Listen up, kids. The word of the day is “dooced.” (No, not “douched.” That’s something else entirely.)
“Dooced” is when somebody gets fired for what they write online. It’s named for Heather B. Armstrong, the first person to get fired for blogging in 2002. The company she worked for whipped out the pink slip after objecting to less than flattering opinions she shared on her site, Dooce.com.
Heather didn’t challenge her termination, but did have some pertinent advice for fellow bloggers:
“BE YE NOT SO STUPID.”
Many never listened. In fact, there is a litany of stories online about people fired for opinionating online.
“Dooced” is when somebody gets fired for what they write online. It’s named for Heather B. Armstrong, the first person to get fired for blogging in 2002. The company she worked for whipped out the pink slip after objecting to less than flattering opinions she shared on her site, Dooce.com.
Heather didn’t challenge her termination, but did have some pertinent advice for fellow bloggers:
“BE YE NOT SO STUPID.”
Many never listened. In fact, there is a litany of stories online about people fired for opinionating online.
Is blogging worth the risk? It depends on how interesting and free you want your life to be. In our society, you get punished for stepping outside the cage.
We all have a choice - we can keep our thoughts private, or we can share them. If our thoughts are boring, we won't risk offending anyone. If our thoughts are daring and make other people uncomfortable, there will be a reaction and consequences.
If I kept a food blog or book blog detailing what I ate or read everyday, no one would care. Sex is a different story. That's when fear and ignorance come into play.
Like Nina Hartley said in her community interview, our society is sick. I think addressing the root of that fear and ignorance is critical if we aspire to becoming a healthy culture. It all boils down to mutual respect and empathy.
I love (sex)blogging, and hope to be able to do it without hiding some day. Things are complicated right now (yes, due to getting "caught" with a blog), but I certainly think the adventure was worth the risk.