I wouldn't go so far as to think that just because you visit and shop at the EdenFantasys website you're inherently a kinkster or hedonist. However, given the plethora of toys, orifices and protrusions with which they are designed to interface, all the varied costumes and the wide range of books and videos...well, I'd say chances are better than in most populations that a lot of you have at least a little “freak” inside you that knocks occasionally asking to be let out (or that bellows at you to obey her/him and do something nasty right now!).
A lot of you, though—while you may have untapped kinky desires or barely tapped ones or something that your sexual partner(s) want to try out for size on you—probably see more impediments between you and kink than you see pathways.
A lot of that is the usual: Kids, work, all the shows piling up in the DVR, the ever-growing “honey-do” list and so on. But even when time and mood may be favorable for a kinky escapade, there are two barriers that I think make people hesitant as much as the anxiety about trying something new, and those would be cost and convenience.
It may seem like (and may sometimes be true, too) a lot of kinky activities require a major investment of cost and time—or basic skills that need to be learned—that make it easier to just say, “How about we just 69 again and call it a night.”
Obviously, BDSM activities are a good example. Good whips, bondage items, fetish clothing and even specialized furniture could kill the average credit card limit in this economy. I can't help you with every challenge of cost and convenience, but as a guy with an interest in trying the vast majority of things once (and maybe twice if I didn't like it the first time—just to be sure), I've encountered the cost and convenience issues before. Granted, I still have a ton of kinky activities on the bucket list I haven't even tried yet, but at least I figure I can give you my wisdom on a few reasonably popular or well-known kinks I have dabbled in and speculate about a couple others—and then give you my experience and (so-called) wisdom on how to lower the barriers cost and/or convenience with regard to you getting a little freaky.
A lot of you, though—while you may have untapped kinky desires or barely tapped ones or something that your sexual partner(s) want to try out for size on you—probably see more impediments between you and kink than you see pathways.
A lot of that is the usual: Kids, work, all the shows piling up in the DVR, the ever-growing “honey-do” list and so on. But even when time and mood may be favorable for a kinky escapade, there are two barriers that I think make people hesitant as much as the anxiety about trying something new, and those would be cost and convenience.
It may seem like (and may sometimes be true, too) a lot of kinky activities require a major investment of cost and time—or basic skills that need to be learned—that make it easier to just say, “How about we just 69 again and call it a night.”
Obviously, BDSM activities are a good example. Good whips, bondage items, fetish clothing and even specialized furniture could kill the average credit card limit in this economy. I can't help you with every challenge of cost and convenience, but as a guy with an interest in trying the vast majority of things once (and maybe twice if I didn't like it the first time—just to be sure), I've encountered the cost and convenience issues before. Granted, I still have a ton of kinky activities on the bucket list I haven't even tried yet, but at least I figure I can give you my wisdom on a few reasonably popular or well-known kinks I have dabbled in and speculate about a couple others—and then give you my experience and (so-called) wisdom on how to lower the barriers cost and/or convenience with regard to you getting a little freaky.
i really like the plexiglass idea, but would be hard on the knees
plexiglass hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Thanks for firing my imagination.
Well, plexiglass was just theoretical, but glad to hear some input from folks who think it might not work well.
Great ideas!
thanks for the ideas