There is no shame in being you.
Shame Doesn't Belong In The Bedroom. Put up a sign do not disturb, Shame KEEP OUT! Too many people put taboos on how we think and what we do. I want you to have fun try some new things, but first, I want to be clear that sexuality is not shameful. Our bodies are built for sex and it is as natural as breathing. A healthy sex life, with a curious mind, make for a happy body. Sex might not be necessary for life, but it's a vital part of life and limiting yourself sexually cuts a big chunk out of your life.
We were born with everything needed for sex added to a curious nature. As we grew into adults our sexual appetites grew and we were finally given reason to use those tools. As we grow we explore everything, our tastes in food, how we learn, our personalities even our tastes in people. We explore who we like and don't like through friendship, we seek out different things in different people. We talk, learn, and experience to decide who we want to be around. Why is it okay to explore everything from food to people with so many things along they way, but when it comes to sex the lines are drawn. Our taste in sex is as much a part of us as our taste in food! It is hypocritical, in the extreme,to insist on never trying new things sexually.
Other people should not be allowed to limit our thoughts or censor our actions- more importantly we shouldn't limit ourselves in such a way. Why would you want to censor who you are and what makes you, you? Shout it to the world, or keep it to yourself, just don't stop yourself from exploring something so natural. Sex is in our basic make up, it's a part of who we are. Do what it is you want and as long as you feel comfortable with it!
If you enjoy the fact that something is considered taboo then good for you! That is another taste, just like with our friends, sometimes people telling us, "No," means we want to do it so much more. Just remember that whatever your preferences are, as long as they are legal, and your partner is willing, have fun. Make your bedroom,or your entire house, a shame free zone and just go with the flow.
We were born with everything needed for sex added to a curious nature. As we grew into adults our sexual appetites grew and we were finally given reason to use those tools. As we grow we explore everything, our tastes in food, how we learn, our personalities even our tastes in people. We explore who we like and don't like through friendship, we seek out different things in different people. We talk, learn, and experience to decide who we want to be around. Why is it okay to explore everything from food to people with so many things along they way, but when it comes to sex the lines are drawn. Our taste in sex is as much a part of us as our taste in food! It is hypocritical, in the extreme,to insist on never trying new things sexually.
Other people should not be allowed to limit our thoughts or censor our actions- more importantly we shouldn't limit ourselves in such a way. Why would you want to censor who you are and what makes you, you? Shout it to the world, or keep it to yourself, just don't stop yourself from exploring something so natural. Sex is in our basic make up, it's a part of who we are. Do what it is you want and as long as you feel comfortable with it!
If you enjoy the fact that something is considered taboo then good for you! That is another taste, just like with our friends, sometimes people telling us, "No," means we want to do it so much more. Just remember that whatever your preferences are, as long as they are legal, and your partner is willing, have fun. Make your bedroom,or your entire house, a shame free zone and just go with the flow.
Thank you for the reaffirming article. I sometimes feel like I want to tell everyone about how fun it can all be, and sometimes like I should be ashamed of myself. Society and culture can truly make you crazy!