First you have "the talk." Remember, when it comes to a man's ability to perform, it's not what you say, but how you say it. Once you get to the root of the problem, you can both start on the path to solving it.

After you've figured out what's behind your partner's ED, it's time for the fun part: Toys! Nina walks you through a hands-on how-to for toys that can facilitate harder, hotter sex. Never used a cock ring before? Not to worry. Let Nina be your guide.

Got something you want to ask Nina? (Of course you do.) Drop her a line at tuesdayswithnina@gmail.com. Now, while can’t promise that every question received will get a personal response, however, those that do will be answered frankly, entertainingly, enlighteningly and, if we know Nina, in the spirit of happy, healthy sex and a satisfied libido.