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by
WrapAroundKarl,
Jul. 07, 2023
Embarking on a journey of sexual exploration can be thrilling and transformative. It was for me, at least. If you're considering delving into the realm of Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) or Penis Play, it's essential to prioritize safety, consent, and communication.
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by
ThatGuyWithTheToys,
Jul. 07, 2023
In the realm of sexual exploration, there are countless avenues to embark upon. From vanilla experiences to those that push the boundaries of kink, the spectrum of pleasure is vast and diverse. Today, we delve into a practice that is often misunderstood and misrepresented: Cock and Ball Torture (CBT). Let me begin with a disclaimer - it's not for BDSM folks only.
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by
HoneyBunnyBee,
Jan. 29, 2022
As couples who have a low sex drive, and just can't figure it out. This all how it started from my husband.
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by
ConfidentAdult,
Jul. 11, 2016
It's a question women often wonder about, or maybe that's just me!! If my hubby's ever looking for some sort of reward for being nice or doing something nice he always opts for a blowjob as his prize, not that he needs a prize for doing anything nice, but that's the way men think. They think "one good turn deserves another" and that equates to a blowjob in their minds.
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by
Princess-Kayla ♥,
Sep. 23, 2015
Growing up, I always knew I wasn't "normal". I always liked to take time out of my day to do things that you would typically see younger kids doing. I wanted to play with toys and color. I wanted to watch shows about friendship, and talking animals while other girls my age wanted to watch teen dramas. Now I've figured out that I'm what is called a "little", a term used mostly by the BDSM community and I'm finally feeling like I can embrace this part of me instead of holding it back!
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by
Mistress M.,
Aug. 05, 2015
I was introduced to my life partner's wife's life partner. Every visit was a complete bust. I'm hoping the next visit will go much better then this last one.
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by
bodyxblunts,
Jul. 26, 2013
CBT? Cat Bondage Time? Cool Body Temp? Cock and Ball Torture is more than high heels and winched faces. Power play and love go hand in hand.
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by
TheDP,
Jul. 02, 2013
We've all got stuff. Sometimes it gets in the way of supersexyfuntimes. Come with me and explore one, very effective for at least one couple, way of dealing with distractions.
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by
TheDP,
Jun. 25, 2013
No matter how much we know ourselves or each other our sex lives are like sharks, they have to keep moving or they die. So we've got to be open to changing what we think about sex, especially when you're trying to keep a relationship going longer than a week.
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by
zj22,
Jun. 11, 2013
In my previous article, How to Submit, I mentioned that it is important to be able to take punishments as a submissive. After my article was posted, it received a comment which left me stunned. Then it hit me. I had never explained the various types of punishments, and it was assumed that all BDSM punishments were purely physical. This article will explain the various forms of punishments often used and why each one may be selected and put to use.
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by
requiem dreams,
Jun. 10, 2013
When it comes to mixing BDSM dynamics with mental health and adverse reactions to medicines, it can be enough to frustrate most.
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by
TheDP,
Jun. 09, 2013
Restraining your partner can be fun, bonding and loving, and it can be as much or as little drama, dogma and homework as you like. There are sources on the internet that make it seem impossibly complicated, incredibly specific and terribly difficult. It doesn't have to be. Sometimes it starts with a single tie.
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by
TheDP,
Jun. 08, 2013
Contrary to what you might think because of media portrayals, bondage can be an incredible tool for intimacy in an otherwise perfectly normal relationship. You don't have to collar your spouse, wear crazy leather gear or inflict bruises to really reap the benefits of a little power exchange.
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by
TheDP,
Jun. 07, 2013
Just thinking about new things (or even old things in new ways) can completely rewire how you think about sex. Seriously, just give it a go.
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by
TheDP,
Jun. 04, 2013
You can be normal and still love and respect a woman enough to blindfold her, tie her to a wall, and make her scream.
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by
Zandrock,
Jun. 02, 2013
Today I want to look at masochism and help those who are not masochists potentially understand why someone might enjoy pain.
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by
Zandrock,
Jun. 02, 2013
Today we are going to discuss orgasm denial. What is it? How do you do it? Why do people like it?
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by
Katelyn,
May. 30, 2013
Let's discuss the history of kink, as well as some ways that you can implement some kinky practices into your own life.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 30, 2013
Today’s article is going to focus on an activity called facesitting. We are going to learn what it is, how to do it, why people like it, and some safety concerning it.
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by
zj22,
May. 27, 2013
Submission is all the craze now, ever since Fifty Shades of Grey hit the shelves last year. But what many people don't know is how to submit. Submission is so much more than being tied up and being spanked. Submission is, simply put, yielding to another, but sometimes that’s harder than it appears.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 21, 2013
Today’s guide is going to discuss erotic asphyxiation, what it is, and the major safety concerns it has.
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by
KrissyNovacaine,
May. 21, 2013
All too often on forums, social networking, and blogs, I hear the same question over and over again. "How can I be a feminist if I am a submissive?" Feminism and being a submissive are nor mutually exclusive. I am quite happily both things.
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by
oneeyedoctopus,
May. 21, 2013
I'm interested in why BDSM appeals to some people and not others. There isn’t any conclusive reason available but I consider theories related to pathology, genetics, and early development.
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by
KrissyNovacaine,
May. 19, 2013
Roles, we are all assigned them. Even when we are playing with kink and fantasy, it still seems that we end up in roles that are assigned to us. I love my kink, and I love my dynamic. I let my Dom beat me until I am black and blue. I am not a masochist.
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by
KrissyNovacaine,
May. 19, 2013
There is nothing about fisting that doesn't sound terrifying, but it has become one of my favorite treats during sex. It is safer than you may think, and it is incredibly intense (physically and psychologically) on so many delicious levels. Don't write it off without at least doing a little research first!
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by
inkky,
May. 16, 2013
We all know that long distance relationships are hard, but what if you add BDSM into the mix? Both BDSM and long distance relationships require a lot of work to maintain just by themselves. If you happen to combine the two, you're in for a wild ride! Here is part two on how to keep the kink alive when you're apart.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 15, 2013
Today I want to talk about what wax play is, what you need to do it, how to clean up after it, and some safety concerning it.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 13, 2013
Today I want to discuss bondage hoods. We will talk about what bondage hoods are, and we will discuss some safety issues surrounding them. We will also discuss how you can incorporate them into your play sessions.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 13, 2013
Today I want to talk about how I found my partner. My partner was originally not kinky at all; I introduced her to the world of kink. I want to discuss some of the tips and tricks that I discovered while doing this.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 12, 2013
Today we are going to discuss what mummification is, what you need to do it, and some safety tips you should know about.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 11, 2013
Today we are going to discuss erotic humiliation, what it is, how lots of people go about it, why people like it, and what are some safety considerations you should have.
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Zandrock,
May. 11, 2013
Today we are going to discuss blindfolding your partner, what you want to look for in a blindfold, why anyone would blindfold their partner, and what are some things you can do to your blindfolded partner.
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by
Zandrock,
May. 11, 2013
Today we are going to talk about self bondage. We will discuss what it is and how to go about it, as well as the risks that are associated with it.
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by
LittleMissMeow,
May. 09, 2013
Wouldn't life be grand if all the kinksters of the world could run around in latex catsuits and spiked leather corsets, flogging each other and kneeling at their Master's feet under the table at McDonalds without worry? Unfortunately, the world is not quite ready for that; however, it IS possible to keep some of the kink alive, even when your local church group may be watching. Here are some tips to "vanilla-ize" your kinky relationship when necessary.
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Zandrock,
May. 09, 2013
Today we are going to look at various household items that be used for some BDSM fun. These are items that you likely have sitting around your house right now, too. We will discuss what you can use, and the pros and cons of each item.
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by
KinkyKatieJames,
Apr. 29, 2013
Cuckolding is a term that I have heard a lot of people discussing lately. As someone who engages in this fetish, I would like to shed some light on it.
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by
zj22,
Apr. 22, 2013
STOP! Before you delve into the world of BDSM power plays, there’s something you should know. Whether you're subbing or doming, you should know about the emotional and sometimes physical roller coaster that is the scope from subspace to sub-drop. The extreme highs and lows have risks of their own and can be incredibly intense for all persons involved.
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by
Zandrock,
Apr. 22, 2013
Today we are going to look at forced feminization; we will see what it entails, what the attraction is, and how people commonly enact it.
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by
Zandrock,
Apr. 21, 2013
Today we will explore munches. What is a munch? What is the etiquette surrounding them? How can you get involved in one?
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by
Gdom,
Apr. 20, 2013
Not all leather is created equal. Shopping for a flogger requires knowing the differences between the wide variety of leathers available. Whether you like a sting, thud, or all of the above, this guide will teach you some of the important essentials about different leathers, and is an important first step in finding the flogger that's right for you!
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by
Zandrock,
Apr. 20, 2013
One of the common things I see people asking about is where they can find a kinky partner. People say that "it is really hard and difficult to find someone who is into the same things" as they are. So, in today’s article we are going to discuss some of the common places where you can find a partner who has similar interests as you.
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by
Zandrock,
Apr. 19, 2013
Today’s article focuses on what do you do once you have finished playing a partner; it's something called aftercare. We will look at what aftercare is, as well as how you do it.
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by
Lacey-,
Apr. 15, 2013
If you're into S&M, or have a partner you fancy who is, having a higher pain tolerance can definitely be beneficial. So here's some information on how to raise your pain tolerance.
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by
raven pixie,
Apr. 03, 2013
Having worked as phone sex operator and a professional dominant, I have had many unusual experiences.
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by
zj22,
Apr. 02, 2013
It’s that moment; you’ve come a long way, whether physically, emotionally, or both. You're now standing outside the door, the door that will lead you to meet your dominant or submissive cyber-partner for the first time. You take a deep breath, try to calm your nerves, and go through the door. This moment of the first face to face meeting can potentially make or break your relationship from this point on. Handling this moment is a huge deal.
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by
Zandrock,
Apr. 01, 2013
Today we will talk about more advanced predicament play scenarios. Most of these require some additional equipment, planning and set up, but you will be rewarded with complex and interesting scenarios.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 31, 2013
Today we talk about what predicament bondage is and I will share some example scenarios that you can place your sub in.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 31, 2013
Today I want to talk about Pet Play. This is a type of role-playing seen within BDSM, in which one individual takes on the persona of an animal and the dominant becomes their owner/trainer/controller. Today we will discuss why people like pet play, and the toys most commonly used with this type of play.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 31, 2013
This article is going to focus on the different types of electrodes and where on the body they are used.
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by
yargle,
Mar. 31, 2013
While being independent in certainly important, the ability to allow ourselves to depend on others is also just as vital.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 30, 2013
Today we talk about a new type of play called electrosex. Electrosex uses electrical stimulation to cause pleasurable sensations.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 30, 2013
Today we look at nipple clamps. What are the differences between the styles? How does the intensity between them change? And what other features do clamps have?
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 29, 2013
Today, we look at collars, and the value and meaning that they have to many individuals.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 29, 2013
In part 1 of learning to hit your partner, I discussed how you mentally prepare for some impact play if you are uncomfortable with it. Today, I want to talk about some strategies about actually implementing it.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 28, 2013
The act of learning to hit your partner, when they ask for it, can be difficult for some people. This article helps explain why someone might enjoy it, and how you can learn to be okay with fulfilling your partner's sexual desires.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 28, 2013
BDSM equipment can often be quite pricey, and there are often too many choices and it makes it very hard to decide what you want to buy. Today we will discuss the different features of bondage cuffs and hopefully help you pick what suits you best.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 26, 2013
Today we discuss what are limits, why should I talk to my partner about limits, what is the difference between a soft and hard limit, and what are some ways you can discuss your limits.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 26, 2013
Today we are going to discuss what is a safeword, do I need a safeword, and how do I used a safeword. This will in turn allow you have better and more fun role playing sessions with your partner.
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by
Experiment,
Mar. 26, 2013
For me, independence isn't something I ever thought about. It was a natural consequence of being surrounded by independent women, who taught me the importance of doing things oneself and to take pride in being able to take care of myself.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 26, 2013
The art of hitting a person with an instrument can create a large array of pleasant, erotic, and unique sensations. Today we will talk about the different types of toys, and how they vary in each category, and what effect that has on the experience they create.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 26, 2013
Today we explore how to make a wooden paddle. This articles talks briefly about how and why people spank, before discussing in detail how you can create your very own paddle and fulfill all of your spanking dreams!
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 25, 2013
Today we will talk about pegging. We will discuss: what it is, how to go about doing it, why people do it, and the different toys you can use for it.
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by
Princess-Kayla ♥,
Mar. 24, 2013
If you're kinky, you may have heard of sub-space, or a sort of euphoric state that subs occasionally cross into during a scene. When I first found my kinky side, I thought just being part of a scene was causing me to dip into sub-space, but then I actually fell flat into it, and it was amazing.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 24, 2013
So you're interested in BDSM and you go to buy some gear. You see prices of 100, 150, and 200 dollars and your heart sinks a bit. There's no way you can afford that, but have no fear. Below is a guide on how to make a very effective, but also very cost efficient, spreader bar.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 22, 2013
There are many implements you can use to tie someone up. One of the most versatile of these is rope. Today's article will focus on the different types of rope and positions associated with rope bondage.
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by
Zandrock,
Mar. 21, 2013
Chastity play is a type of BDSM that denies a person the ability to have sex and masturbate. Today, we will talk about it, what toys are used to enforce it, and why someone would enjoy the experience.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 21, 2013
Today's article will focus on cock and ball toys. These are male toys that focus on the penis and testicles. We will learn about the different types of toys that exist, the sensations they provide, and why people might want to try them.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 21, 2013
Many couples are looking to add something new to their sex lives and with the recent advent of BDSM becoming more mainstream, many look towards it as an activity, but are unsure where to start or what it is. Or you may have an interested partner, but do not really know what BDSM is about. So, in the following articles, I want to explain what it is, why someone would like that, and how to safely do it. Today's articles just understanding what it is.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 18, 2013
BDSM play often involves a lot of toys, and deciding on the one that suits you best can be difficult. This article focuses on why people use gags, what the different types are, and how to safely use them.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 18, 2013
When it comes to BDSM equipment, it can get very costly very fast, and you may not even be sure if your fantasies will line up with what you truly like. So here is a guide to make a very cheap yet fun rope flogger. So you can both have a flogger with which to have fun and do a test run to see if you want to invest in the future.
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Zandrock,
Mar. 16, 2013
So you have decided you want to try out the big world of BDSM, but where in the world do you start? You start with talking to your partner. It is the fundamental aspect of BDSM and I will tell you why.
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by
novanilla,
Mar. 15, 2013
Freedom from possession, jealousy, and control by my partners is a really important part of my relationships. I value my personal independence in making decisions about my body, finances, and life, even down to what I wear.
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zj22,
Feb. 25, 2013
As children we've all played doctor at some point, and there are so many 'naughty nurse' costumes available on the market it's no wonder some people have a medical fetish. That urge to be examined and taken care of is almost a basic need. For others the role is reversed and they can't help but relish in the power that goes with playing doctor, nurse, or dentist. But what is medical fetish, who does it, and what do they do?
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by
Mwar,
Feb. 14, 2013
Here, kitty, kitty! Come and take a glimpse into the world of Petplay. Know what it is and what it isn't.
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by
zj22,
Feb. 10, 2013
Consensual non-consensual (C.N.C.) is sometimes thought of as 'rape-play.' When done correctly and with respect for your partner, C.N.C. can be a very passionate and enjoyable thing. We've all had fantasies of being home alone and suddenly our partner dressed as a burglar comes in and 'burgles' us. The very idea of a trusted partner taking us forcefully and making us enjoy it can be highly erotic. C.N.C is a way to safely explore these fantasies and enjoy them fully.
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wrecklesswords,
Jan. 26, 2013
Most nights when the lights go off, there is that moment where sex is a possibility before drifting off to sleep. My heart races and I can feel the blood rushing to my lady bits in a wonderful wave. As my fingers wander around her skin, hoping to catch something, there's always the thought in the back of my head "Will this happen tonight?"
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by
Cowgirl-Cutie,
Jan. 19, 2013
This is my journey in submission and finding who I really am. Self-discovery can be a long, hard road with many bumps along the way. How do you tell your partner that you desire more in your relationship? Is it hopeless if you are married vanilla?
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inkky,
Jan. 16, 2013
What do you do when "YES, YES, YES" turns into "NO, NO, NO?" Safewords are an invaluable tool to have when you are involved in rough play. In this guide, I will explain what a safeword is and why they are good to have, because in the BDSM world "No" doesn't always mean "No."
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by
yargle,
Jan. 14, 2013
It's never an easy choice to make, but when the mother and father cannot reach an agreement, how is a plan of action eventually reached?
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by
Experiment,
Jan. 09, 2013
While I do acknowledge that a father has rights, I simply can't view a scenario in which they trump a woman's rights.
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by
dooboige,
Jan. 09, 2013
I like to be spanked. Why? Several reasons, all of which I talk about here.
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by
yummyinmytummy,
Jan. 09, 2013
While it's tempting for single mothers to view their contribution as the only one that really matters, it's important to acknowledge the role of father to a child.
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by
wrecklesswords,
Jan. 07, 2013
The choice to have an abortion is one of the many things that empowers us as women. The right to make a choice for our own bodies. However, a child is not created by just a woman. Should the father have a say in the case of an abortion?
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Ayumi,
Jan. 04, 2013
Being pregnant is already a difficult thing. However in life, nothing is simple and abortion is possible. Abortion complicates things enough in itself, but the right to choose exacerbates debates and blurs lines. What about the rights of the father? I posit that his rights only extend so far, but as usual the answer is not entirely clean cut as the one I suggest.
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by
LuckyLady,
Dec. 27, 2012
In this article, you will learn about cock-stuffing, or urethral play, and the risks associated with it. While urethral play can be a gratifying sexual experience, it can also harvest unseen dangers.
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by
SavingMyself,
Dec. 22, 2012
When you start planning your first scene, you want to do everything you can to make it as perfect as possible. What you might forget is to plan what will happen after the scene is over.
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by
SavingMyself,
Dec. 21, 2012
When you first find the world of BDSM, one of the things that you probably want to do is learn as much as you can. A good way to do that is join a fetish website so that you can connect with like-minded individuals. But like with everything else, there are both good and bad websites.
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by
T&A1987,
Dec. 20, 2012
Remember that governor who disappeared, claimed he was hiking the Appalachian Trail and was really in Argentina with his mistress? He wants another chance at being your latex salesman.
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by
SavingMyself,
Dec. 16, 2012
Just because you're a submissive doesn't mean you aren't responsible for your actions.
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by
SavingMyself,
Dec. 16, 2012
People that are new to kink often ask "how do I explain my kink to my family and friends?" Whenever I see this question, I wonder why they feel the need to tell people.
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by
SavingMyself,
Dec. 16, 2012
When you're new to the world of BDSM, you might find it difficult to pick out your limits when there are many types of play you've never been exposed to.
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by
SavingMyself,
Dec. 15, 2012
There are many things that you may hear when you start researching about BDSM that might make you tilt your head and go "huh?" Here are a few of them that aren't always true.
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by
SavingMyself,
Dec. 15, 2012
When it comes to D/s relationships, there are so many labels that it can get a little confusing. Here is a guide with a basic explanation of some of the more common labels.
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by
TheSinDoll,
Dec. 09, 2012
Loss of control - where the fantasy can take you if you continue allowing it to be a fantasy.
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by
Loriandhubby,
Dec. 06, 2012
With "50 Shades of Grey," the once hidden world of kink, fetish, and BDSM has stepped out of the dark shadows of society and is now front and center in the limelight. Not only in book stores, but also on many university campuses across America, the world of BDSM is coming out of the closet and its practitioners are finding acceptance.
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by
AHubbyof2SexualMinds,
Nov. 28, 2012
This month's theme here at SexIs Social is sexual freedom. We are free to express ourselves sexually, but we are all influenced by different people. When it comes to sex, your spouse or significant other can definitely play an influential and large role in your sexual life and identity.
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by
pandasauce,
Nov. 27, 2012
Does casual sex have to change the way that you communicate fantasies with your partner? This is a look into answering that question from the perspective of a girl who thought she was the kinkiest girl in her cornfield town, and the friend-with-benefits who proved her very, very wrong.
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Ayumi,
Nov. 26, 2012
People have touched upon Sex & Religion in a variety of ways. However, I think there is more talk about "don't feel guilty" and less about why people feel guilty despite all "logic." This article is partly personal in nature, but for those who still feel guilty despite all the sermons and debunking, perhaps the answer is that most of us cannot quite put our finger on where the guilt is coming from – and it might be a whole lot more than just religion in the water.
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SavingMyself,
Nov. 26, 2012
When it comes to pain lovers there are two types of people: the givers and the receivers.
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by
SavingMyself,
Nov. 25, 2012
Especially if you're new to BDSM or even just playing with a new partner, it's a good idea to have a safe word.
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by
SavingMyself,
Nov. 25, 2012
RACK is the counterpart to SSC in the BDSM world. In some ways they are very similar and in other ways they are very different.
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by
Experiment,
Nov. 25, 2012
Women have made amazing progress from where we once were. We run the family and bring home the bacon. We are now the majority of college students. However, there is one area in which women are still horribly behind: science.
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Loriandhubby,
Nov. 24, 2012
How does a person figure out that they like sex differently from what is thought of as "typical"? The stories are as unique as the people who enjoy BDSM. Each person takes their own path. Some paths are scarred with abuse. Surviving an abusive relationship leaves many wounds. All too often, it affects many areas of life for years to come. One area that was difficult for me after leaving my ex, was intimacy. For me, it has taken years to accept my own kink; to let go and let myself enjoy it.
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by
skeeterlynn,
Nov. 23, 2012
When people think of "Abuse," they usually think of physical abuse, such as beating. Physical abuse is common and dangerous. Many men, women and children are beaten and injured, and a large amount are losing their lives. These are the cases we hear about. We wonder, "Why won't they leave?" and tell ourselves that we'll never be in that situation. People think that's the only type of abuse. If they aren't hitting me then they aren't abusing me, right? Wrong. Mental abuse is abuse, too.
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by
js250,
Nov. 20, 2012
We all grew up with this schoolyard saying, using it in defense when others would say something that hurt us or called us names. How accurate was that little saying and has it played a part in society's lack of acknowledgement of mental and verbal abuse? As an adult, do you know the signs and the result of mental abuse? Are you an abuser, either intentionally or accidentally?
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by
Lacey-,
Nov. 18, 2012
How being a submissive Daddy’s little girl has helped me work on my anxiety.
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by
SavingMyself,
Nov. 14, 2012
SSC is probably the most common principle followed in regards to safety in the BDSM "world."
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by
MidnightStorm,
Nov. 12, 2012
I spent almost two years of my life in a relationship with a man who told me that he hated he hated me often, explicitly detailing what a horrible person I was and how I had ruined him. This is my story, how I got out, and what you can watch out for (for yourself and your friends) to avoid the same thing.
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by
Lacey-,
Nov. 12, 2012
Long distance and D/s... it's like someone went looking for a complicated style of relationship to be a part of. But with the right emphasis on communication and patience with common issues, they can be a breeze.
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by
Molly Carter,
Nov. 11, 2012
Although most of us know how to give a good blow job, there are certain things you can do to bring your submission into your technique. Try one or try all, but giving head will never be the same.
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by
Lacey-,
Nov. 09, 2012
A lot of people seem to be kind of "grossed out" by the thought. There's definitely a taboo around calling your partner Daddy. If you're someone who wants a Daddy Dom and little style dynamic, this can make it hard to tell your partner about wanting this. But it doesn't have to be hard.
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by
Renee Rose - Spanking Romance Author,
Nov. 04, 2012
How can submitting to a spanking possibly build confidence?
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by
SavingMyself,
Nov. 03, 2012
When you hear the words Daddy Dom, you probably internally (maybe even externally) cringe and think "Ew gross." What you probably don't know is that a Daddy Dom has nothing to do with incest or pedophilia. It has to do with wanting to take care of your partner like a Daddy does.
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by
Gracefire,
Oct. 27, 2012
In the frame of sex positivity, can BDSM be described as healthy, while still recognizing that it can be unsafe?
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Tessa Taboo,
Oct. 26, 2012
You want to get into a 24/7 BDSM relationship, but don't know where to start? A contract is a great place to state what you expect to give and receive, and a great way to keep the lines of communication open.
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Mistress M.,
Oct. 26, 2012
I recently spoke with a friend of mine who was having trouble with her "Owner." She's a pet, an actual pet, a Nekko, as it is standard to be called. However, when her Owner started dating a new woman, things around her house changed rather quickly. The relationship that they had has degraded.
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AHubbyof2SexualMinds,
Oct. 24, 2012
Roleplaying is a healthy and exciting way to explore new avenues in your sexuality. Once you get used to being someone different you can have all sorts of fun and explore your desires in a safe environment.
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js250,
Oct. 11, 2012
Have you ever watched someone practicing their punching and speed on a small punching bag that is dangling on a chain hanging from the ceiling? The little bag flying back and forth, never veering from its path as it goes back time after time for another punch? Have you ever wondered what would happen if only one time that little punching bag veered off course and actually fought back? Once upon a time I was a little punching bag, and I veered off course and fought back. This is my story...
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KrissyNovacaine,
Oct. 07, 2012
My lifestyle and business have become a fad. One would think that I should be jumping for joy, but I am not. I feel disgust and shame. I don't want to be a Halloween costume. It's not a pleasant feeling.
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Mollena,
Oct. 03, 2012
I am never impressed by sheer brutality in BDSM. I AM impressed when someone can evoke a DESIRE for sheer brutality in BDSM.
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Smokedawg,
Sep. 19, 2012
So we talked about household items that can stand in for kink toys. But what about the festishes you can't replace with a ping pong paddle?
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inkky,
Sep. 18, 2012
As promised, this is part 2 of my previous post on submissive journals. In this section, I will focus on how to start and maintain your own Sub journal. As well as a starting guide, I will include helpful tips and tricks for writing and formatting your journal, things to consider when choosing a site, important posts to include in your journal, writing prompts, suggestions, and ideas to help you get started.
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inkky,
Sep. 17, 2012
In one of my previous articles, I briefly talked about having a sub journal. I've decided to expand on the subject a bit more, since I received some questions. This is part one of a two part series. In this section, I will focus on why journals are important and also address some common ways they are used. Part two will be a how to guide on writing, and some helpful tips and tricks I've learned.
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Molly Carter,
Sep. 15, 2012
You love sex, particularly kinky sex. But how do you know if you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, and become truly submissive?
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inkky,
Sep. 14, 2012
We all know that long distance relationships are hard, but what if you add BDSM into the mix? Both BDSM and long distance relationships require a lot of work to maintain just by themselves. If you happen to combine the two, you're in for a wild ride! How to keep the kink alive when you're apart.
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AHubbyof2SexualMinds,
Sep. 14, 2012
So you're interested in learning more about BDSM or even ready to start going down that road? Read on and I'll describe a few of the things that you might want to try out, without sending you running for the hills.
Fuck Machines Are Not Porn-Exclusive Anymore
Helen Fisher: Why we love, why we cheat
It's My Body... and I Finally Love Everything About It!
Sex Education: Science, not BS, please.
BDSM Fun and Safety
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