There is no shame in being you.
Shame Doesn't Belong In The Bedroom. Put up a sign do not disturb, Shame KEEP OUT! Too many people put taboos on how we think and what we do. I want you to have fun try some new things, but first, I want to be clear that sexuality is not shameful. Our bodies are built for sex and it is as natural as breathing. A healthy sex life, with a curious mind, make for a happy body. Sex might not be necessary for life, but it's a vital part of life and limiting yourself sexually cuts a big chunk out of your life.
We were born with everything needed for sex added to a curious nature. As we grew into adults our sexual appetites grew and we were finally given reason to use those tools. As we grow we explore everything, our tastes in food, how we learn, our personalities even our tastes in people. We explore who we like and don't like through friendship, we seek out different things in different people. We talk, learn, and experience to decide who we want to be around. Why is it okay to explore everything from food to people with so many things along they way, but when it comes to sex the lines are drawn. Our taste in sex is as much a part of us as our taste in food! It is hypocritical, in the extreme,to insist on never trying new things sexually.
Other people should not be allowed to limit our thoughts or censor our actions- more importantly we shouldn't limit ourselves in such a way. Why would you want to censor who you are and what makes you, you? Shout it to the world, or keep it to yourself, just don't stop yourself from exploring something so natural. Sex is in our basic make up, it's a part of who we are. Do what it is you want and as long as you feel comfortable with it!
If you enjoy the fact that something is considered taboo then good for you! That is another taste, just like with our friends, sometimes people telling us, "No," means we want to do it so much more. Just remember that whatever your preferences are, as long as they are legal, and your partner is willing, have fun. Make your bedroom,or your entire house, a shame free zone and just go with the flow.
Exploring the world of sexual toys
Adding a little spice to sex can never be a bad thing. It’s nice to have sex with your partner, but add a little something different every now and again and you can make something great, spectacular! Using a toy or sexual aide isn't an insult to you or your partner, it’s just taking things to the next level. Whether you’re having sex with a partner, or just having a little fun by yourself, even the smallest things can take things up a notch.
So many people these days like to place shame upon bringing anything but another person into the bedroom. The people who would make you feel ashamed of your sex life, and exploring your sexuality, belong in the Dark Ages. It is ironic to me that we are supposed to be living in an open world, but the more the world moves forward the more some people dig their feet in and insist on repressing anything new. It’s natural to be curious in the bedroom, whether by adding some spice with a partner or doing something enjoyable just for you. Do what feels right and try new things, you’ll feel better and have a lot more fun.
EdenFantasys is probably the perfect site for learning about sexual aides. The reviews will give you pointers on how to properly care for and use the sexual aides sold there. SexIs Articles can give you the tools you need to combat the shame those around you might decide to heap on you about sex, as well as information about different practices and tools you can buy to spice things up.
Taking your love life up a notch can go anywhere from something minimal to the extreme. If you are new to the world of toys, games, clothing, and other sexual tools you can do anything! You don’t have to jump into the deep end, just dip your toe into the water. Sexy lingerie, a small vibrator, a dab of perfume or massage oils are great for just a little fun without making yourself or anyone else uncomfortable.
So if you’re looking add a little zing to your sexual encounters enter the rabbit hole and figure out which flower to pick, or how to make the Cheshire Cat grin. Welcome to Wonderland have fun and enjoy the ride!!!