's embarrassed. Yes, it figures. But so what?

British Scout Association Now Recruiting Gays

We can only hope that the Boy Scouts of America takes note.

Strauss-Kahn Pleads Not Guilty to Sexual Assault

In the end, who will jurors believe, and how certain will they be?

Dating 'Dos and Don'ts' ... from 1949

Video is hilarious, creepy, and, yes, sort of about your parents.

John Edwards Indicted Over Covering Up Affair

Yes, we know it was stupid and ugly. But was it criminally stupid and ugly?

Bromance: Our favorite on-screen male/male couples.

The Bromance: the most versatile relationship two (or more) characters can enjoy. It's uniquely suited to the varying desires of a full-spectrum public: to some, it's a depiction of buddies. To others, it's an exploration of how strong the bonds of friendship can become. And for still more viewers, it's the fun of watching guys constantly engage in behavior that can be read as strongly homoerotic.

'Weinergate' the Biggest of Current Twitter Scandals

Have you changed your password lately? Because this could happen to anyone, right?

The Queering of Renly and Loras in Game of Thrones

At first glance, the depiction of Renly and Loras as a homosexual couple in the Game of Thrones appears to be a radical departure from the novels on which the televised version is based, but upon closer inspection, it was there, it just wasn't so...outthere.

Video Proof that Men Stare at Women's Breasts

We know. You're shocked. But the boob-cam doesn't lie.

Severed Penis Held as Evidence of Bangladesh Rape Attempt

In the U.S., this used to be known as "bobbitting."

eHarmony Says: Most Popular Daters Have Traditional Names

This couldn’t be because it’s a really traditional dating site, could it?

Virginia Weighs Privatizing Sex Offender Rehab

State is spending $97,000 per inmate annually for 'civil commitment' program.

SexCult: Get Confident, Stupid!

Many people think it’s reason that separates us from the animals but I think the opposite is true: it’s belief.

Nigerian Dating Scam Foiled

Pennsylvania man could have lost $46,000.

Trouser Snake on a Plane?

In general, masturbating in public is not a good idea. In case you didn't know.

That Noise in Steven Tyler's Head ... It's Rock 'N' Roll Reality

Aerosmith frontman's autobiography heavy on the drugs (bad) and sex (good).

A Third of Berlin University Students Would Consider Sex Work

The costs of education being what they are ...

Connecticut Doctor Allowed to Practice After Conviction of Soliciting Minor for Sex

Okay, he's not a pediatrician. But do we hold doctors to a higher standard?

White. Straight. Cisgender male. How else may I piss you off today?

With a column called “Devil’s Advocate”, it shouldn’t be surprising that I write a lot of things people disagree with. Fortunately, I welcome people challenging my opinions (and, as frequently happens, proving me wrong).

‘Love’ Won’t Save Former Sen. John Ensign ...

... but we knew it had to be part of the story, somehow.

Solicitation: The Secret Life of Johns, Part Four — Violence and Sex Work

Is the Long Island Serial Killer a john? Searching for the truth about violence and sex work.

Prostitution in Game of Thrones – Who’s Fucking Who?

While it’s true that prostitution is seen as a vice in the world of A Song of Ice and Fire, it’s a legal and even acceptable one, with brothels spread throughout the kingdom of Westeros — from Mole’s Town near the Wall in the north, all the way down south to King’s Landing. What’s most interesting about the sex trade in Game of Thrones, however, is who it ultimately exploits and weakens.

British Chaplain Starts Gay Male Farmer Helpline

Volunteers needed. Some farming knowledge is, well, helpful.

Research Reveals that Men Do NOT Think about Sex Every Seven Seconds

We know that you thought they did, and you were apparently wrong.

Chatroulette Hiring Full-Time Penis Watchers

Yeah, we SO want THAT job on our resume ...

Appeals Court Upholds Dismissal of Porn-Viewing Teacher

Even 67 seconds of "blonde" can get you fired.

Penis Size Doesn’t Matter—or Does It?

I’ve never whipped out a measuring tape in bed so I can’t give you precise numbers, but I think I can safely say I’ve slept with men with penises ranging from very small to gigantic. Most have been somewhere between those two extremes and the big lesson I’ve come away with is: size is not what makes someone good in bed, not by a long shot.

Condo Deal Jeopardized by Loud Leather Sex

Neighbor: “… it frequently doesn't sound as pleasurable as it is.”

Naked Marathon Runner is Tasered and Arrested

Oh, and the cops laughed at him, too ...

If Dad Isn't Having Sex with Mom: Beat Him Up?

And go for a walk on the Interstate, first. That'll teach him.

Unzipped, with Porn, Drunk and Driving ...

Wait, it gets even better.

Shocking Survey: Not All Men Want Only One Thing

Some guys actually want less sex. Okay, so it's really not that many.

Want to Know About a Guy? Look at His Hands

Longer ring finger means more attractive. (And more likely to go to prison.)

Just say "No" to Meth ... and to Scrunchies Around Your Balls?

Drugs, once again, lead to very bad decision-making.

Men: Are You Suffering from “Short Penis Syndrome”?

We're so glad they finally came up with an official name for this ...

Alexander DeVoe: The Elixir of Porn Lust

Ethnic porn director Alexander DeVoe doesn’t know how to play nice when it comes to his career as one of the busiest filmmakers in the porn business.

Lighthearted Comment about Semen Leads to Surgeon's Resignation

Valentine's Day column in “Surgery News” offends some feminists.

Prince William's Stag Party a Non-Event

But princess-to-be Kate has already had pole-dancing lessons.

“Weaker Sex” Line Draws Fire at Arms Company

Chairman of Safran apparently didn't get the no-sexism memo.

Cops Arrested in Peoria Strip Club Brawl

Yes, Peoria. Where they just tried to outlaw a swingers club ...

Match.com Will Screen for Sex Offenders

Woman who says she was date-raped goes on "Good Morning America"

Facebook Belly-Dance Posts Cost Woman Her Divorce Settlement

Ex-husband and judge figure out she's not exactly disabled.

Restraining Order Against Groom Lifted in Time for Wedding

Talk about getting off on the wrong foot? But we love happy endings ...

Alleged Rape Victim Wants Match.com to Screen Out Predators

We feel awful for her and disagree with her at the same time.

Evan Emory Gets Jail for Joke Youtube Video

Funny or not funny, we don't see how this is necessarily a crime.

Demi and Ashton Fight Sex Trafficking Online

The videos are a little bizarre, but their hearts are in the right place.

Berlusconi Says $87,000 was for Beauty Equipment, Not Sex

Of course it was. Who would pay $87,000 for sex? Um ...

The Man Project: Danny Wylde

Meet your newest porn-crush. Danny Wylde has a blog in which it’s all too easy to lose hours while engrossed in his writing. He writes honestly and articulately about what he does for a living: starring in porn. Danny's been in mainstream adult films, was around for the heyday of alt porn and often stars in feminist films. Through it all, he has quite a following among female fans of porn.

Man Robbed His Own Sister at Adult Video Store

... We're left wondering what mom thinks of all this. You know?

“Sex Offender Registry” for Murderers?

Illinois bill would make released killers trackable, too.

Woman Claims Gender Discrimination Caused Her Heart Attack

$150M lawsuit says workplace hostility nearly killed New Jersey woman.

Wellesley HS Volleyball Coach Resigns After DVD Mixup

... (As though high school boys have never seen porn before?)

Solicitation: The Secret Life of Johns — Part 1

In the last few years the media has become inundated with stories about sex workers: feminist sex-workers; high-end, blogging call girls; coerced trafficking-victims. But in each, the buyer remains faceless. Even the word “John” conjures a shady, hidden, back alley-image. This is what I set out to uncover.

Fishing Camp Could Lose Cabins for Renting to Paroled Sex Offenders

Indiana town hopes to sort this out with a zoning variance.

Howard Stern Says He Doesn't Need That Much Sex

But shock jock still “sort of” admires Charlie Sheen.

Harvard Doctors Say Obesity is “Unmanly”

The facts are on their side, but we're wondering about their tact.

Post-Cancer Male Fertility Procedure Gets Results

Sperm extraction and IVF succeed for some dads.

Ross Douthat vs. Susie Bright on Monogamy and Happiness

We're thinking maybe these two ought to go on tour.

Book About What Men Think About (Besides Sex) is an Unexpected Hit

Two hundred blank pages. We might have guessed.

Bra Thief Heads to Jail Just as Girlfriend is Getting Out

Maybe he should have stuck with “It’s the thought that counts.”

Seattle Man Naked and Growling and and Tased and Arrested

You know how sometimes nudity isn't sexy? This is one of those times.

Prostatectomy Goes Horribly Wrong

If you are a guy, you probably should not read this.

New Hampshire Lawmakers Would Criminalize Airport Security

Don't touch, don't view—pat-downs, body scans assailed.

Harry Reid Wants Nevada to Outlaw Prostitution

Senate majority leader's suggestion not as popular as he hoped, perhaps ...

Dr. Pepper Ten is “Just For Men”

And to prove it, they will tour the country in a mobile “Man Cave” ...

Toronto Officer Disciplined, Apologizes for Telling Women Not to Dress Like Sluts

From the dept. of “People are really supposed to know better by now ...”

Sexual Assault Cases Put Spotlight on Notre Dame

University police criticized for mishandling rape cases.

Justin Bieber Headed for Feminists Most Hated List

In interview, teen idol expresses extreme views on abortion.

Louisiana Sued Over Sex Offender Law

Convictions for gay prostitution force registration as sex offender.

Steal This Valentine

We have a video or three, a great song and some cards. You're all set.

“Penis Chronicles” Paired with “Vagina Monologues”

Occidental College Plans Sexy Start to V-Week.

Craigslist Dating Brings Down New York Congressman

Anonymous woman spills all to Gawker, speculates on why Lee resigned.

Study of Singles Suggests Changing Expectations

Survey says more guys want love, more women value independence.

Australian Sex Party Fights for the Right of Adults to Wear School Uniforms

Every country really ought to have a Sex Party, don't you think?

Calling All Strippers: Dallas Needs You

Adult clubs staffing up for Super Bowl week.

Sexy Anchorwomen Distracting to Male Viewers

Yes, we know you're completely shocked by this.

The FDNY 2011 City of the Brave Calendar Event: Hot, Hot, Hot!

New York City Firefighters Enflame the Crowd for a Good Cause

Some Things Never Change in Dating Advertising

Inane advice for the desperate: It's everywhere.

Building a Bridge Between the Genders, Part I

First of all, let’s dispel a common myth: that there are only two genders. The world is not neatly divided into male and female. In humans as in nature, some individuals are born with gender characteristics that place them in a third category: Intersex.

The Man Project: Eon Mckai

Minnesota Man Makes Bomb Out of Vibrator

Stupid, dangerous plot against ex-girlfriend goes awry.

James Franco: “Maybe I’m Gay”

Actor tweaks the media, says he's just interested in great roles.

Crying Turns Men Off. Seriously.

Chemical signal in women’s tears apparently says, “Not interested.”

Oh, You Sexy Lizard!

Contemplating a world without men ...

Texts from a Stalker

Once again, Twitter has helped me to write my post when thousands of people recently shared texts that they received from stalkers. It was awesome. And terrifying. Also, if you’ve ever sent any of these you need to get help. Really.

Navy Investigates Racy “Morale Boosting” Videos

“... there's a really good chance you're gonna be offended.”

When a Sex Crime is NOT a Sex Crime

Wisconsin teen must register as sex offender for non-sex offense.

Buff Obama Bans Bare-Chested Photos

Presidential pectorals are out of bounds for photographers.

Hefner Tweets His Christmas Engagement

Playboy octogenarian to marry Miss December 2009.

Remembering the Victims

Community comes together to end violence against sex workers.

Hair Loss Drug Blamed for Impotence

Bald may be the better choice, as Propecia side effects disputed.

Swiss Bank Rules Employees with a Lingerie-Free Fist

Here's a dress code that we can't live with. How about you?

Free (Virtual) Blowjobs at This Year’s Adult Entertainment Expo

Somehow, we think there's going to be a long line ...

Older Men—Way Older—Still Have Satisfying Sex Lives

More than half of those surveyed enjoy sex in their 70s and beyond.

Kilted Marchers Divided Over Underwear

Gay For Pay

Six years ago, a young couple in San Francisco decided to offer up their sex as commodity for voyeurs. They managed to attract quite a few customers, including many gay men who, as Chris describes it, “Were only interested in watching me fuck a girl.”

Rebel Love: Unconventional in Denver

For this installment of Rebel Love, we meet two men who describe how their romance bloomed in a climate of multiple sexual relationships.

The Man Project: David Jay

David Jay is an asexual activist. He’s the founder of AVEN, the world’s largest online asexual community.

The Whore Journals, Part 15: Played and Playtime

Dear White Guys: An Open Letter

The Man Project: Zak Smith

Online Dateless

The sea of online love is vast, and there are a lot of fish in the ocean. If you don't want to wind up looking like a bottom feeder, you have to have to dangle the right bait. So, put away those night crawlers and read on.

Male Sex Slave Ring Busted; Condoms, Camels and Fashion; Sex Doll River Rafting in Russia

In a case that defies society’s double-standard toward men and sexual exploitation, authorities in Spain have busted a human trafficking ring that held captive over 60 male sex slaves.

The Naked Reader: Sex and Travel Cinema

Men and Women Both From Earth, Cool Mill Offered for Naked Obama Prank

Old “neurosexist” ideas about the differences between genders are being challenged by scientists—specifically the notion that men are biologically from Mars and women are hard-wired for Venus. Turns out, it may be more nurture than nature than previously thought.

Manscape Architecture

In the spirit of “less is more,” many men have found a new use for their old beard trimmers.

Chastity for Dudes

The Man Project: Grant Stoddard

Mad Max Overboard, Iglesias Naked Thanks to Spain, Women Most Beautiful at 31

This weekend, recordings surfaced of Mel Gibson verbally abusing his ex-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva. The backlash has made Gibson the butt of many “smile and blow me” jokes.

The Doghouse for Al Gore, No Sex in Space, but More on the iPhone

Of all the things to call Al Gore, “Crazed Sex Poodle” is not the first one we’d think of, but apparently, one woman called him just that after claiming that Gore demanded sexual favors during a massage.

The Man Project: David Steinberg

The Whore Journals, Part 9: John Speak

It's not so much the words as the meaning behind them.

Do Men Already Know Everything About Sex?

The (Sex) Toy Story

Ruminations from a middle-aged man who thought the sexual revolution was over, somebody lost, and things were pretty much the same.

Tuesdays With Nina: Do I Need A New Dance Partner?

How do you even begin to figure out if you should stay in a relationship with problems, or leave in search of a better match? Do you get counseling? Do you go with your partner or alone? If your partner won't dance with you, do you need a new one?

The Man Project: Michael Alvear

Sexis debuts The Man Project with an opening salvo from relationship expert, Michael Alvear, and learns that the true test of a man is about much more than the level of his testosterone.

The Whore Journals: Part 7: Further Reflections on Whoring Around...

Pussy worship and the eyes of a wolf. Growl!

The Naked Reader Book Club: Public Displays of…

Just How Tough IS It, Being a Straight Guy?

Oh, the plight of the poor, straight male! “Pity me,” he cries, “for the weight of my entitlement is mighty, and I am weary from too much testosterone.” Wait … What’s that sound we hear? Why it’s the world’s tiniest violin… playing just for you.

From Hung to Humiliated: The Dark Side of Cuckoldry

Dr. Dick on Demand: Sex Work and the Herky-Jerk of Supply and Demand

Providers and consumers are two sides of the same coin; the operative word being coin. Few things are more troublesome to the social hierarchy than the notion of sex for money. And yet, as the saying goes, there’d be no supply if there weren’t a demand.

The World AIDS Day Project: Boogeyman Logic—A Requiem for Matthew

Seeing the future doesn't mean you can change it. Remembering the past won't keep it the same. But sometimes, though separated by long years and even death, a friendship can endure.

The High Artifice of Girl Watching

Dolly Parton has said that it takes a lot of money to look cheap. And it’s true. Women spend a fortune on all manner of things to look younger, thinner, taller, bustier—to get noticed. It’s no secret. We want you to look. That said, there are right ways and there are wrong ways.

How I Grew Up to Be a Sex Journalist

There are not many writers who actually plan on writing about sex as a career. You might say it’s something that just kind of falls into our laps (pardon the pun). Some of us are well-studied counselors and professionals; others are ex-porn personalities looking for life after the performance. So, how was it that I ended up in this particular field?

The Secret Pursuit of a Secret

To paraphrase Andrew Vachss: A man who has a fetish will seek out women who he wouldn't normally find attractive if those women agree to and provide that particular fetish. In fact, that man might even prefer these women to those more attractive to him-more his “type”—if the ‘less’-attractive women provide him with his fetish more than women he's normally attracted to.

Just Looking 101: How to Scope Out Guys without Being Creepy or Getting Caught

Guys love it when people look. It’s the kind of shock and awe that leaves us riding high on dopamine and suddenly increased self-worth, even if secretly so. But let’s be honest. In a very practical sense, there’s clearly a right way and wrong to way to scope out guys. The right way is flirty and fun. The wrong way? Well, it might just necessitate a visit from Nancy Grace.

Pondering the Penis

Even today, when we men are encouraged, seemingly mandated, to embrace sensitivity and nurture our feminine sides, the penis defines in large part what it means to be a man. It defines our masculinity biologically...right?

What Hollywood Teaches Us about Being a Daddy

Or, how to successfully combine parenting, fatherhood, and sex...

B, B, & B: Baseball, Bud Light, and the Bromance: A User's Guide to Conducting a Successful Bromance

Bromance tastes great and it’s less filling! So for all you guys who want to hook up with other guys—without the hooking up part—just say: “Buds Lite, please!”

A Man Who Has it All...?

Most men have one thing in common: they'd really like their penises to be bigger. And the world’s taken notice: ‘male enhancement’, as it’s so wistfully called, is a billion-dollar industry, hawking everything from herbs to pills to diet fads to pumps, with varying results. So what’s it like to have been kissed by the gods—what is life REALLY like with a BFD (Big Fucking Dick)?

The Nominalism of Masculinity, Machismo, and Manly-Manliness

What is masculinity, anyway? Is it a single, inert thing – or is it open to anyone’s interpretation? Can you buy it, steal it, rub up against it, or administer it in pill form?

Prostating the Obvious: Prostate 101

Guys – are you getting the maximum oomph out of your sex life? If not,
you may be missing out on the joys of a hidden part of your anatomy -
your p-spot.