My orgasm/squirting experience
Before my boyfriend, I always enjoyed touching myself. I would sometimes masturbate five times a day. I watched porn and I saw a girl squirting and screaming in pleasure, but as much as I tried to ram my fingers inside myself I could never make myself squirt. Even when I had toys I could never reach my g-spot very well without hurting myself.
When I engaged in sexual behavior with my boyfriend, we kept penetrative sex out of the question so it left fingering for me and blowjobs for him. Most nights he would touch me and put his fingers inside me. I don’t know how he learned to do this but he tells me he learned how to give me amazing orgasms with his fingers just by watching my reactions. Since he was so in tune with my body he was able to make me squirt for the first time.
We were very confused by it at first because the only other time I squirted was when I had run the bath water under my clit until I came. Because I was in an awkward position, I couldn’t escape the running water and it made me cum harder than anything I had felt. I wasn’t sure what I saw since I was under water but I felt something fly out of me and I felt something hit my leg.
Again and again he was able to soak the bed with my “ejaculations” and we pretty much accepted that yes, I was able to squirt. He was very turned on by it especially because he loves to watch me climax and he knows exactly what to do. I personally cannot make myself squirt which makes me a little sad but I guess it makes anatomical sense because he has better leverage and I cannot press up hard like he does in a come here motion with two fingers. His fingers are not that deep inside me but it’s all about where he puts them and the motion he makes.
Squirting feels like a rushing pee if you were to sneeze so hard that you can’t stand it. My whole entire vagina feels filled up even though his fingers are not deep. He only uses two arched up fingers while I lay on my back. We have tried other positions but it doesn’t work. My g-spot orgasm is much different from a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal orgasm, if you believe ladies can have different types. I believe that pretty much they are all the same but accompanied by stimulating different locations of the nerves connected to your most sensitive parts.
Vaginal orgasms for me usually involve lots of thrusting deeply and I know all of that motion does stimulate my clit but not directly leading to my orgasm. My clitoral orgasms involve direct stimulation on my clit. This kind of orgasm for me takes a very long time these days and my clit is finicky and the intensity is either too much or too little that it doesn’t matter what kind of toy I use. My g-spot orgasms are more easily achieved with finger stimulation by my partner about 3-4 inches inside my vagina.
I would like to know who else has similar experiences to this and those who claim to squirt, how did you find out and what do you do to achieve it? I am sharing my experiences because I know some women do not claim to have different types or orgasms but all of them feel different to me and I crave some on some days more than others.
When I engaged in sexual behavior with my boyfriend, we kept penetrative sex out of the question so it left fingering for me and blowjobs for him. Most nights he would touch me and put his fingers inside me. I don’t know how he learned to do this but he tells me he learned how to give me amazing orgasms with his fingers just by watching my reactions. Since he was so in tune with my body he was able to make me squirt for the first time.
We were very confused by it at first because the only other time I squirted was when I had run the bath water under my clit until I came. Because I was in an awkward position, I couldn’t escape the running water and it made me cum harder than anything I had felt. I wasn’t sure what I saw since I was under water but I felt something fly out of me and I felt something hit my leg.
Again and again he was able to soak the bed with my “ejaculations” and we pretty much accepted that yes, I was able to squirt. He was very turned on by it especially because he loves to watch me climax and he knows exactly what to do. I personally cannot make myself squirt which makes me a little sad but I guess it makes anatomical sense because he has better leverage and I cannot press up hard like he does in a come here motion with two fingers. His fingers are not that deep inside me but it’s all about where he puts them and the motion he makes.
Squirting feels like a rushing pee if you were to sneeze so hard that you can’t stand it. My whole entire vagina feels filled up even though his fingers are not deep. He only uses two arched up fingers while I lay on my back. We have tried other positions but it doesn’t work. My g-spot orgasm is much different from a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal orgasm, if you believe ladies can have different types. I believe that pretty much they are all the same but accompanied by stimulating different locations of the nerves connected to your most sensitive parts.
Vaginal orgasms for me usually involve lots of thrusting deeply and I know all of that motion does stimulate my clit but not directly leading to my orgasm. My clitoral orgasms involve direct stimulation on my clit. This kind of orgasm for me takes a very long time these days and my clit is finicky and the intensity is either too much or too little that it doesn’t matter what kind of toy I use. My g-spot orgasms are more easily achieved with finger stimulation by my partner about 3-4 inches inside my vagina.
I would like to know who else has similar experiences to this and those who claim to squirt, how did you find out and what do you do to achieve it? I am sharing my experiences because I know some women do not claim to have different types or orgasms but all of them feel different to me and I crave some on some days more than others.
Loved your story! I agree completely -- there are different types of orgasms. Those who beg to differ simply just have not yet achieved a different type than what they are used to, but with enough information, I think we'll all get there one day!
Anyways, I too have g-spot orgasms, and just like you, can't exactly get it quite right by myself (even with my Pure Wand!) but my partner can have it happening in less than a minute with his fingers and less than 5 minutes with the Pure Wand (the wand is just taking some getting used to). However, when you say "squirt" do you mean it actually jumps out and reaches a distance each time you have a g-spot orgasm? Just curious. I've tried for that, but mine just comes out in large flows, not shooting out. I don't know why that makes me sad! LOL. I guess there's this idea that we should be able to make it shoot out. Ugh! Lol. Anyways, I'm just happy to have a g-spot O on most days. That should be good enough for me.
Also though, I have x-orgasms (cervical orgasms) which I recently wrote an article about, but those too are so very different from the clitoral or g-spot orgasm! The cervical orgasm doesn't come as often for me as clitoral or as quickly as a g-spot O, but I do enjoy those!
Geez. I love reading all about different O's and how each person's works. Thanks for sharing this.
I have come to the conclusion that very few women experience this type of orgasm.
I married a man twice my age and when I came for the first time for him he literally FREAKED out! He had been with plenty of women before me and NEVER experienced this. He thought that is wasn't possible and that squirting in porn was fake. I made a believer out of him and now he ALWAYS remembers a towel for intimate time.
As for when I first discovered my body did what it does? Well I lived in a sheltered home and didn't start touching myself until I was 17. As far as I can remember it has always happened and at first i just thought it was my weak bladder but I looked it up online after it happened a couple more times and came to realize it was completely normal.
And to help Kendra30752 with her "squirt" or "Gush" question /concern I have noticed if I hold my O in for a while I end up with a "Squirt" but if I go in relaxed and just let everything happened it is more of a "Gush" or as my hubby calls it "Flood"
Its nice to be able to talk to others about this that find it "normal" and not weird so thank you!